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Hi everyone, I'm Mihika. First time posting, i generally don't have much time, so i don't visit if as much. But i wanted to write this .
My analysis for every contestants. I may have missed a few episodes so something's may be fuzzy
I wonder what you all think
Dipika,
She is one of the members who has been targeted relentlessly from the beginning. yet not once has she crossed a line in argumentation, called anyone names, swore at people, etc.
I find her bond with Shree difficult because she does more for him than he for her. There isn't a balance, and I think she should think about limiting what she does for him when it comes at the cost of herself. However, when Shree is wrong, not once has she been reluctant to let him know, and reprimand him for his mistakes, and faces the brunt of his anger. Although, at times she does coddle him.
Deepika is also thoughtful and sensitive towards others. Especially when she went up to Somi to ask whether she would be okay if she raised Deepaks point, and respected Somi's decision.
She is a strong player, with an incredible level of patience! She did get worked up about the Saiya bhaiya comment, and there was a lot of backlash about that. However, maybe stronger words/insults don't have such an effect because she can ignore those more easily, however, when it came to her husband, she could not tolerate it. Many people have been been calling her fake for it. But forget that different things affect people differently, and in varying degrees. what one might think as more offensive can be nothing to another and vice versa.
All in all, one of the best members in the house.
Jasleen,
Jasleen is a member who, like Dipika, is one of the most targeted members. And what pains me, is that these "jokes" that are made at her expense, which more often than not are laying a finger about her dignity, her weight, and her bonds with other people.
Deepak passed a comment about her (mard/aurat) to KV, and for someone who shows outrage if his friends characters/etc are questioned, he said nothing. But instead he laughed! Moreover, this topic was not raised by anyone at the WkV.
Jasleen has survived in this house for so long because of her own merit, and the lack of support from the rest of the house. Though she is not my favorite contestant, she comes across as a much better person than the entirety of the HC.
My issue with her is the way she handles the negative attacks she faces. There is immediate yelling, and she fails to put her points (which for the most part are right) across in a way that make sense, and that can be appreciated, if not by the HM, then at least in the WkV.
KV,
KV is someone I genuinely liked in the beginning of the show, even when he was getting the criticism of not being seen, and participating. However, that has changed very fast.
KV is someone who is easily influenced. The first time when Shree came back and insulted Deepika, he sat there absorbing every word!
Now, as part of the HC, he can only see the mistakes of the non-HC, and overlooks all the mistakes HC members make.
1. The comment on Jasleen (as mentioned above) not did he overlook it, but he actively laughed at such a comment, which makes him responsible for that attitude.
2. "personal mat jaana" but it's okay if Surbhi talks about Shree, his family, his cricketing career, his jail term, his fights, bully's him to no extent. then he went there to enjoy the fight.
3. Hiding food, telling people that they can ask for whatever they need and he will give it. The problem here is that the food is not only his to take. It is there for everyone. Who is he to give people the food, it was a ration, given to the house by BiggBoss. Had he brought it himself, it would be another story.
4. Telling Jasleen and Megha that they are overreacting about the food. Please see point 3. It would be so insulting to ask for food that they should just be able to take from the kitchen, rather than asking someone for the "favour''
5. Telling Jasleen and Megha not to talk about serious things with Rohit and Deepak. "masi vaale hain, serious baat mujhse karo, Somi se karo" This in itself in completely ridiculous! The last time I checked Children were not permitted to participate in biggboss, or was I mistaken? If Rohit and Deepak cannot behave like adults, they have no business in the show. KV is behaving like they are his responsibility, and that no one should talk to them about their mistakes, or the poor things will feel bad. Also what an insult to Rohit and Deepak if KV says that they won't "understand"
6. Only telling Surbhi that she was wrong when Salman mentioned in the WkV. Before that, he was firm that only Shree was wrong.
I still believe that KV is a good person at heart, but an intensely hypocritical person as well.
Somi,
Somi, has some good moments, and some bad. I find her heart to be in the right place, but spreading roomers, and spicing up the story regarding Jasleen is unacceptable. Also hurting jasleen in the task. I don't have much else to say. Not a big fan, but by far not the worst contestant.
Megha,
Has calmed down a little. I think her reactions are too loud. She has no right to comment on peoples appearances, threaten them with a shoe, spit at them. Having said that, she was provoked, and is subjected to constant insults.
Romil,
Didn't like him before, having stepped away from HC, he has become a lot better. has his head in the right place as of now. Presently, does not intentionally irritate anyone, shows emotional intelligence, and seems to be fair.
Rohit,
I have a feeling Rohit only ever understands about 40% of what is happening. He is clueless, and blindly follows people around. His only job, as it seems, is to insult people, and laugh at them. That is it, that is all he does! He often tells Jasleen that she will go soon. However the difference is that he has only gotten to where he is by playing in a team of people who will support him.
And then there is the point that KV made for him, "serious batein inse mat karo"
Deepak,
Harasses people when they have specifically told him not to. If he did that in the real world. Or if someone behaved that way with me as he is with Somi, I would file a police complaint and have him suffer the consequences any harasser would. Pathetic!
Bullying people, insulting them is like second nature to him. The difference between the HC members and other members (not always) is that they insult with the intention to provoke, get a reaction, which they can then use to cry about and say, ohhh, we are the victims, did you see how the other person spoke to me etc etc.
I have no sympathy for people like Deepak. I hope he does face the consequences of his behaviours.
Shreeshant,
I don't like him. I think he is rude, I think he is in considerate, but I also think that he is thrown the most insults by others.
My problem with shree is the way he responds to people. In anger, he crosses the line far too often. What he said to Surbhi was unacceptable.
I also find his reluctance to do tasks annoying. He does no support Deepika the way she supports him, and I think Deepika needs a wakeup call regarding this and put herself as a priority, something that Shree is doing.
However, I do think that Shree responds as a reaction, and very few times (i'm a little fuzzy here since I missed a few episodes) does he start to antagonise people. However, he needs to watch what he says, and should not cross a line.
Surbhi,
I cannot stand Surbhi. Especially because she has the absolute worst idea of feminism!
She cries of feminism when people point a finger at her for abusing, for insulting people. I agree with her that she is accused of that more than men, but what she doesn't understand is that it is still wrong. She argues that she should be yelled at less, but I think the men with similar behaviours ought to be yelled at more.
DON'T USE FEMINISM TO JUSTIFY WRONG BEHAVIOURS!
Surbhi insults people not because she is reacting, but with the sole purpose of antagonising them, provoking them. and while doing this, she crosses so many limits, but always has her group of blind devotees supporting her no matter what.
She insults people looking for a reaction, and then when she gets the reaction, she cries saying she was doing it in fun, and they didn't have to say that, that this is her personality, and she is real. Well I am sorry, if this is your personality, to insult people, then you are not trying hard enough to be a good person. If it is your personality to make people feel bad, then you have no right to get offended when they clap back (this does not include what Shree said because that is not acceptable)
She got offended at what Shree said and rightly so. But she talks about other people, their character, namely Romil, and that is fine. Why? She knows how insulting it is to have your character being accused, but she went on her merry way to accuse Romil of being characterless, or defending Deepak for saying it to Megha, or even actively supporting Deepak when he went on harassing Somi after she said no.
Surbhi, if you don't like people behaving a certain way, Stop that behaviour in yourself first.
People who should be gone
1. Surbhi
2. Deepak/Shree
3. Rohit/KV
4. Somi/Megha
5. Jasleen
6. Romil/Deepika
