Why dipika acting like a doormat?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Whats wrong with dipika? She got better in past few weeks, was telling sree when he was going wrong but now again she is back to square one. Laughing at his demeaning conversation when he was talking about jasleen k utha k phek dunga. She did not utter a word when sree was talking bad about kv and going on his dad!!!
Okay fine stay with sree, support him in the game but dont act like a doormat and say yes to everything he says even when he is wrong.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Could it be that she has just given up on him and knows that no point in telling him anything, it wouldn't make a difference?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think she's acting like a doormat. 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I have a different take on this
she was close to Neha , once she left, she latched on to Sreesanth for support

I give a reference to stockhold syndrome coz thats what she is doing, they get attached to the abuser and think whatever the abuser does is justified and supports him coz she thinks she cannot survive in the house without him...


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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think you need to look up definition of doormat. Deepika ne Shree ko kayi kayi kayi baar jhaada he. But she knows not to kick someone when they are down. Thats called being a good human. Anyone that you genuinely care for you would do the same if they are going throuh a low in front of your eyes. When he is fine and just throwing a tantrum she takes him to task and gives it back. But she knew this was a touchy task for him given his past.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina59

I have a different take on this

she was close to Neha , once she left, she latched on to Sreesanth for support

I give a reference to stockhold syndrome coz thats what she is doing, they get attached to the abuser and think whatever the abuser does is justified and supports him coz she thinks she cannot survive in the house without him...




Literally, slow claps to your analogy.

Certain posts on this forum give me goosebumps of the worst kinds.

A man who is extremely respectful of three women close to him at present, is analysed to be a captor and the women (one in particular because she's sweet to him) his hostages who developed Stockholm syndrome for him. Literally. Wow. Wow. Wow.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Penfolk



Literally, slow claps to your analogy.

Certain posts on this forum give me goosebumps of the worst kinds.

A man who is extremely respectful of three women close to him at present, is analysed to be a captor and the women (one in particular because she's sweet to him) his hostages who developed Stockholm syndrome for him. Literally. Wow. Wow. Wow.


Sorry if u misunderstood it. Nowhere am I comparing him to a captor. I am kind of explaining, what the syndrome means and how it plays out.

Dipika feels alone in that house and has latched on to sreesanth. It's a fact that he has humiliated her many times, yet she still goes to him . They only met when BB started, you cannot form such a bond where you let a person walk all over you unless you have mentally latched on to him and see him as your savior and help.

That's typical in what people suffering from that syndrome does.

No offense if you got affected...peace


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina59


Sorry if u misunderstood it. Nowhere am I comparing him to a captor. I am kind of explaining, what the syndrome means and how it plays out.

Dipika feels alone in that house and has latched on to sreesanth. It's a fact that he has humiliated her many times, yet she still goes to him . They only met when BB started, you cannot form such a bond where you let a person walk all over you unless you have mentally latched on to him and see him as your savior and help.

That's typical in what people suffering from that syndrome does.

No offense if you got affected...peace



Dipika chose sree. She could otherwise be with anyone from kv to Megha in order to not be alone. They were ready to have her along.

Sorry, I can't stay at peace with the levels people are reaching with this particular relationship.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hina got bashed for not correcting Priyank when he talked shit about Shinde. Hope Salman bashes Deeepika too. But NO - that won't happen because Sree khas hai - all rules out the door for him.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yours is a minority opinion - one that I share. Regardless of how it's spun, and Sree's encyclopedia of excuses for both his ultra shitty behavior and non-performance aside, Dipika picks and chooses when to assert her self-respect, and she picks and chooses her support and company. She chooses to shout at others, but quietly say don't be rude when her bhai walks all of her. This guy is respectful to her? LMAO. She chooses to laugh when he disrespects others - she chose to stay mum when he went on KV's father 🥱

If her choices make her a sensitive hero for some, they make her a doormat for others - certainly the latter for me. And she also chooses to look down on others while defending the likes of Sree - so for me, even worse. And in the same vein, if Sree's behavior, his nasty abusive personality is understandable and excusable for some, it will be otherwise to others - and for me, he's simply nasty and a non-performer, who proves he's such everyday.

Plenty of people have seen bad times in life - some more so than him, and yet they don't make an excuse of pretty much any related scenario to get out of making an effort, and use that further as an excuse to abuse and threaten violence. Even when it's a scenario unrelated to his past, he finds an excuse - anything to avoid actually making an effort to perform. Aside from when he's uttering nasty shit, he's an intractable 5-year old.
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