Understanding Ajab - My POV - tamatars welcome :p - Page 3

Originally posted by: pri_b

hey hiru after reading ur post I can now confidently proclaim that u r one die hard ROSHNI WALIA fan 😆 ..

on a serious note, just yesterday in rati's post I had asked to whack ajab on the head, but but having said this, does not mean am upset with her obnoxious behaviour right now,

actually I just lurved ur post, ccompletely second ur thoughts...very well penned indeed.. 👏

if we see from ajab's POV, then she is rather in a hotch potch situation right now, on one side there's UD who is emotionally blackmailing ajab abt phool..she's completely in dark abt phool's feelings and m confused abt phool's feelings.. 😕...whatever... 🥱 ...

coming back to my point, I mean it would be equally frustrating for anyone I mean anyone if were in ajab's shoes..on one side there's phool her BFF and on the other side pratap her love..and both r closer to her heart...its like her brain is divided in two parts right now..
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that's where her strength is..not acting impulsively but practically... 😊

Horu,i don't knwo why u r supporting this thing by Ajab..😆 but i defo feel Ajab needs to be more of a solved person..loving Pratap isn't a big deal if she acted maturely..she is letting Pratap do those thakri acts and saying she wil marry Tota..here i feel at least Phool is better.. 🤔

More than your post hiru I agree with Jesu.
Chalo OK she is your bestbest friend but you can't sell your self respect. I found her so rude yesterday. How can a child take such a big decision wen his mother is there. She is giving do much importance to DB UDUD.

As Jesu said at one tym she wants pratap to go away from her and second tym she wants to come tease challenge and all.

So from this post I agree with u just 2%

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

Okay..time for some genius talks! 😆

Honestly..i m against such girls..😆 Ajab has turned into such kind of girls who themselves create problems and then accuse others for their stupidity..i m talking of real life! What she is doing?? If she is simply so much strong and idealistic then she should be clear..she is one side allowing Pratap to come close to her,tease her,challenges him and all..and other side saying she wanna marry Tota..?? she has lost the depth. So what?? ..even everyone has dear friends..but for a dear fiend u can not sell ur self respect..the way she is behaving it just a puppet,sometimes teased by Pratap,sometimes threatened by UD-DB and sometimes being simply stupid and shallow.. i m not liking this ..as a character it is just FOOLISH and like Ekta heroines.. !!!

Being Strong doesn't means u have to be stubborn..which i believed form earlier and so i loved her and chose her above anyone in the show..coz previously she portrayed a real strong character..but now for TRPs CVs has turned her into a shallow and stupid teenager! 😵

u know all this is happening coz Ajab is not one person...she is divided into two parts...her heart loves pratap...so she ends up making food for him or ends up praising him or ends up fighting with him...and forget all that, she even ends up dreaming of him picking her up😉😆

Originally posted by: 03Kamya

More than your post hiru I agree with Jesu.
Chalo OK she is your bestbest friend but you can't sell your self respect. I found her so rude yesterday. How can a child take such a big decision wen his mother is there. She is giving do much importance to DB UDUD.

As Jesu said at one tym she wants pratap to go away from her and second tym she wants to come tease challenge and all.

So from this post I agree with u just 2%

Kamu! 🤗🤗

thing is,what is happening it is showing how weak is Ajab! and it's okay she may act weak..but just becoz we like her we should not defend her..and i hate this sympathy psychology for anyone u like..even a murderer has some serious dark past in life..but do we support him??😵

and she is becoming shallow..if she have been just stupid i wld have appreciated it..but shallowness i can't digest it..😳 it seems she is only interested in Tota till Pratap is there..so even being a Rajput does she do it??her over mahan lectures doesn't suit her acts.😕 she is not sacrificing ..she is playing with Tota only..and i HATE such shallow girls..i wld have been happy,a lot more..if she wanted to get PraPhool married..it wld have made greater sense!

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

WOW! u being so mature..😛😆 exactly..and that's why i find Pratap behaviour more tharki these days..like it has nothing do with her personal issues ..he just wants her and going despo for this! Showing right and throwing weight are different things!🥱

oh he'll clean up on his act in rain sequence that will be our praja who are divine and soulful...and pure...coz he wont touch her or kidnap her😉😳 he had the chance but he wont do anything against maryada...so not fully tharki😆 but he needs to have a different approach...he tried convincing why he wants her...now convince her, why she should want him...thats why I have some serious high hopes from rain sequence...even that teasing on toranmal in rain sequence is correct...its a good start...

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

Kamu! 🤗🤗

thing is,what is happening it is showing how weak is Ajab! and it's okay she may act weak..but just becoz we like her we should not defend her..and i hate this sympathy psychology for anyone u like..even a murderer has some serious dark past in life..but do we support him??😵

and she is becoming shallow..if she have been just stupid i wld have appreciated it..but shallowness i can't digest it..😳 it seems she is only interested in Tota till Pratap is there..so even being a Rajput does she do it??her over mahan lectures doesn't suit her acts.😕 she is not sacrificing ..she is playing with Tota only..and i HATE such shallow girls..i wld have been happy,a lot more..if she wanted to get PraPhool married..it wld have made greater sense!

dit too yr. There is a limit of everything. How can she spoil 3 person life including her yrr.
At a point she and total so perfect for each other Dino jhootheee.

Made a post in main forum have a look

Originally posted by: Hiral_Halwa

u know all this is happening coz Ajab is not one person...she is divided into two parts...her heart loves pratap...so she ends up making food for him or ends up praising him or ends up fighting with him...and forget all that, she even ends up dreaming of him picking her up😉😆

and then there is another part, which is hurt...like HB said that she hasnt come out of the trauma of accusations thrown in by phool and DB...and coming to self respect...that is the thing which needs to tidy up the most...and Pratap has to has to help her there...she needs to believe in herself...thats always been the drawback of Ajab;s character and it continues...and I dont believe that she can come out of it on her own...I just want pratap to help her...

aise mat bol yaar...if she was shallow she would have never given a damn about phool...😳 she is strong, just that her reason is wrong this time...

and trps...I hope CVs understood that nobody wants to watch praphool bokwaas...the way trps dipped for last week...all becoz of praja sacrificing again and senseless praphool talks starting🥱 except for mala revelation the whole of last week was bokwas

And here is the point Hiru..for entertainment values,i may appreciate such double standards or activities..but as in a real person i can never appreciate it..it has become more touchy and being with each other,this haste..more than love or values right now! 😳

Well Hiru..i do believe Pratap should and needs to help her..but as i said I believe in firmness..anyone may hurt u in life but for that u should not do things like this..i thought she is mature,firm and kind enough to undergo such hurt issues..no matter how hard anyone.. hurts u if u r kind enough u can overcome ..and more than love aspect in life,sometimes u urself need to overcome it..u need to love urself first!

I don't know why but now whole scenario has turned into a shallow thing,it has lost the depth..!! And yes u may have priorities in life..it's not a must that ur loved one shld be ur priority like Ajab it is Phool and i can get it. Still,it makes no sense..coz if she had so much strong self esteem issues with Phool then there must have been some reflection there..in front of Phool she becomes like a slave..there is nothing so soulful there,just Phool dominates her..

Originally posted by: 03Kamya

dit too yr. There is a limit of everything. How can she spoil 3 person life including her yrr.
At a point she and total so perfect for each other Dino jhootheee.

Made a post in main forum have a look

yah she has turned shallow..!!!

okay checking!

Originally posted by: 03Kamya

More than your post hiru I agree with Jesu.
Chalo OK she is your bestbest friend but you can't sell your self respect. I found her so rude yesterday. How can a child take such a big decision wen his mother is there. She is giving do much importance to DB UDUD.

As Jesu said at one tym she wants pratap to go away from her and second tym she wants to come tease challenge and all.

So from this post I agree with u just 2%

Kammu re...no worries😛 I was expecting severe bashing for my post, but all in all the response seems to be better than expected😆