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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

So true love means staying away all night when husband/lover unwell and not eating till husband/lover eats is it??
From when did this be defintion of love???
This is typical showing indian wife making all sacrifices for husband.
Phool is not that she is a kid/girl who can fall asleep beside her injured husband which is what normal humans do and she can eat if hungry even if husband has not. She is a mature modern girl kind of values.


My dear, its not about the food and sleep its about the love and care. If your lover is hungry, then how can you eat blissfully, if your lover is sick and on his death bed, then how can you sleep, esp. when you needed to keep a constant eye on him. Thats the definition of love... and friendship. If Phool loves Pratap, then his leaving the food and going away would actually make her chase after him and pacify him to atleast gulp down some morsel of grain. I dont think Ajabde sacrificed her meal for his sake or anything. She wanted to make sure he ate something, instead of remaining empty stomach.
Edited by ItsAllGood - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I love PraPhool. Or rather loved it. The naughtiness, the cuteness, the CHILDISHNESS everything. But all the CV's are doing is hurting Phool (or will) and killing the sisterly bond.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

So true love means staying away all night when husband/lover unwell and not eating till husband/lover eats is it??
If its not called love then sleeping while your husband/lover is unwell and not even thinking once about your lover's apatite when he didn't ate anything can't be called love either.
From when did this be defintion of love???
Love means to care and ajab cares about pratap .
This is typical showing indian wife making all sacrifices for husband.
Why people put it this way when a wife cares for her husband . Caring doesn't mean sacrifice . About the typical indian wife thing , its in our culture husband is given the place of god . You have the problem with indian culture than ? PrAja are not married yet so lets not compare them with husband-wife but lovers. While phool didn't gave it a thought even for the sake of friendship .
Phool is not that she is a kid/girl who can fall asleep beside her injured husband which is what normal humans do and she can eat if hungry even if husband has not. She is a mature modern girl kind of values.
We know anyone will not die if she/he keeps awake for a day (minimum ).Don't we the normal people do it at the time of examination??Even a friend will keep awake if it will be more or less the necessity while Pool failed to do it . Mature/Modern girl should be more responsible isn't it ? but she failed to perform her responsibility.



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Edited by pankhudi_TiaRa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said pankhudi 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If husband/lover also treats me with equal care why not? But otherwise why wife/lover must only take all responsibility to show care first??? Pratap always behaving angry and bossy with the girls so why they should not show nakra?? That is why i like phool she does not bend to him and acts as bossy as him. When he acts nice she will also that's her funda. So why its so wronggg?? Till now Pratap was aloof and Ajabde all submissive and now he is chasing her and she is getting rude. When will they behave equal nice nice or rude rude???
If pati is parmeshwar so wife is also lakshmi so its not only wife should treat hubby like God even husband must treat her nicely equally.
Edited by myviewprem - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^I dont think Pratap has been aloof at all when it came to Ajab - m not sure where its coming from - if we look at the Bijolia days - there was equal amount of appreciation, and respect for each other...he dint leave a single opportunity to appreciate Ajab's goodness back then...whether it was comparing her to his mom, or whether it was appreciating her culinary skills, or whether it was recognising her quick mind...so its not like he bossed around Ajab and threw his weight around on her...and she ran behind him?😕 neither was she submissive, what is submissive suppsoed to mean? she was just being herself...who is nice, polite, compassionate...and caring...she wasnt forced to care for him...it just appeared from within
they grew fond of each other, simultaneously...so m really unsure, where this Pratap being angry with her comes from?
with Phool yes, he did act bossy...but thats because she kept up with her 'm the Marwar princess' rant all the damn time!😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This entire love track, I think, has been bungled by the CV"s- both Phool, Pratap, and Ajab.

For one thing, Praja is all about Ajab sacrificing her love. In Pratap's eyes there has been no indication that she cares for him- she's always telling him that she did things for him as he was a guest of her fathers, she told him to leave, and now she has quite bluntly told him that she has no wish to marry him. We know she cares for him deeply, but Ajab has become the captain of sinking her own ship. Why should Pratap say he wants to marry her when she has told him she does not want to marry him, and told his father in front of him that she thinks he should marry Phool?
Frankly looking back at the episodes I don't think its love per se right now. Just a deep appreciation of each other's qualities and a attraction- like caring for like. But the CV"s should have shown more attraction on Pratap's end- a dwelling on the qualities he likes about her, not just a replay of rejections. He hasn't really shown that he cares as much as we seem to think he does- he's running away more often than not!
Phool's character I have argued about and for ad nauseum. We've had the historical debate and come away with our own opinions. In the show she is a bewildering mix of different characteristics that make my head ache. But at the core of it, they are showing Phool as a teenage girl and Praja as almost mature adults, which makes them better suited. But I don't think it will be as many posters here seem to think- that Pratap falls completely in love with Ajab and is in love with only her. As I've said before, I think his relationship with Phool will be different, but just as strong, something that grows as she matures and molds herself into becoming his wife and his rani.
The beginning of the journey is just that- the beginning. The end comes when it does, and the journey itself can be as rewarding and as punishing as you make it. Hopefully Phool, Pratap, and Ajab will have a wonderful one.
Edited by apolloartemis - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: RoshDiva

wow apolloartemis ...well explained u think that Pratap isn't in love with Ajabde but is he in love with Phool already or he will realize it when Marwar raja will take Phool away from him I wish they do bcz Pratap behaves very cold with poor Phool she always tries so much efforts for him

I don't think he's in love with either girl, frankly. He likes Ajabde more, that is for certain, but I think, now, that like has been tempered by the fact that she does not seem to like him back. Long looks don't matter much if you're being told to your face that she wants you to marry someone else/does not want to marry you. Plus, he has constantly been telling his parent's that he will marry whosoever they chose- not once has he given any indication that he prefers Ajabde. Even JB remarks that Pratap does not know he likes Ajabde yet.
With regards to Phool I think she amuses him, he's aware of her bravery and beauty and he cares for her. He does not like her as much as Ajabde, but he knows about her attributes and traits.
It seems right now (and forever more) he is focused on the Mughals and the danger they possess and will act in ways that protect Rajputana.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem




If husband/lover also treats me with equal care why not? I think pratap also treated her with respect and cared for her remember he is the onewho always appreciated her , praised her gave her respect she deserved .He showed gratitude for saving his life. When the Afghans attacked and he saved all the people out there ,he took ajabdeh's hand and walked forth, this indicates the level of worry/care for her ,only for her. But otherwise why wife/lover must only take all responsibility to show care first??I think my dear, you are getting the wrong train here, we were talking about Praja and they are not married until now so lets go to how a hubby wife should behave. Although its a different thing that from their first meeting they are behaving like good companions and gradually fallen in love with each other. Pratap always behaving angry and bossy with the girls so why they should not show nakra?? I totally disagree he never behaved angry and bossy with the girls purposely without any reason never. Once he shouted at ajabdeh when she went to see him at night near the old temple and that was normal human behavior.She should not have gone there it was dangerous, again its a different topic that we totally wanted her to work in that location we enjoyed that picture very much .Once he shouted on the phool when he was looking for ajabde and went to the phool room by mistake because she was getting on his nerves which was normal again.What you will call phool when she called him Sankat to the rajpitana and all then? Didn't she act rude and insulting there. Didn't she show bossy and annoying attitude when she came up with the trashy idea of breaking Chakri's wedding and kept on throwing tantrums ? That is why i like phool she does not bend to him and acts as bossy as him.Pratap never deserved to be handled the way phool treated him and that's the reason Phool fallen for him or attracted towards him, as a normal person we never like/love the individual who acts bossy/rude with us. When he acts nice she will also that's her funda. Seriously, who says that???Phool is a brat she acts as she delights... She is lucky to possess a friend like ajabdeh who used to tell her what to suffice and what not as she don't throw any idea about good and defective. So why its so wronggg?? Till now Pratap was aloof and Ajabde all submissive and now he is chasing her and she is getting rude. When will they behave equal nice nice or rude rude???
Phool was always wrong ,sadly !🤢 Pratap was never aloof , he was/is always cordial/warm towards ajabdeh and ajabdeh was never all submissive she was being herself that's all.
If pati is parmeshwar so wife is also lakshmi so its not only wife should treat hubby like God even husband must treat her nicely equally.


Of course, dear, I concur and am glad that Pratap is and will going to treat ajabdeh nicely.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sorry,Neither Phool nor Pratap have any kind of emotional bonding with each other.So i don't get any kind of over hyped relation between them.Phool has some fan-girl-type crush on Pratap and Pratap doesn't even care for her(in a passionate way),yet he respects her as he knows how to respect female. 😊


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