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Posted: 13 years ago
Agree with u ... hope this separation will make them understand each other perspectives
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Posted: 13 years ago
Just a thought: what if M&M had succeeded in burning Guddu's home, then Guddu wouldn't have had enough money to buy Amma's house and then all of them would have been homeless: Amma, Runhjun, Guddu, M&M and their kids and who knows maybe Kukan and Mahadevi would have been in the hospital because their where in Guddu's home when it burned and their treatment would have cost a lot of money! That would have been a helpless situation for all of them.
Runhjun has pushed her luck because Guddu brought the house, but what if he wouldn't have been able to do that? Runhjun wanted Guddu to fell guilty for her relatives when her own relatives put the house in danger in the first place, Guddu had nothing to do with that!
Maybe Guddu wouldn't have been so intransigent in his decision of not letting M&M in the house again if Runhjun would have been more concern about his feeling and about how much he lost (emotionally and materially) in order to get the money to buy Amma's house. When she first heard that Guddu saved the house, her first thought was not at Guddu but it was to let her uncles back in the house.
But I'm not taking Guddu's side either because he promised Runhjun unconditional love and last night he showed her the door. The fact that she will always helped her M&M was not new to him and he always knew this from the very beginning of their relationship and now he comes out with "It is me or them!", that was just to much! If it is unconditional love, then it is unconditional love! Such a complicated situation! And I must admit that it does look real: people are always caught in a way or in an othe between their nuclear family and their extended family!
Edited by etna - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: etna

Just a thought: what if M&M had succeeded in burning Guddu's home, then Guddu wouldn't have had enough money to buy Amma's house and then all of them would have been homeless: Amma, Runhjun, Guddu, M&M and their kids and who knows maybe Kukan and Mahadevi would have been in the hospital because their where in Guddu's home when it burned and their treatment would have cost a lot of money! That would have been a helpless situation for all of them.

Runhjun has pushed her luck because Guddu brought the house, but what if he wouldn't have been able to do that? Runhjun wanted Guddu to fell guilty for her relatives when her own relatives put the house in danger in the first place, Guddu had nothing to do with that!
Maybe Guddu wouldn't have been so intransigent in his decision of not letting M&M in the house again if Runhjun would have been more concern about his feeling and about how much he lost (emotionally and materially) in order to get the money to buy Amma's house. When she first heard that Guddu saved the house, her first thought was not at Guddu but it was to let her uncles back in the house.
But I'm not taking Guddu's side either because he promised Runhjun unconditional love and last night he showed her the door. The fact that she will always helped her M&M was not new to him and he always knew this from the very beginning of their relationship and now he comes out with "It is me or them!", that was just to much! If it is unconditional love, then it is unconditional love! Such a complicated situation! And I must admit that it does look real: people are always caught in a way or in an othe between their nuclear family and their extended family!

Like your POV and @ bold that is the cruel reality of life where one always has to make a choice
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rani2007


(CVs) Maybe there needs to be more of a monologue from Runjhun's side on her internal conflict about how much she cares about Guddu vs. Why he doesn't understand her vs. how she cannot turn her back on Babli and Diamond.



I agree both are right in their own perspective, and it is quite complicated, and will only get more messed up with the other characters' entry.

I agree with Rani in what she said above, that would have eliminated some of the Runjhun bashing. Her actions and reactions somehow were shown inadequate last night.

Guddu has always been quite expressive and open about his feelings, be it love or hate. Maybe Runjhun needed to use better words to explain to Guddu, maybe she should have reassured him that she loved him and cared about him, especially when he was repeatedly and desperately trying to hear it from her, when he was saying all those things like "I am not family to you, only they are your family, you never cared about me, they are always above me...". She just stood there quietly like a statue when he was saying all that. She was stuck on the same tape of helping her M&Ms during their difficult times. Obviously that would make him even more angry and hurt.

Not just a monologue, but she needed to reaffirm her love for Guddu by expressing it to him. Maybe even after he bought the PN she could have shown a little more gratitude to him, acknowledged his generous gesture. The sullen face and constant concern for M&Ms surely didn't help.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: etna

Just a thought: what if M&M had succeeded in burning Guddu's home, then Guddu wouldn't have had enough money to buy Amma's house and then all of them would have been homeless: Amma, Runhjun, Guddu, M&M and their kids and who knows maybe Kukan and Mahadevi would have been in the hospital because their where in Guddu's home when it burned and their treatment would have cost a lot of money! That would have been a helpless situation for all of them.

Runhjun has pushed her luck because Guddu brought the house, but what if he wouldn't have been able to do that? Runhjun wanted Guddu to fell guilty for her relatives when her own relatives put the house in danger in the first place, Guddu had nothing to do with that!
Maybe Guddu wouldn't have been so intransigent in his decision of not letting M&M in the house again if Runhjun would have been more concern about his feeling and about how much he lost (emotionally and materially) in order to get the money to buy Amma's house. When she first heard that Guddu saved the house, her first thought was not at Guddu but it was to let her uncles back in the house.
But I'm not taking Guddu's side either because he promised Runhjun unconditional love and last night he showed her the door. The fact that she will always helped her M&M was not new to him and he always knew this from the very beginning of their relationship and now he comes out with "It is me or them!", that was just to much! If it is unconditional love, then it is unconditional love! Such a complicated situation! And I must admit that it does look real: people are always caught in a way or in an othe between their nuclear family and their extended family!



luvbbat, Edabella, Etna, and Pri01 - I could kiss all of you!! Thank you thank you thank you!! (Oh and you too Dhruvie05 😳)

Etna - @bold: That is exactly what shocked me yesterday!! I do take back writing that Guddu doesn't deserve Runjhun because they both deserve each other. I just cannot get over the fact that Guddu kicked her out in the middle of the night in the middle of the storm. I understand that it's for the development of the story and is needed to bring conflict but really!!

Let's hope the CVs do not butcher Guddu's character as they have butchered Runjhun's character in the past!😕
Edited by rani2007 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: dhruvie05

I notice that the quality is so much better in the last couple of episodes of BBAT..ever since they got the prime-time slot. The screenplay, the dialogues, the performances...absolutely wonderful!! Each scene is so heart-felt and touching. I was crying uncontrollably while watching today's episode, much to my own surprise..



You know what... I wonder if this is why the CVs were dragging the story? The whole auction thing and post episodes really had no storyline... It almost feels like the CVs purposely dragged the story so that the good stuff could air again once the new timeslot hit
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rani2007



You know what... I wonder if this is why the CVs were dragging the story? The whole auction thing and post episodes really had no storyline... It almost feels like the CVs purposely dragged the story so that the good stuff could air again once the new timeslot hit



I think this is why the story was dragged around the auction time..the last 2 episodes at new timeslot are power packed..such a show of emotions and of course fab acting by himmanshoo and nivedita..😉

having said that the other show BALH was also fab since monday..the cvs are really working hard to compete and all the best to them..
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Posted: 13 years ago
He needs to have a hammer with him at all times to hammer some sense into her head!!! Then they will be together.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@ Rani...Dhruvie...Pri...I like your posts...
You three have mention some good points and I agree with almost everything you guys wrote...
The only things I don't agree on are :
1. Guddu doesn't deserve Runjhun ...and Rani I know you didn't really mean that...
2. M&M reform...sorry I don't buy that...I still think that's all drama...( but I really wish I'm wrong here )
Like Dhruvie said...Guddu didn't throw Runjhun out of the house she decided to leave...she choose the M&M over Guddu. I do understand that she's fellowing her heart and in her mind she she's doing the right thing but how you look at it she did choose them over Guddu.
So for Guddu she choose his enemies over him...that's the reason Guddu went overboard...he's not only mad but heartbroken too that he's wife who he love with all his being doesn't love him the back ( anyway that's how it come over to him ). I know Runjhun love Guddu but her acting said otherwise...and asking Amma and Kukkan to take care of Guddu...doesn't mean anything to Guddu...
Guddu breaking the mirror just show how mad and broken he is...
I didn't like that Runjhun told the M&M that Guddu is a stonehearted person...why would she say that...
One thing Pri said and I have that feeling too is that Runjhun really thinks that after she help the M&M that she can go home and everything will be right with her and Guddu..like Guddu is going to forgive her just like that...because she keep saying she will help her M&M till things are good again and like Pri said what will happen after that...then she will worried about her marriage...
Come to it I enjoy the episode...was a very sad one...had tears in my eyes...was shocked to hear M&M saying all that to Runjhun ( didn't believe it but still )...I love all the characters on the show even though somedays I'm like hate the evil 6, what a stupid Runjhun, like to kick Guddu...that's all part of it and the credit goes to the actors who totally let me live with the show...I cant imagine not seeing one of the characters and that included even the evil 6...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rani2007



luvbbat, Edabella, Etna, and Pri01 - I could kiss all of you!! Thank you thank you thank you!! (Oh and you too Dhruvie05 😳)

Etna - @bold: That is exactly what shocked me yesterday!! I do take back writing that Guddu doesn't deserve Runjhun because they both deserve each other. I just cannot get over the fact that Guddu kicked her out in the middle of the night in the middle of the storm. I understand that it's for the development of the story and is needed to bring conflict but really!!

Let's hope the CVs do not butcher Guddu's character as they have butchered Runjhun's character in the past!😕

You know Rani...when some one is mad and broken like Guddu you can't think straight anymore and that's what happen with Guddu...she decided to leave him...she was the one who took the steps backward... he saw that and got furious and show her the way out...Guddu has a hard mind and on top of that stubborn...
I think the reason Guddu reacted more overboard then normal is because( he meantion his father ) in his mind Runjhun like his father didn't choose him...Runjhun by helping the M&M and his father by calling the police...

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