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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#61

If u are a selfless lover u will pray good for your lover and move on and know yourself that U r the reason for his marriage breaking and move away from him not become a chipku even after his marriage.

And after 3yrs also u don't interfere in his life when u know u r the biggest problem of their marriage.

Selfless lover watches and prays from far good for her love not go around and dance with him to break his marriage and time & again try to show his choice is wrong & he shud leave his wife. Period.

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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HippoSucks

@HippoSucks

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Nithunavi
If u are a selfless lover u will pray good for your lover and move on and know yourself that U r the reason for his marriage breaking and move away from him not become a chipku even after his marriage.
And after 3yrs also u don't interfere in his life when u know u r the biggest problem of their marriage.
Selfless lover watches and prays from far good for her love not go around and dance with him to break his marriage and time & again try to show his choice is wrong & he shud leave his wife. Period.

She did not interfere in his life. She is the lawyer for her friend's case.

Also, Arjun is the one who came running back to them.

The biggest problem in their marriage was Maya. Arjun was sick of her and that is why he left her.

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Fernandes43

@Fernandes43

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#63

Saanjh's transformation is not ruled out as she has already shown that she has come a long way from a crying timid girl to a fighter!
How her character gathers momentum is something one has to really wait & see!
She can take a position against Arjun is good first step!
Let us see how it goes now on!
It will be only Arjun& his wavering mind that will bring Saanjh again in their life!
Arjun is a grown-up man but why does he not handle things himself?
Why do Ayaan & saanjh interfere in his personal life?
It will backfire on them if Arjun does not really need their help!
Now, he has shown them his stand, will they stay away?
Or will he come to them again?
Will Arjun resign to accept Maya's obsessive love, as she has no reason to change now?
Will that please Samay too?
What will Samay do to him when Saanjh & Sharmas are no longer available to him?

It will not be far away& will not surprise anyone if we happen to see her in courts donning black gown -this time fighting a divorce case!

Edited by Fernandes43 - 8 years ago

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: HippoSucks

She did not interfere in his life. She is the lawyer for her friend's case.

Also, Arjun is the one who came running back to them.

The biggest problem in their marriage was Maya. Arjun was sick of her and that is why he left her.

Her mother, Vandana, prem all of them asked her to stay away from arjun but that girl.. when did she listen to them & cared abt them.. she always does wt she likes to do and went to arjun office and started her jaap & even though he asked her to get lost she is a chipku forever & she came back again & again into their life & created drama.

And mainly she wanted to have something to be wrong btwn ArYa all the time bcz she can have her chance of having arjun. She is the one who was kutta around arjun everytime not arjun

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@bugsbunny12

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: Penfolk

I'm so glad to hear that.

Thanks on Kushal's behalf maybe? 😳

U a kushal fan too? 😃
or was that heavy sarcasm again? 😆
sorry but this thread is filled with sarcastic comments and i cant classify which are genuine and which are sarcastic...😕😆

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Khushi_love

@Khushi_love

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Nithunavi
If u are a selfless lover u will pray good for your lover and move on and know yourself that U r the reason for his marriage breaking and move away from him not become a chipku even after his marriage.
Correct, hence Saanjh left for 3 years. When Saanjh left, things were fine between Arya. During these 3 years, Arjun got suffocated with Maya's obsessive love n hasn't "touched " her since the last 2 years.. how is Saanjh responsible for this???

And after 3yrs also u don't interfere in his life when u know u r the biggest problem of their marriage.

After 3 years, Saanjh is interfering because she knows she herself isn't the problem anymore...N there definitely is a big problem between Arya...Maya/Arjun both can technically kill self or the other anytime...Maya is ill...But Arjun isn't...So how is a friend's concern for her friends life wrong???...Since she has interfered, it's not that Saanjh is having an affair with him...She is only reconciling Arjun with his bro n mom...

Do u mean to say that Maya making Arjun break relations from all his family is right???...When someone gets married, all other relations cease to matter??
Selfless lover watches and prays from far good for her love
That's what Saanjh did for 3 years na...N see what happened with Arya...
notgo around and dance with him to break his marriage
Her dance with Arjun only brought Arjun n Maya closer...What took Arya apart was Maya's obsessiveness due to her mental state...
and time & again try to show his choice is wrong & he shud leave his wife. Period.

Maya is capable of ending her/Arjun's/boths lives because of her obsessive love...I strongly think that it is best if Arjun can be freed from this toxic love at the moment n Maya is sent for treatment. Maybe, after Maya is treated, Arya can still be together. Then there is a chance of them leading a normal life. But even you cannot deny that Arya need help desperately in their relationship at the moment. If Maya needs to drug Arjun to stop him from meeting his family, there is a major problem, right?

My replies in pink.

Think logically n try to see things from a neutral point of view, not Maya's pov...Yes, empathy for Maya's state is understandable, because of her childhood abuse n all her sufferings.. but it's also important to understand that she's become more dangerous than Ashwin n needs to be stopped before her actions make it impossible for her to be redeemed later.

Trust me, I'm no Saanjh lover, I'm no Saajun shipper...Infact, as of today, I'm dead against Saajun being endgame...I believe Saanjh - Samay are the endgame, but yet, Saanjh needs to intervene. & Now, she will have to...All the more reason as Ayan's life is at stake...

Again, I request you to take a neutral view point of the situation. ...N then arrive at a conclusion...

If Maya is to be treated, first all her crimes need to be proven, n then her illness will come into the picture, n only then she can be treated to lead a healthy life later.

If you are a true Maya well wisher, hope for Maya's ill deeds to be proven, before she commits yet another major crime...

Edited by ---Khushi--- - 8 years ago

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

My replies in pink.

Think logically n try to see things from a neutral point of view, not Maya's pov...Yes, empathy for Maya's state is understandable, be of her childhood abuse n all her sufferings.. but it's also important to understand that she's become more dangerous than Ashwin n needs to be stopped before her actions make it impossible for to be redeemed later.

Trust me, I'm no Saanjh lover, I'm no Saajun shipper...Infact, as of today, I'm dead against Saajun being endgame...I believe Saanjh - Samay are the endgame, but yet, Saanjh needs to intervene. & Now, she will have to...All the more reason as Ayan's life is at stake...

Again, I request you to take a neutral view point of the situation. ...N then arrive at a conclusion...

In neutral way saying, why had maya become dangerous than ashwin ?

Do u think that's because she murdered someone ? But we haven't seen anything like that until now.

Ayan life is at stake but ayan punishment wud have been reduced if saanjh didnt take her personal vengeance in that court and concentrated instead on proofs of what happened btwn maya and ayan.

IMO sanjh is really pathetic because no one can call a mentally disturbed person PAGAL like she is doing every damn time.

It is cvs fault also they shouldn't make that term for such ppl because all they need is love & help and not all mentally ill are mental for god's sake. It gives wrong msg to society.

Yes maya e is manipulative but not a criminal. In this world we know such sharpness is needed and being a business woman it's the best thing with her & the trait is needed.

But she didn't played with ppl who didn't come in her life or were a threat to her she made sure to give chances & even with sanjh she tolerated but her limit when ends maya gives a blow that u can't expect.

And no body in this is a saint either vandana, jhanvi or sanjh or arjun .

We all can see them manipulative & behaving goody two shoes from outside preaching some nonsense.

And many people side with maya because the reason is this, she doesn't fake like sanjh & does bad things. But sanjh acts like some goddess but all she does is wrong things.

All the above I said is from neutral pov & if u don't believe it also no problem.

#my replies in blue.

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Her mother, Vandana, prem all of them asked her to stay away from arjun but that girl.. when did she listen to them & cared abt them.. she always does wt she likes to do and went to arjun office and started her jaap & even though he asked her to get lost she is a chipku forever & she came back again & again into their life & created drama.
And mainly she wanted to have something to be wrong btwn ArYa all the time bcz she can have her chance of having arjun. She is the one who was kutta around arjun everytime not arjun

Even though arjun threw her away he came and stood under her house blabbering a sorry to her. They have always been shown to have a soul mate connection. Arjun blabbering, "my friendship hand is also empty". And saanjh went down to only hold the friendship hand. But why am I even explaining to people who hardly know what friendship is.

For the whole world, Saanjh is selfless love.

And for some handful of people, she's a vamp. I pity such mentality.

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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#69

Maya is manipulative but not a criminal.

Until she manipulates someone else to go to jail for a crime not committed. Hence she becomes a criminal.

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anshvi

@anshvi

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#70

If we are talking about neutral opinion so here is my view (I am neither a Maya fan nor a Saanjh fan nor a Arya or Saajun Shipper...I watch this show coz i find it interesting better than those saas bahu shows)

1. HOLI PARTY DRAMA - Saanjh is NOT A BABY KILLER...did she deliberately push Maya..NO SHE DID NOT..It was an accident and even if she touched Maya on the arm even for that she got punished by Arjun who not only broke all relations with her but also slapped her..Slapping a girl in my opinion is wrong and calling her a baby killer is also wrong.

The way Saanjh and Arjun danced was wrong (let's ignore the bhaang part here) and Arjun applying color on Saanjh before Maya was also wrong...BOTH ARJUN AND SAANJH WERE WRONG! So, only blaming Saanjh here will be wrong...Arjun was at fault too.

Maya should't have mixed bhaang though

2. SAANJH A HOME WREKER -

a) SHAADI DRAMA - For me was OTT ...She brought Arjun and Maya in the mandap and got them married...Chhana Meriya song was OTT and annoying 😆...Arjun ran after Saanjh like an idiot and said I LOVE U which I really again found OTT..annoying...Saanjh applying Mehendi on her hand and dancing..again was annoying for me and i felt like shouting at her that Girl please move on and don't be so annoying

But she did get them married.

b) She supported Maya against Vandana

c) She suppressed her feelings for Arjun and went on to get honeymoon tickets for them.

d) She did meet Arjun in the restaurant and she was going to kiss him which i agree is definitely wrong although she stopped...But here ARJUN was equally at fault...He called her there and lied to Maya...Here surely Arjun and Saanjh were at fault...BUT FOR THIS TO CALL HER A S**T IS ABSOLUTELY WRONG!

Saanjh never tried to break ArYa...She loved Arjun...Arjun was his best friend..it would be tough for any girl to let go of not only her first love but her best friend too...but she did try to let go.

After she left for 3 years , what happened between ArYa was their own undoing not Saanjh's...Arjun was the one who felt suffocated...Maya was the one who became more obsessive than ever...Their relation was not working...Saanjh had nothing to do with it..She was no where in the picture

So, calling her a home wrecker is again WRONG

ARJUN was the one who took the first step and went to see Ayaan and Saanjh saw him...Arjun was the one who told her that he was not happy and Maya was obsessive..

Yes Saanjh should have asked him to show Maya to a psychiatrist but did't it occur to Arjun to do that himself all these years ?

3. MAYA VS SAANJH IN COURT

Saanjh did get overconfident in the case...She did use some words which could have been avoided...and like people argue that proof is needed then those saying that Saanjh did this for vengence and personal agenda and all that then where is the proof of that also.

She should have found concrete proofs..she underestimated Maya.

But did she force Maya to remove her jacket? Maya could have shown them to a lady constable or the judge in private...Nobody had forced her

Maya smirking like that was mean...To feel happy when someone is in pain is wrong

She dreamt of killing Saanjh which people justified and that baffled me

She played the woman card...and yes what she said was right "even a mental person has the right on her own bodY' and asked saanjh to show some Insaaniyat..but one should only preach only what they follow

Now people justifying the Mahila Mukti Morcha ladies and going on to say that Saanjh should die is extreme on so may levels.

4. MAYA - All characters are flawed...none is doodh ka dhula..but to justify every wrong action of one's character is not right...One should watch the show from the story's perspective.

Vandana ill-treated Maya- she was wrong but that does not justify Maya's manipulation of throwing gifts from balcony as well

Maya's behavipur with Arjun is not justified at all...You cannot tie, drug, control someone.

She tried to attempt suicide but trying to burn your own mother as well is wrong.

The way she behaves with Jhanvi is wrong no matter how Jhanvi as a mother was...Jhanvi was a weak woman who coudn't protect her child but this doesn't mean she can be treated like this by Maya

2 wrongs will never make a right

We cannot say for sure that Maya did those murders as there are no proofs but one can not justify Maya for the wrong she does..same goes for Saanjh and other characters as well

If it gets proved that Maya did all those murders and did frame Ayaan then will people still defend Maaya...Ayaan did deserve punishment for manhandling Maya but as things are pointing out if Maaya did frame Ayaan then Ayaan needs justice too and Maya deserves punishment

In my opinion even Maya has the right of a redemption before it is too late for her...She needs medical treatment.

As far as the end is concerned I want Maya to get better, Arjun to stay with his family , Saanjh can find the right guy for herself or maybe do well in her profession...I don't want Saanjun or ArYa

But since this is a dark thriller I am prepared for a dark ending too although i would prefer a happy ending

All in all to justify each and every action whether it is right and wrong of the fav character is not right at all.

Rant over 😆