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Laska thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
#11
All people are manipulating! All!
Everyone try to create a good impression of yourself, hiding your shortcomings
About what you? People hide from each other things all life, manipulate perception
It's a world, not a children's book, where only white and black color exists
Maya is a reflection. And if you ask someone, then ask from those who look in the mirror

Who will accept this Saas? Who will trust her with her child? This woman can throw garbage at people, just out of her own hatred
Who will trust such a friend like Saanj? She will invite your husband to dinner under the pretext of talking about family, and taking advantage of his drunken state drag him into bed
Who will trust the guy who lies to his wife all the time, and runs off to drink with a childhood friend?

Emotional blackmail - Vandana and Dusky thoroughly imbued with it
Who can trust such people?

And what about Maya? Don't cross limits, and everything will be fine. This is a normal condition of human relationships. Don't hang on her husband, and you will not have any problems. Don't humiliate, don't offend, treat as a person, and you will be answered even more than you expect. The mountains will turn for you and you will get the moon

This isn't Maya to heal, but people who don't know the scope and limits of normal relationships
Who do not know the word respect
Who do not know what gratitude is
Who do not know the price of trust
Who do not know the value of the relationship

Ask the payoff from the provocateurs first before asking for payment from the person who was provoked

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Posted: 8 years ago
#12
I think Maya is already paying it. She is married to Arjun, but he runs behind other gals. Her mother is in coma. Dese two ppl matter a lot to her n tho she has both, she doesn't have both.
Just as in karma, i hope God gives her atleast a little happiness for what she has borne in her childhood.
Rest of d characters r no saints n i hope dy too pay up accordingly.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Nietzy

I think Maya is already paying it. She is married to Arjun, but he runs behind other gals. Her mother is in coma. Dese two ppl matter a lot to her n tho she has both, she doesn't have both.

Just as in karma, i hope God gives her atleast a little happiness for what she has borne in her childhood.
Rest of d characters r no saints n i hope dy too pay up accordingly.



👏 👏 👏
Well said!
Both these people are in her life but at the same time not in her life!
She was going to get some real love in her life through her baby but seems like even that isn't in store for my Maya baby 😭
ishakumar thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Laska

All people are manipulating! All!
Everyone try to create a good impression of yourself, hiding your shortcomings
About what you? People hide from each other things all life, manipulate perception
It's a world, not a children's book, where only white and black color exists
Maya is a reflection. And if you ask someone, then ask from those who look in the mirror

Who will accept this Saas? Who will trust her with her child? This woman can throw garbage at people, just out of her own hatred
Who will trust such a friend like Saanj? She will invite your husband to dinner under the pretext of talking about family, and taking advantage of his drunken state drag him into bed
Who will trust the guy who lies to his wife all the time, and runs off to drink with a childhood friend?

Emotional blackmail - Vandana and Dusky thoroughly imbued with it
Who can trust such people?

And what about Maya? Don't cross limits, and everything will be fine. This is a normal condition of human relationships. Don't hang on her husband, and you will not have any problems. Don't humiliate, don't offend, treat as a person, and you will be answered even more than you expect. The mountains will turn for you and you will get the moon

This isn't Maya to heal, but people who don't know the scope and limits of normal relationships
Who do not know the word respect
Who do not know what gratitude is
Who do not know the price of trust
Who do not know the value of the relationship

Ask the payoff from the provocateurs first before asking for payment from the person who was provoked



Superbly said!!! 👏
No one is doodh ka dhulla hua! Not even ayaan!
Everyone has made mistakes!
Yet everyone forgives each other, Maya is a person that can't forgive
She will make sure that the other person pays for what they gave but in a limit!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: ashpat3


She got Arjun but we all know somehow Arjun is lying to her. Lets put Saanjh and his meeting on side but what about that tantrik drama and Jhanvi's confession letter. What should be the purpose of lying on that. Arjun knows Maya will not gonna leave him unlike Maya's insecurity of losing. Even if the pregnancy is fake she will still pay price in future (I don't know what but it is not that she is happy with after her marriage) Ashwin's murder case, Jhanvi and Arjun arrested, Vandana's tantrum. Please tell where was she happy post marriage in all this mess

Everyone doesn't get happiness doesn't give them license to play around mind games. Because once you are exposed you will lose the trust. Nobody will trust u back no matter how many reasons u give. Regarding arjun right now all are theories. It's not proven yet so can't say anything.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Laska

All people are manipulating! All!
Everyone try to create a good impression of yourself, hiding your shortcomings
About what you? People hide from each other things all life, manipulate perception
It's a world, not a children's book, where only white and black color exists
Maya is a reflection. And if you ask someone, then ask from those who look in the mirror

Who will accept this Saas? Who will trust her with her child? This woman can throw garbage at people, just out of her own hatred
Who will trust such a friend like Saanj? She will invite your husband to dinner under the pretext of talking about family, and taking advantage of his drunken state drag him into bed
Who will trust the guy who lies to his wife all the time, and runs off to drink with a childhood friend?

Emotional blackmail - Vandana and Dusky thoroughly imbued with it
Who can trust such people?

And what about Maya? Don't cross limits, and everything will be fine. This is a normal condition of human relationships. Don't hang on her husband, and you will not have any problems. Don't humiliate, don't offend, treat as a person, and you will be answered even more than you expect. The mountains will turn for you and you will get the moon

This isn't Maya to heal, but people who don't know the scope and limits of normal relationships
Who do not know the word respect
Who do not know what gratitude is
Who do not know the price of trust
Who do not know the value of the relationship

Ask the payoff from the provocateurs first before asking for payment from the person who was provoked


Why does Maya cling onto a thankless low life like Arjun? If she was normal, she would have divorced him or not chosen him as a life partner at all. If she really loved Arjun, she'd be totally upfront and explained to him how their closeness makes her feel like. She'd not have played mind games and separated everyone from his life.


But then, she isn't normal in the first place. All she wants is to posses and control the people she has taken a liking to. That's not love at all.

The biggest provocateur is Maya herself. She blames the victims and goes around sabotaging their lives so that she can live peacefully.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: Nietzy

I think Maya is already paying it. She is married to Arjun, but he runs behind other gals. Her mother is in coma. Dese two ppl matter a lot to her n tho she has both, she doesn't have both.

Just as in karma, i hope God gives her atleast a little happiness for what she has borne in her childhood.
Rest of d characters r no saints n i hope dy too pay up accordingly.

Arjun is not cheating maya. He is flirting with girls. Flirting isn't equal to cheating. Now maya being insecure get affected by it. I don't think it's a huge problem maya is facing.
I agree with respect jhanvi. But there is lot of mystery behind it. Jhanvi will be out of coma then things will be crystal clear.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18
Maya will get back whatever she has taken and if it's proved that she was responsible for Ashwin's murder and her mom's state, she deserves the punishment. But now, I just hope that she kills Arjun too (which I feel is right looking at the way he's behaving). Arjun is not a character that can be easily manipulated. She has just offered him what he always wanted and her efforts worked. He wanted her money and never loved her. After he has admitted to it and still keeps on flirting with other woman and his dearest friend Saanj, it's better his character ends too. I don't want Maya to hurt any other person now as the real culprit needs to be punished.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Laska

All people are manipulating! All!
Everyone try to create a good impression of yourself, hiding your shortcomings
About what you?

😆
Hiding ur shortcomings is different from art of Manipulation.
People hide from each other things all life, manipulate perception
It's a world, not a children's book, where only white and black color exists
Maya is a reflection. And if you ask someone, then ask from those who look in the mirror

Who will accept this Saas? Who will trust her with her child? This woman can throw garbage at people, just out of her own hatred
Who will trust such a friend like Saanj? She will invite your husband to dinner under the pretext of talking about family, and taking advantage of his drunken state drag him into bed
Who will trust the guy who lies to his wife all the time, and runs off to drink with a childhood friend?

Well vandana was triggered by maya to react in that day. That was entire acting to show vandana in bad light so arjun breaks his relations with vandana. Saanjh never took advantage of his drunken state. She loves him and for a second she was about to slip. If she wanted to take advantage she wouldn't have left him. Arjun was wrong but he was being childish. He was definitely wrong for which he got lesson by maya. I support maya there.

Emotional blackmail - Vandana and Dusky thoroughly imbued with it
Who can trust such people?
Why can't anybody trust them. They will tell on my face. They are genuine with me.

And what about Maya? Don't cross limits, and everything will be fine. This is a normal condition of human relationships. Don't hang on her husband, and you will not have any problems. Don't humiliate, don't offend, treat as a person, and you will be answered even more than you expect. The mountains will turn for you and you will get the moon

This isn't Maya to heal, but people who don't know the scope and limits of normal relationships
Who do not know the word respect
Who do not know what gratitude is
Who do not know the price of trust
Who do not know the value of the relationship

Ask the payoff from the provocateurs first before asking for payment from the person who was provoked


Answers in bold
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: tanvismile

All the characters that u mentioned above did emotional blackmailing. Maya put up an act in front of arjun and ended up looking like victim in front of arjun which resulted in end of arjun s relations. So there will one day when maya s real face will be exposed to arjun. He will realise the games she played. He will never able to trust her again.


Arjun is no less. Even he lied to Maya. He takes people for granted. I only said Vandana resorted to emotional blackmailing to make Arjun leave the mandap. It is worse than manipulation. Arjun did say in one of the episodes that he has done Ph.D in telling lies. If everyone gets to know the real Arjun that he has married Maya for a luxurious life, Saanjh will step back. She will be paying the heavy price for loving him. As per the pundit's predictions, he will be all alone.

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