Lessons/philosophy/messages learned from the show so far - Page 3

Our maya baby is a great philosopher👏 the greatest Philosopher of Indian television history is out Maya baby😊

Originally posted by: sellysona

I liked the dialogue dosti me pyar mile na mile but pyar me dosti jarur mil jati hai.. I wish someday i also get this love wali dosti 😳
I also liked the dialogue earlier maya said pyar tbtk karo jbtk use control krsako agar pyar tumhe control krne lage to use barbad krdo..
I have seen many ppl neglecting everythng in love.. Thats wrong. If love starts controlling u its better to take a break and live a free life.. I have seen my one friend asking for permissions for evn wearing any dress from her boyfrnd. Isntit too much.. I love maya take on love.. If loves starts controlling our life, taking our happiness thn its not worth it..

Also, i have learned from maya, to be calm in tense situations. Instead of fighting shouting she makes her way out in calm way.. I like it.

Yea she doesn't panic in front of people
She acts very strong headed in front of people
And if she does want to cry she only expresses it in front of people like Arjun, whom she trusts
I really like that quality about her. She acts in control even tho inside she is dying, and that's a very hard thing to do
That's true when love starts controlling you, then u should get yourself out of that relationship
Because it's doing nothing but giving you pain 👏

I learnt anything beyhadh isn't good. Jhanvi's beyhadh love for ashwin is like a curse for her daughter. Saanjh's beyhadh love for arjun is only causing misery to her parents & herself. Maya's beyhadh ways of trying to control everything & everyone will only cause her pain later on. Vandana & Suman's beyhadh wish to see saanj as arjun's bahu has made them miserable as their dream shattered. Ashwin's beyhadh greed for money has already made him a langda aur future main pata nahi kya kya honewala hai uske saath ! Arjun's beyhadh duffergiri is not allowing him to see things as they are ! So yes ... anything beyhadh is not good. 😆

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

I too liked the dialogue pyaar mein dosti milti hain and as a person who had an arranged marriage I can very well say if you put some effort you can make your spouse your best friend.😃.

Another thing I liked was Maya's dialogue of Nazar and Niyath. For an action to be complete both the action and the intend has to be correct.

Awww really Shruthi?
Well we are glad that you were able to become great friends with your husband
Because that's the most important thing in a relationship
You should be best friends with each other who can say anything to one another
Oh yea that nazar and niyat dialogue, I totally forgot about that one
That was also an awesome dialogue she said something like nazar and niyat dono hi achi honi chahiye
Meaning to say you should have a clear and clean view and a pure motive in order to get something

Originally posted by: -Dellz-

I have learnt how to handle people through Maya .Her perception about things is so amazing loved the way she plays her cards .I too feel that pyaar tab tak karo jab tak control kar sakho agar pyaar tumhein control karne lage toh usse barbad karo .Lovely and superb dialogue by Maya .It not gives imp to love but also friendship also .Cause even some friends who you feel they are close to you and they try to control you and telling your hadh and limits toh uss dosti ka bhi kya kaam jho dost dusri dost ki restrictions follow karne pade

Yup that's true
Many people try to control you and then you should know it's not a healthy relationship
You should leave them if you think they're trying to impose themselves on you
Controlling and being controlled are two different things ;) and according to Maya controlling is clearly the better option 😉

Originally posted by: ajay227

I so love d dialogue..Had se jyada kuch bhi acha nahi hota, pyaar bhi nahi...too much of anything is disastrous...as we can see Jhanvi's too much love for Ashwin paid big tym for Maya...Saanjh's too much investment in Arjun left her heart-broken...Also i learnt how much Parenting is important for a person to be in ri8 path...Mistakes of Parents nd d result we can see in their children...Besides a terrific childhood, Maya was able to rise up nd was successful...but she lost faith in ppl...nd she has some kind of psychological pblm...This concept of good parenting was also shown in Itna Karo Naa Mujhe Pyaar...it clearly showed how both d partners r essential to rise up their child!!!

Yup so basically a clear message in the show is hadh se zyaada kuch bhi acha nahi Hota
Whether it be pyaar or nafrat
Pyaar mein we often tend to do things we shouldn't (for example Saanjh kept hadh se zyaada obsessing over Arjun, but at the end she got heartbreak)
And nafrat mein bhi we tend to do things we shouldn't (ashwin wanted Maya's property, which is why he harmed Maya and jhanvi)
So basically zyaada kuch bhi acha nahi Hota

Originally posted by: -Nive-

I loved this dialogue of Saanjh which meant "You dont find the medicine for your wound in someone's sorrows" (not good in Hindi so using English translation by a friend here). I feel this is something important that people should know in life.

She said kisi aur ke dukh mein apni khushi nahi Milton if I'm correct
So basically saying that you shouldn't be happy if someone else is in sorrow because otherwise one day that sorrow will also haunt you!
It's a good lesson we should all know in life!

Originally posted by: Taha0023

Our maya baby is a great philosopher👏the greatest Philosopher of Indian television history is out Maya baby😊

What I have learn from the show is,

-- never bit your children, that can cause

mental desorder and also can create obsassive love for certain thing. Not always

the obsession for a person, but some times for a subject matter. For example psycho Artist, psycho professional who is a loner.

All I will say, "Love your children, when they fail, but not when they get a trophy."

"Your child is not your racing horse. They are saparate human being. A child is not extention of your body. They have their own life and choise."

Teach your child, what true love means "who love you during your hard time, is your true lover."

"Be more close to your children , when they fail a marriage or exam. Teach them true love, by loving them , when they need you the most.. "

--All children must need to be treated equel by parent.

Who told all these dialogue ebove?😆Maya baby ne nehi kaha...yie. Taha baby ki philosophical knowledge from different sources and this show reminded me all ebove. yaad raakhna.

jaab bacche honge😆kaam ayenge

Lmfao Maya is intelligent
I feel her dialogues are the best in the whole show
She says stuff straight to the point, na zyaada na kum
Everything you have said is true Taha!
We should give our children unconditional love and support because otherwise they will always have some sort of complaint in life, cuz they never received true love
A child receives the truest and purest love from its mother
But if the mother is like jhanvi phir toh rehney Hi do! 😆
The biggest reason Maya is like this is that she failed to receive love, in fact instead she received torture
We should all know that violence should never be an option for anything!

beautifully said!! 👏👏

Originally posted by: ishakumar

She said kisi aur ke dukh mein apni khushi nahi Milton if I'm correct
So basically saying that you shouldn't be happy if someone else is in sorrow because otherwise one day that sorrow will also haunt you!
It's a good lesson we should all know in life!