why so negativity abt almost all characters?

I don't want to fight with jenny fans saying bad abt maya...
Bcoz ppl mostly take it personally.. And thinks I m jenny hater or I m aneri fan... And also assume that I make such post bcoz I can't differentiate between actor and character and supporting sanjh bcoz I m aneri fan...
But let me clear this to u.. Whenever I watch any show , may I started watching it for one of my favs but I watch the show as a nomal viewer only...not being fan of any1 ..
While watching... I think abt all the point then put my opinion on it!!
But here I m continuously seeing ppl blaming and point out mistake of almost all characters of show...
Earlier ppl used to bash sanjh pointing out small small thing done by her... Then some ppl started saying bad abt vandana and suman.. That they r provoking sanjh and pushing her towards arjun all the time.. Then u came u Janvi.. Saying she is worst character of show... Then again back to sanjh and vanadana...
I just don't understand why u ppl keep pointing out bad things abt them?
I know...now some ppl will say they r just giving their opinion only!! And they have right to speak out their heart...
I m saying anyone to stay quiet... Or don't share ur opinion... U have full right to make posts on wat ever u feel like sharing... But wat I feel is
u should b careful abt it...that ur post might hurt anyone's feelings... I feel the forum should b for praising actor/character not bashing or saying bad abt anyone... But these r my thought ... Ur thoughts may different...that is why each day we see offending post.. With tag line no offence -_-
Like seriously... U r writing offensive things then expect ppl to take it lightly!!
I know after reading my post some will also... We r just being a critic...
Ah.. I Can't control anyone thinking or mind.. Ppl will only think wat they want to... Some ppl just make an opinion abt something & judge everyone according to the particular opinion!
So no matter how I much I try to explain, They will never understand Don't know y I m wasting my time making a post like this.. But just can't handle myself seeing so much hate for the characters of beyhadh...
And somewhere I feel mostly characters r being hated bcoz they supporting sanjh... May b I m wrong but it looks like that only!!
OK so let me also include... Why I don't like when ppl say bad abt vandana , suman , shubh or Janvi ...

Vandana:
She is a mother ... Of arjun as well as sanjh... She didn't have blood relation with arjun or sanjh but she have seen them growing up and played a role of mother for both...
She said in yesterday epi that how sanjh used to cry in lap in childhood... Sanjh & vandana's relation is not bcoz of arjun... Not bcoz sanjh is Arjun's frnd but they share a daughter mother relation... Every mother dreams for his would b bahu , many people decides to convert their frbdship in relationship when a girl & a boy are born in their houses resp... So if vanadana wants sanjh as her bahu then it isn't wrong... Many parents makes plans to unite their children... We have seen such things in many movies..bcoz they no their children will b perfect for each other... Same is here... Vanadana thinks that no other girl can b perfect for arjun except sanjh... So she wants them together... I know its Arjun's decision that to whom he wanna marry...
And he can fall in love with anyone... But these things didn't makes vanadana's actions stupid or ridiculous..
There are many mothers who even blackmails their son to marry their choice... If some mother do such thing than u can consider them ridiculous.. Or the mother who do planning & plotting to harm their son them they r ridiculous... A mother who want good for his son isn't ridiculous... She have seen Maya's obsession... And mothers always have a god gifted power.. They can feel wat is wrong and wat is right for her children!! And maya may harm arjun... And also she have always imagined sanjh as her Daughter in law... so if there was any other girl than maya then also she will take time to accept that relation!!


Abt Janvi:
Of u remember very first scene of her...
She was saying he will come.. And in morning
She was breaking everything in house.. Saying he didn't came... He broke his promise something...
Later her character was shown normal.. A simple caring mother... Or a emotional lady which is always fooled by her husband... She trust her husband if he cries in from of her... But in recent episode... She was dressed in red and saying he came back..
Wat I feel is ... She didn't become fool again but its her mental issues .. Yes... Not only maya but also Janvi have some issues.. That's why she is behaving that way... And also I feel Janvi always brings back ashwin their lives... And in end she will b only one to close his chapter.. May b she will kill him in her obsession or anger knowing she have always cheated on her... Bcoz ashwin is not among ppl who will change...


Abt suman and shubh:
Suman is just a simple mother.. Who loves her daughter a lot!! She wants her happiness but She is also confused if arjun is her happiness or staying away from him will make her happy!!
Her parents always asked sanjh to propose arjun but she never did it!!
Ppl say its sanjh faulf that she didn't confess... But I think ppl who say this never fall in love... Bcoz in reality confessing ur feeling to ur love is extremely difficult..
All ur courage goes in water when he came in front of u...
Ubr unable to say anything..
I know sanjh is arjun bestie but talking being frnd and talking to same person being a lover is totally different... As a frnd u can say any thing but as a lover u will always fall short of words
Confessing love isn't a easy thing... And if anyone will say how maya confessed? Then let me tell u maya and sanjh r two different individuals & maya isn't all normal !! She is one who just want whatever she likes!! So it wasn't difficult for her to confess... And these thing s didn't make maya courageous or sanjh coward
And shubh , he is small boy.. and also a possessive brother... if someone hurts ur sis... knowingly or unknowingly.. all brothers acts like that...
his actions were justified...
he only said he beat arjun!! no allowed him to do that or no one said in their family that he is eight or anything... and even if he goes to arjun and beat him he is a kid man!! Wo arjun ka bal b baka nai kar sakta 😆 why to take his words so seriously?

actually the thing is...
Its difficult to understand the other person's feeling , their thoughts and condition... u can say u understand their situation but u can't..unless u urself went through same or similar phase in ur life like Them... try to be in their shoe then u will understand whatever they always have a reason behind...


And lastly I wanna say...if we daily watch a show , we get connected to it... So we keep discussing abt it!! Wat we liked or wat we didn't liked... Its normal... U guys r sharing ur thoughts abt beyhadh n its character... So u guys r also not wrong... But I m now feeling offended with all these bashing post !!
That's why I made this post...

finally unressed ...
hope ppl will understand wat I wanted to say and don't take me wrong...I tried my best to explain... still don't know how will everyone react to it ... so... I m signing off with this... will check this thread tomorrow to see whether it's filled with positivity or again negativity or it just remains empty...being ignored 😆

You explained each character well👍🏼.. Felt nothing negative in your post, these kind of healthy discussions are most welcome...

Your post is not offensive, it is just repetitive because there was another post recently asking why everyone hates saanjh. I don't know about others but I don't like to explain why I dislike/like certain characters, just like I don't want to explain why I don't like Rajma. We are all insightful people, and discussing characters whether it is criticism or praise promotes discussion in the forum, and that is the main goal of this board-to TALK about characters.

I can just say that the characters in this show are fictional characters and not real ones. These characters have their positives and negatives and when people watch these characters and feel something is not right, they can do give their opinion just like you and those who feel positive about the characters and we need to respect everyone's opinions unless they are abusive or too harsh. 😊

Lols Neha don't waste your energy here.yesterday when saanjh did the right thing I didn't see one post appreciating her..all those saanjs so called critics went into a Twitter post of saanjh and ashwin and started bashing her for the thing that could happen in future..one simple word that is called "hatredness"..though fictional or not if we hate someone or something character and if we are in majority then the wrath that person would experience is really grave and I see for saanjh in this forum..once when saanjh told let Maya jump of the balloon why are you giving in to arjun and for that multiple threads were opened and bashed and when yesterday she told her dad that we cannot find happiness in others grief they didn't bother about it, but picked up on saanjhs father now and bashing him.being opinionated is different but one can't be so insensitive and forget to appreciate good things is beyond descriptions and that's what happening to saanjh in this forum..normal peoples normal thoughts and behavior are questioned but someone who is unique like Maya is understood and taken in a correct way,and that's where I am amused..if sowmone can understand Maya this Mich why can't saanjh...there is the difeerence between opinions and facts.one may have a opinion but when they put forth the facts then the options should be changed if they chosse not to then it clearly shows that it is not thier options but it's plain adamancy.and you can't change adamancy of any strange people.the power of mass is visible in this forum very well either correct or wrong we should experience it because we are small in number and henceforth take this and go on...don't worry saanjh will be the best chaatcter till the end how much ever they try demoralize a character ...no point in even making this post neha...the show will give them the answers and already people have decided that whatever happens saanjh should be negative, should not show saanjh and her family and saanjh should even get away from arjun but she should come back when Maya needs a lawyer.

Seriously, don't waste your energy on these biased people. I did it and received so much flak for it. Saanjh and Aneri's talent will speak for itself. We don't need to. Also, Aneri doesn't need such weird fans.

Originally posted by: Lovepreet1

You explained each character well👍🏼.. Felt nothing negative in your post, these kind of healthy discussions are most welcome...