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fanfare.1

@fanfare.1

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Posted: 9 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: ishakumar

We are not really justifying her in any actions, we are just saying its not right to label her as a psycho person just cuz she threatened Saanjh. Even MILs threaten their bahus in tv shows, but the point here is that she is disturbed from her childhood which makes her behave differently, it doesnt mean she is psycho. Being protective towards the people you love doesnt make u psycho, nor does being jealous. Jealousy is a natural feeling that all people in relationships get whether they are psycho or not. All we are saying is that its too early to give her the label of psycho... as the story progresses and we have legitimate reasons to believe that something is wrong then we could use stronger words for her.. being passionate towards a person and being psychotic towards a person are two poles apart. Right now from our point of view all we see is passion, there are glimpses of darkness but certainly not something as strong to classify her as a psycho.

Ok.. I don't know why some people don't see Maya's behaviour as psychotic. Is trying to cut your vien, to prove a point, a normal behaviour??😕 The kind of behaviour she exhibits when anyone is close to Arjun, even before she knows whether Arjun has any feeling towards her, is that normal jealousy? Just because he flirt with someone you fire her from job. Just because Arjun is Saanjh friend she torture Saanjh, make her wait for 5 hrs and take sadistic pleasure in that, is that a normal possessive behaviour? The way she was playing mind games with Saanjh during dinner or hurting herself by breaking glass, none is a normal behaviour of a normal lover. Its a psycho lover behaviour.

But its fine we'll wait. The complain is its too early to call her psychotic, we'll wait😆. After 20 or 30 more episodes, we'll review Maya's behaviour again and see whether she is normal or psychotic. For me there are enough signs even now, but for others we'll wait.

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fanfare.1

@fanfare.1

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#32

One more thing. I would have been still Ok if Maya start her threatening or possessive behaviour after she make sure Arjun too is in love with her. Now it is just that She loves a guy and she wants to possess and control him at any cost. Even if the guy is not in love she will force him to fall in love (its another matter whether Arjun will fall in love afterwards). I can't see any normality in that behaviour. There are n no of ONE SIDED lovers in films and soaps, some are psycho lovers, others are mahan lovers who let it go. This show has both. But Maya's zidd of wanting a guy at any cost, even if he don't have feeling is an obsession rather than love. That's my POV.

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anjaanichudi

@anjaanichudi

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#33

Maya is pyschotic as of now, she is a grey character... M just hoping dy don't turn her black. I wud lose interest in d show.

Sanju is right, even Saanjh is little extreme. One is obsessive, other is possessive n Arjun is ' i don't care ssive😛'

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ishakumar
Thanks for this post sharmin!!!
We really needed it... lately people have been thinking that may is nothing but pure evil.
But people need to understand everyone has two sides... we have only seen this one side of her yet which is the crazy lover. The second side is till yet to come. No person is pure evil whatever they did had some motive or reason behind it, in this case the reason is solely her love Arjun.
We have to wait for her second beautiful side to come oht which has been hidden u der this veil of darkness and fear. That second side is only going to come out when she is closer to her manzil... her manzil of getting the one person she has ever wanted, the manzil of this love that she has never felt before. This manzil that will teach her many things along the way. And yeh manzil usko arjun paar karayega (chahe arjun jaisa bhi ho LOL but he is literally one of the last chances she has at life now)...
everyone is either scared of her or hate her due to her unfriendly nature. But what has made her like this is her past, her future is what will determine what this Maya really is. Her future is what will determine what Maya truly is as a person.
We have to give it time for her true self to shine and stun everyone. Lets wait for that time :D

Hello isha...😊

Agree with you..

Thank..you..i needed to make this post..

First of all..i haven't post a serious topic since..like a decade..lol..

Then..maya isn't definitely not a psycho or mental.. .

Only few sides..which are very similar to each other have been opened to us..audience..

So from That.. saying she is is completely mental..or psycho..isnt fair..

Like every coin has two sides..lile that..every person..literally every person has two sides..

Maya isn't different one..

I agree she is just little too much on her actions..or should I say beyhadhi . .

But I like that in her..

Besides..this show is just about her beyhadhnes..

Isn't this show's title is.. BEYHADH 😉

So I think Maya is completely making justice to the show..by living up to the name..

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Sanju_
I agree with nitzy, I also have a soft corner for Maya...when you see her smile and face glow with as small instances as receiving text messages from Arjun, you can see she is just a normal girl like any of us...yes, some of her actions, like the way she indirectly threatened Saanjh did not seem normal, but she definitely has not done anything to physically or otherwise harm others to label her black or a villain (I will lose my interest in this show if they make Maya outright evil or black...they need to maintain her as a GREY character)...yes, she is extremely possessive and her possessiveness is beyond the normal level of extremity. even before her confession, however, if you see, even Saanjh is extremely possessive of Arjun...even before she came to know Maya loves Arjun, even a professional pic of Maya-Arjun used to make her upset...is not this also an extreme level of possessiveness? The difference is Saanjh is a very sweet and full of live girl who grew up in such a lovely family whereas Maya is a very timid and sensitive girl who grew up in an extremely horrid environment and this difference had shaped them up so differently and the ways they display their possessiveness or feelings in general!!

Agree Sanju..

For making a so beautiful post...👏

You know you have pointed out those point so accurately..

Agree..Though Maya act as not-so-care wali or angry-young-grumpy boss..

But there still lives a 9 year old innocent girl..

Who has face so much torture in the life..who has to become way more mature than her same age people..

And also one point.. I don't think cvs are that fool to make Maya evil or mental or villian.. at so early stage of the show..(If they make her a VILLIAN then no thrill will be left in the show)

They can show her NOT so normal wali actions..in some stage more beyhadhi actions..

But tell me..this show isn't about those actions she takes..

If she doesn't take that actions..her beyhadhi actions or she isn't allowed to take those actions...then..this show' s name shouldn't beyhadh . .

Then the name should be.. SirfHadh

Every girl has insecurity in the relationship..

But since it is Maya and according to arjun she is special . .

So as well as her actions her special in a beyhadhi way . .

But if you don't say to any girl who feels insecurity in the relationship that she is psycho . .

Then y being one eyed to Maya and call her that..

No STAY WAY FROM HER..SHE IS DANGEROUS..SHE WILL HARM YOU PHYSICALLY . .ETC..AND LAST OF ALL PSYCHO . .

That's not TOTALLY fair..

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: rose.three
Wow sharmin dear...awesome post..well said...
Mein jho soch rahi thi tumne usika post banadiya😉😃

As jenny said in the video about maya ke she doesn't want to loose ppl and thats why she behaves like this ...she is not obsessive ..she is possessive ...so from this we can think ke Maya is not a negetive character...she is grey ...possessive lady...
Now lets see what Cvs are gng to show us...

Thanks my vampire..Varsha..

Told you..we are thought alike..😉

I think..cvs as per now...going to mislead us by thinking.. That yes she is the Black character..or more beyhadhi than we can imagine..

But they also told at the press video that..there will be a lot twist and turn in the show..

So let's hope for the best..

Agree . .varsha . .

Jenny herself has said that..for the fear of losing of loved ones around her she can do anything...

But tell me who won't do anything for their loved ones..

But since she is Maya mehrotra . .het actions aren't that normal as ours..is thoda hatke . .

And I just love that about her..

Her actions are more beyhadhi..

But tell me isn't this show is all about her beyhadhnes..

If she doesn't show her beyhadh character.. Then this show would become a regular one..

That's y the show is a unique

where Cvs has dared to try a different thing.. which isn't so old..moreover a whole new to the tv industry.. .

So thanks to them for showing us a unique show than the saas bahu drama ..or regular one..

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: rose.three

lol Yeah...😛Every common girl who is in relationship or in love will be possessive and some times jealous saari ladkiyaan aise hi hai...😆But maya is one level up than other common girls 😆

Yup that's y we like her...

Our Own Maya Mehrotra . .

Not confusing with Jennifer Winget . .😉

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#38

Maya is neither a villain nor a psycho though she is possessive about Arjun. When a person loves someone, he/she would not want to lose them at any cost. The same is the case with Maya. Even Saanjh has cut Maya's photo apart in the newspaper and photograph.

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: katrinasalman
Maya is neither a villain nor a psycho though she is possessive about Arjun. When a person loves someone, he/she would not want to lose them at any cost. The same is the case with Maya. Even Saanjh has cut Maya's photo apart in the newspaper and photograph.

Agree . .thats the point..

Every person is possessive about their loved ones when they are in a relation..

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fanfare.1

@fanfare.1

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: katrinasalman
Maya is neither a villain nor a psycho though she is possessive about Arjun. When a person loves someone, he/she would not want to lose them at any cost. The same is the case with Maya. Even Saanjh has cut Maya's photo apart in the newspaper and photograph.

There is a difference between possessiveness and obsessiveness. Saanjh cut maya's photo but she will let Arjun go, if she feel Arjun is in love with some1 else who is right. She has neither badmouthed Maya (till she saw her abnormal behaviour) nor prevented Arjun from going to office or meet Maya. But Maya, even before knowing Arjun loves her, want to separate him from his best friend. That is the difference. You feel slightly possessive and insecure when in love that's normal but when it crosses limit to become threatening to your life or others life, it is obsessiveness.

@bold that is the case when the other person also love you. Even then suffocating someone by over controlling is never the way, such relations always end in a matter of years. As of now Arjun don't love Maya & she has no right ward off all people from his vicinity. First she should make sure Arjun loves her, then if she don't like Sanjh or someone she should talk with Arjun to stay away, rather than playing mind games.

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