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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: naaju

i cant becos homosexual marriage is nt allowed in India n i dnt have lesbo attraction too...🤣

on a serious note..she is too chirpy..n i like ppl wid balanced nature...

Beyhadh nalayak . .like me..😉
U will broke my mouth by making me laugh..🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12
im a girl so i have to say no 😆
but if i was a guy hmmm i like saanjh but too bubbly for me so its a no
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Beyhadh nalayak . .like me..😉
U will broke my mouth by making me laugh..🤣


laughing is gud for health na..see hw much i care for u...😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aekiel

Speaking as a guy (😉), I'd say definitely yes.

Knows your likes and dislikes, already gets on well with the rest of the family, is good natured.

The only worry I think with someone like Saanjh is that you could get bored soon because you know everything about each other.

But so long as you have similar interests and pursuits that are never ending in terms of knowledge, that should never be a problem.




I did not mean consider yourself as Arjun...BTW didn't know that you are a guy, u didn't comment in the topic i made about men in the forum.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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if i ws a guy
no i wont
she only sticks to his best frnd

i dont like someone who make decision for me.. she is too loud for me
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Posted: 8 years ago
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shez kinda chipku @ tyms, & I ( If i had been a guy ofc 😆😆 ) wud prefer a girl whoz balanced, & gives sm space.. so my ans is no ofc 😆😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: nitzy_21


I did not mean consider yourself as Arjun...BTW didn't know that you are a guy, u didn't comment in the topic i made about men in the forum.



Yes, guy here- probably missed that topic. I'm more of a silent reader, and this forum hasn't been very active (even the episode discussion thread is dead ), so I don't visit it every day.

Spoke for my POV- would take Saanjh over Maya in a heartbeat. Maya is enticing (and JW is doing a FABULOUS job), but it leads down to a path from which there is no coming back. Have to think long term- Saanjh is the answer 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If I were a guy, maybe I will. Because she is a nice girl, educated, good family etc. (Purely on the basis of eligibility).

But the fact is as personality goes, Saanjh is too over accommodating, too clingy and sweet. I like some spice in life, some namak-chini as they say in Hindi. So the answer will be No from me.


Would I marry Maya? No. Over confident, over possessive, over obsessive. Balance is the key to life and sadly NEITHER of these ladies possess this quality!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#19
Well Continuing from, 'Would you like to marry a obsessive lover like Maya?',

NO, I wouldn't. Saanjh is a friend, a very very good one. To me, It is creepy that she has romantic feelings for someone in her heart and is still behaving like buddies with him. Not right IMO.

A lot of guys do that with girls I know, having romance at heart while being friends on the peripheral. But, they start differently. If they like some girl, they approach as a friend, tagging along, getting to know her better and if all is fine, then proposing for love. But this is a romantic interest first, then approaching as friend for him to know her better and for the girl to know him better, and if life/directions match, then proposal for love/marriage.

But Saanjh knows Arjun since they were babies, they grew up together, know each other inside/out, everything matches, interests match, ideas match, opinions match, nothing new to seek or find in each other is left. I can understand if Saanjh's parents want her to marry Arjun, because they are good friends and are super compatible, but Saanjh in love with Arjun...Pyaar... no no no.

How can there be romance in the relationship? The romance of just a glance from the lover causing flutters in your tummy, the tinging sensation of just an accidental touching of hands, the overflow of love when your lover says a 'hello' on the phone, romance of holding hands, enjoying sunset without a single word, cuddling on a cold night, seeing the 'I love you, only you' in the eyes, the possessiveness in you partner's eyes when you talk to someone else, him/her wanting to spend all his/her time with you... relationship slowly growing into companionship, deeper friendship and then leading finally to the point where you grow old together when you mean the world to your partner and even then, if his/her voice can cause flutter in your tummy, curl your toes and raise your heartbeat... that would be love.

Quoting ADHM again, 'Dosti Sukoon hai, Pyaar Junoon hai'. IMO, Friendship is a 'homelike' feeling, while love is like 'Skydiving'. Your testosterone should jump up high.

And with Saanjh, Arjun definitely doesn't feel so. And I too wouldn't feel all that for a jigri dost. Friends are friends, love is love. period.

Thanks for patiently reading my rambling guys. Will keep it short next time :))

#PEACE
Edited by Indiyan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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^ Does such love exist now 😆
Since you mentioned about the touch, i was also thinking the same. If you remember there was a scene, where the camera was falling down, so both Maya and Arjun hold it and their hands touch, so they look at each other...dt i can never see between Arjun and Saanjh.

But i do think feelings can develop later na, initially friends then they turn lovers. I mean in future if Arjun starts feeling for Saanjh, may be even a single touch from her will be different.

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