Can maya be cured?

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If we go by last back to back episodes , maya was continuously scribbling with crayon recalling past memories . . . At last she went suicidal. She wasn't able to see any way to get out of pain. Pain was so much that she thought death could release her. I do sympathise with maya.
But I have question ? Maya is independent . . Earns lakhs of rupees . Owner of fashion city. She never felt that something is not normal with her. She never felt she needs help. Any person if keep recalling the worst stuff happened to her in childhood.It will keep destroying her from within. She needs professional help. A person can be cured if the person feels he/she has a problem. Maya all she does is locking herself in room.She doesn't have friends . . . Nobody to share her pain. She never allows anyone to get closer to her. May be she is scared of her fears being exposed. I understand her but I feel she is matured enough to understand that she is having issues. Neither she is of old generation who don't understand what s mental illness or doesn't consider as an illness . . . Her mother also seemed to have some issues in first two episodes but now she behaves fine. But she doesn't to take any step to cure maya. Maya has one side where she get scared beyond control on the other hand she is too powerful. She doesn't seem to control her thoughts but wants to control others. Will she ever accept that she needs help ?

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Originally posted by: tanvismile

If we go by last back to back episodes , maya was continuously scribbling with crayon recalling past memories . . . At last she went suicidal. She wasn't able to see any way to get out of pain. Pain was so much that she thought death could release her. I do sympathise with maya.

But I have question ? Maya is independent . . Earns lakhs of rupees . Owner of fashion city. She never felt that something is not normal with her. She never felt she needs help. Any person if keep recalling the worst stuff happened to her in childhood.It will keep destroying her from within. She needs professional help. A person can be cured if the person feels he/she has a problem. Maya all she does is locking herself in room.She doesn't have friends . . . Nobody to share her pain. She never allows anyone to get closer to her. May be she is scared of her fears being exposed. I understand her but I feel she is matured enough to understand that she is having issues. Neither she is of old generation who don't understand what s mental illness or doesn't consider as an illness . . . Her mother also seemed to have some issues in first two episodes but now she behaves fine. But she doesn't to take any step to cure maya. Maya has one side where she get scared beyond control on the other hand she is too powerful. She doesn't seem to control her thoughts but wants to control others. Will she ever accept that she needs help ?



The major issue is that we as children are fed since childhood that our aim is to be independent and rich. People think that anyone who is independent and rich has a life equivalent to a bed of roses and a cakewalk. Other people just don't care, you have to keep fighting with your inner demons every day without anyone noticing. At the end of the day, you shield yourself from feelings - because you feel vulnerable because of them.

Maya may or may not know she has a problem, if she doesn't know then someone else should do something.If she knows then she is struggling to find a solution. A lot many of us don't feel understood by psychologists at all. Psychologists can help - but aren't the solution since the psychologist alone can't do much. Everyone around you should be contributing to help get you better - very much like physical illnesses.

Her mother in no way is fine either - she is vulnerable to abuse and manipulation, is an alcoholic and already on medications.

People have a tendency to take control - if you can't control one thing then control something else. Maya doesn't feel likeshe can control her personal life and hence she directs her need to control on other and even the smallest of things like her clothing (being very fond of one particular style/color).

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