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Posted: 6 years ago
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I'm so sorry but at what age is betrayal supposed to not hurt.. That too a betrayal from ur own father.. No i genuinely want to know the answer to this.. IS there an age limit to all emotions?? Like at what age shud i stop feeling love or passion or anger??
Plus this is not a new pain for Adi.. This betrayal has shaped his childhood his adulthood.. Each and every single one of his relationships.. Including the one with his wife..

Bharosa se Bharosa uth gaya hain uska..

He acted like himself..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Probably because it's his father? Probably because he is scarred from his childhood? Probably because the fear of abandonment has seeped too deep in him and runs in the veins? Probably because he tried forgiving his dad over something he held against him and tried to move on but discovered that he also has a son! probably because he has seen his mother crying every second of her life over her broken family! Or probably because his father and his ex wife have instilled the haunt of being left alone !
Ya. I think pretty much it.
But of course, he is a 30 year old man who should just magically recover because , well.. 30 it is..

Seriously , what?🤢
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I wont even explain my pov here..
Just a free advice from my side...please go and watch some EK show if you find this show dramatic🤣
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: dewdrops.16

I wont even explain my pov here..

Just a free advice from my side...please go and watch some EK show if you find this show dramatic🤣



You killed it yaar! I should've said that too!

This post was to create a stir and clearly it worked. But loyal BP fans have this show's back no matter how much its misjudged!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Because the biggest nightmare for any child is to see their parents relationship and family falling apart in worst possible way in front of their own eyes and they simply don't know what to do except standing there helplessly.trust me this is d worst feeling ever and whoever had witnessed this can never recover from it no matter how much they try...
I can say this because this is my own personal experience.it doesn't matter being 10, 30 or 80 it's simply impossible to get rid of it.
Hope u got your answer.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Aditya has every right to be angry with harsh becz harsh is his dad..its not easy to let go of emotions just becz he found out harsh has indeed been in an affair even bfr anjana..feelings are real..and i dnt understand what has zoya tondo with anything on this..just becz he has a wife and can fend for himself he doesnt need to be hurt that he just lost his father all over again?..emotions and feelings are real and causes the biggest pain when hurt..thats love..he loved his family too as much as he loved zoya.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Nai yaar... moving out in desi families isn't as easy as it seems. In fact, Aditya was willingly going to take that route when his mother refused to accept Zoya, so it's definitely not about his maturity or his ability to move out and away from his family's drama. It's about his family - the parents he's always held on a pedestal, the father he never respected until recently, a mother he couldn't see eye to eye with, and a brother who's been his only friend. Now that all those relationships are mending, now that he has a family, he can't just let it all fall apart. Especially after Pooja's betrayal, Aditya really wants to hold these relationships tight because he's already been through hell and back, the same way his mom has, and now he can't put that upon his family again.

I understand that none of it is his undoing and nor in his control to rectify, but for a boy who has seen his mother shattered and, for a man who has been shattered himself, for his wife who has also been shattered, all due to the same betrayal by their respective spouses, Aditya can't help but want to do everything in his power to fix all the wrongs, to ensure he and his family don't have to revisit any of this ever again.

As much as I'd like to believe that Aditya should stay away from this mess and let his parents handle it, I can also appreciate why he feels the need to step in and make their problems his own.
Edited by masin - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#18
Maybe you should move on to other shows 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Adi's reaction on his Pa is that of any NORMAL SON. His loss is impeccable. His whole belief system has crumbled down once again. It is the children who have the right to fight & correct their parents if they go the wrong path...rather than chose to run away from it like a Selfish Brat. Children have to take the role of a PARENT sometimes.
His rage is of course childlike because his mind & soul has felt the time has taken on THEM a U turn again. This Adi is the same young little 16yr old boy who had lost faith but couldn't fight for his Mom Then!... &now when the betrayal is returned with magnified intensity will not let go off his guards this time. He is more thick & strong now to fight for his mother. He will not allow her to let down once again.
He is like Anjana's refuge & not willing to face betrayal again. He is not going to buy this again.
Edited by Hunnie1 - 6 years ago

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