Self respect vs Love

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Aren't they drawing parallels here ??
Who was the first person to ask Aditya Hooda about Zoya? His father , Harshvardhan Hooda a experienced lawyer He has studied emotions, himself is caught in a web of family honour, it was Harsh who recognized that Zoya is much more to Adi than a business partner. He had nothing to do with the Siddiquis, even when Waseem offered to pay his professional fees

What Harshvardhan did was to play with Zoyas self respect. He maligned Yash in such a way and evoked a response from her which created a huge wedge between Adiya. Harshvardhan was successful, yes distance was created, all that trust talk between Adiya was thrown out of the window. It was only when Aditya closed the case and said he is done with everything, Zoya mutually accepted his decision and both of them decided to go ahead.. he went away, his absence created a huge gap for her, she gave the title of best friend bcos she couldn't do with out him. His presence was required. Harshvardhan noticed the equation when Zoya behaved like Adi to bring him back and asked the police to her go.

Waseem Siddiqui also sensed the connection between Aditya and Zoya , just like Anjana , Aditya is that past which he wants to forget. He is desperate to start a new chapter not only in Zoyas life but his life too. He is that father who never forced his opinions on Zoya atleast in the past and even now he cannot issue ultimatums. Aditya and Zoya till date meet each other , at times in their houses or in Zosh. Waseem has successfully manipulated Zoya to believe that her intuitions about life partners or human relationships are wrong.

Coming to Aditya , he cannot tolerate him, he has to for the sake of his daughters , now even Noor supports him. What does he do ? He tries to trample his self respect, insults him, humiliates him in front of absolute strangers. Now he is asking him to be a cobbler which is demeaning for a person who values self respect over anything else. Waseem is trying his best to mentally torture Aditya.

Now Aditya Hooda is in love, he has studied Waseem well, if he puts his self respect in front of his love, there are chances that Zoya may give in to her father s demand.

Aditya Hooda knows what he is doing, wasn't he the same person who played with his mother's self respect from the past 16 years , he insulted Anjana enough and always proved Sakshi right in each and every situation.

As you sow, so shall you reap. This is what is happening in Aditya s life, the way he behaved with his near and dear ones , he is getting it back . As of now he is taking his insults with a pinch of salt. He also knows that if he is hurt Zoya will also get effected . As of now it's just mind games.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Harshadholic Aditya is getting all his words back. First he told everyone cheated him, now he is given the option of trust and love. He has to deliver on Zoya trust. He takes up the challenge. He had told Zoya once doesnt she have self respect. That Zoya was deeply in love with Yash. Today for her trust, for her love he is keeping his self respect at stake. Most important he had told God himself in the church in the second or third episode in your house there is delay and there is only darkness. I am not asking you favour, I am asking you a debt I need a place to sleep. He also told he behaves with people exactly the same way they behave with him.
Today Wasim is insulting, is he insulting Wasim no. He is bending for his Zoya. God had given him place to sleep that day in the church. He has to pay that debt. That's why the daaga Zoya tied trusting God lands in his hand. Do my job, deliver on her trust if you want sukoon. He had literally challenged God and you can say God is showing him what it means to be God😆😆. Kya kya sunna padtha hai, kya kya sahna padta hai.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Harsh never humiliated Zoya the way Waseem is doing with Adi. We will never know what Harsh had up his sleeves to rescue Adi before Adi kept a condition that he and Zoya are a package deal. Harsh though haughty is considerate at times. It was a do or die situation for him to get his son out and he chose a path that didn't go down well with Zoya. But Harsh never had a personal agenda against Yash. He might have also done this coz Anjana might have confessed to Harsh about being responsible for PooSh's accident. Even during the anniversary preparations he was wary of Zoya's presence coz of his wife's reactions but at the end he did thank her graciously not just like a client but how an elder would appreciate u if u did something good.

About Waseem though I am mad at him right now, I will wait for the episode to air before concluding. Coz there is a high probability Adi too pushed him by his overbearing attitude 😆 And Waseem knows Adi is there to create trouble 😆 There are times I feel he is still better than Anjana coz the day he sees how happy Zoya is with Adi n how much Adi loves her, he will grudgingly come to accept Adi. But that will never happen with Anjana coz she will never want Zoya getting to the bottom of the truth and exposing her crimes before the world.

Coming to self respect vs love, that again depends on the individual. Some keep self respect above all whereas others feel love wins over all. Adi has treated people badly in the past esp his own family in the past. So in a way he is getting it all back with interest 🤣 I feel maybe Arshad or Zoya could have stopped Adi from making Arshad try on shoes. I could see that even Arshad was not comfortable and Zoya was clearly torn. So y not do something about it?
Edited by BeyondHorizon - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Adithya has always treated people the way he wanted...his mother and father both were subject to his wrath...even sakshi was thrown out of house when he came to know that she knew about poosh...So when someone doesn't likes you how they behave to you is something adithya definitely knew...i dont think he expects a decent behaviour from waseem infact he is using waseem's hatred for him to get a reaction out of zoya and he is quiet happy about it...It is like he is doing some experiment in the lab and will continue until he gets the desired result no matter how many times he burn himself for it...when he decided to reveal that he made the prank call he was ready for both punishment and forgiveness...this may be his punishment...forgiveness will hopefully follow it...so self respect is not something that is in his mind now...infact zoya will be the one who will take care of his self respect..lets see...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Aditya is an astute, smart & intelligent man. A pilot by training born in family of criminal llawyers, he is no stranger to conflicting situations where he needs to choose between his heart & head. Assessing situations, calculating risks & taking quick decisions is in his dna. He very well knows that sometimes to win a war u need to lose a few battles. So for him it's an all out war. So it doesn't matter to him if a few dents r there in his self respect. He'll happily take them as he knows it will be to his advantage only. Zoya will be more hurt than him by these incidents. So right now he is just showing the fighter spirit playing mind games with zoya.
Also I do agree with Karma theory. He called it upon himself too. The way he behaved with his closed ones, he definitely has to pay for them at some point & destiny has chosen this very point in his life to pay back.
It's like a chess game between him & zoya now only thing is that zoya is playing with her mind clouded by her father's expectations, her own insecurities & denial of her own feelings. While Aditya has got a clear mind & a heart full of selfless love. There's absolutely no doubt who the winner here should & would be unless cvs decide to play spoilsport 😆
Edited by diatoms82 - 7 years ago

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