Do men like Aditya exist?

Sometimes its just meant to be platonic and no matter the persistence its just time that brings a person to terms.. being stalky , quirky and all over the place can be suffocating if the other person is just not into the same space!

My guy friend and me were practically like Siamese twins! We used to study together.. play basketball together..basically do umpteen activities like any other teenager together. discussing books, music, fashion, crushes etc was so not out of the norm.. eventually through the years , this guy friend of mine openly confessed that he had feelings for me ..and he felt that we were just perfect.. Well that's where the problem was, I was just not into it and he mistook the care , mutual feeling of ensuring that the other was doing okay as Love! At first I was a little shocked, infact I remember shrugging it off saying its just a guy thing.. you know how friends do.. but eventually those words and the romanticizing of everything increased.. it felt out of place for me..and it took me a long time to make him understand that.. he eventually did because he knew losing my friendship was way more costly than giving up on his feelings..plus it wasn't ever meant to be.. he met someone amazing and actually the three of us are pretty close today! Probably because somewhere I understood where he was coming from it never really annoyed me as much as it did hurt me to see him constantly badger around the same topic. It took a while , but he did realize that we were perfect as "Dost","Yaar" but and not have any "pyaar waala pyaar"..lol!I didn't feel annoyed because I knew him pretty well and somewhere I just wanted that I have to get him out of his trance by being just normal without any emotional blackmailing..I wanted it to be a natural progression and give it time for it just got over.. we call it our years of growing up :)! He is like family now, where my mum talks to him than me..haha!

If someone were to do crazy foolish things .. or just go mad , berserk or borderline crazy.. I would be concerned and it would possibly not end well if I'm not into him in any shape or form!

Coming to adiya.. I just feel that because Adi is confident that Zoya has feelings for him.. is precisely why he is pursuing it further plus he doesnt want her to SETTLE for anything now.. He has seen her through her lowest and just wants the best..

the other person's nature and reaction is important if someone finds a person like adi. And yes ppl like adi are existing 😊not completely like adi but with some of adi's qualities.

Seen many stalkers n persistent ppl, but i don't think Adi qualifies as one, coz Zoya does love him, but usually guys r delusional thinking every action of a gal indicates dt she loves him.

But from there started the problem. They will fight everyday. She will come and cry to me. He will call me and ask why she is behaving this way and that way. And believe me we were really good friends till that point but then we started playing cat and mouse. He wanted to know from me whether she loved him to go and propose and I was not giving any information. Then one one hand they both will fight and on other hand we both will fight.

Problem was he was not willing to confess, i wanted to keep the promise and she was also not ready to confess. Everyone was hiding up the emotions. Things reached a point where two days before our university exam morning she went beserk throwing the books telling she cant study. I had already had a fight with him in the morning on why I was not telling the truth of what her real problem is and he had shouted he will flunk.

Finally I told her, if things goes like this all three of us will flunk the university exam. He is a potential university rank holder, we both are doing really good with respect to marks and need to get proper placement, it can be only solved if she confess what she feels about him. I assured her, he feels the same about her. Before she could change her mind, I dialled the hostel number and asked for him and gave the phone in her hand walking out from her room.

They confessed, they convinced their families, they got married and now parents of two adorable kids. And from the day they confessed I also escaped the torture as things became normal. So bottled up emotions are a mess.

In my personal opinion, don't throw anything on me for saying this,love is temporary like any other thing.at some point of time people lose their interest in love.

Only blood relations can go to any extend for each other.

When you are in love..self respect takes a back seat...it really depends how you define it and what is your priority...in this case Adi's priority is Zoya's realisation..

Let's think more in terms of family...siblings, parents, children, school friends have arguments all the time...but does anyone think in terms of self respect...in a couple of hrs everything is fine...it is only when we become older we start thinking...and more often than not it is ego and not self respect.

Although they have never shown it here, but the reason parents and society does not agree is because of religion.. and that is still that sad truth of our country...things are getting better but it's still a long way...

Relationships, i agree with shruti here...it is all a matter of heart...sometimes your relationships are best with family (blood) and sometimes with friends...i am fortunate to have very good bonding with my family as well as friends..