shaking my head at zoya

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I know this is going to go against the grain of many here but I was disappointed with zoya. not because she defended aditya but because she defended so blindly. she is doing the same thing that she did with yash. even when everything pointed towards an affair, she kept defending yash and pooja over and over and over. in the end, who lost? she did.

zoya lost her ability to love, to believe that life is beautiful. aditya motivated her to find herself but the journey she took was torturous. we need to be able to see people as people -- humans who are capable of making mistakes. otherwise, when someone does make a mistake, our trust gets shattered into a thousand pieces and we find it harder to rebuild our lives and also accept them.

zoya is going to be devastated when she finds aditya was the one behind the prank call and she may end up not believing anything he says later. she is going to doubt whatever aditya did or said and feel like everything is a lie because thats what happens when blind trust breaks.

arshad did not raise his voice or get hyper critical -- instead he was actually quite decent and rightfully angry at a situation where he felt that people including himself were being put in harm. all she had to do to was listen to him. she did not have to agree with him but she could have listened.

blind trust is never helpful. instead trust with your eyes open but be optimistic!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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umm i think after all what they have been through.. they have a totally different equation now.. adi came back more calm and then they met.. met everyday
they became very good friends and both trust each other so its okay if she trusted him.. i mean u would trust ur best friend more than a guy u just met who is trying to hook up with u...

so for me.. i guess her reaction was normal.. 1 step closer to build a more stronger bond
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maryam2

umm i think after all what they have been through.. they have a totally different equation now.. adi came back more calm and then they met.. met everyday

they became very good friends and both trust each other so its okay if she trusted him.. i mean u would trust ur best friend more than a guy u just met who is trying to hook up with u...

so for me.. i guess her reaction was normal.. 1 step closer to build a more stronger bond



yea I can see your view; but I just feel like zoya is setting herself for failure and the real problem between aditya and zoya is that kind of intense crazy all or nothing attitude. end of the day, people are people and if you don't give room for them to be human and make mistakes -- you are going to be miserable when they show less than perfect colours. just feel like zoya hasn't learned anything in that sense from the yash phrase
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mango_pudding1



yea I can see your view; but I just feel like zoya is setting herself for failure and the real problem between aditya and zoya is that kind of intense crazy all or nothing attitude. end of the day, people are people and if you don't give room for them to be human and make mistakes -- you are going to be miserable when they show less than perfect colours. just feel like zoya hasn't learned anything in that sense from the yash phrase


see that's the thing adi knows all about her.. how her trust was broken because adi went through it as well.. so she will not expect adi to do the same with her leading to her getting disappointed
i get ur point too.. hopefully we are going to see a different zoya soon😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
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First of all,I don't understand how that prank call breaks her trust!Aditya was wrong,agreed!But he never put anybody's life in danger!He sent Arshad to hospital but anyway he was going to drop Zoya who was going to Bharat Nagar!Even without the prank call these,two would've been in danger!
Zoya has every right to be angry with him for his childish acts & him interrupting her & Arshad every time but certainly the phone call hasn't put anyone in danger! In fact Adi saved the doc's & Zoya's life & Zoya saved Adi's life!

As for Arshad he's a manipulative,cunning guy who just wants Zoya at any cost because his ego is hurt!Zoya clearly told him she's not interested in him as she's not ready for marriage & love!And why is this guy so bothered about Adi's love for Zoya..He's behaving as if he's engaged to Zoya!

Zoya needs to be angry with Adi for not taking her feelings into consideration!
Zoya agreeing to marry Arshad because of prank call will be another low for her character after paak rishta track!
Makers have taken away the charm of the show with this third angle crap!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Adithya is zoya's only friend and the guy has put himself on danger so many times to save her life...she is alive because of him...so there is no way adithya is going to harm anyone in purpose and it is a fact...so zoya supporting and trusting adithya is the only normal thing...but my fear is that when the prank call matter comes out anjana may play her cards and that can make zoya more angry on adi because she went to the extend of slapping arshad...waseem will use this chance to brainwash zoya pointing out that how she end up trusting wrong people be it love or friendship...he may force zoya to trust his choice and get her agree to marry arshad...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@rams21 -- @shabla explained the consequences well which is what I wonder will happen as well; my issue is not trust but blind trust.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with you. Not that I didnt like zoya yesterday but you are right if we have blind faith then even their smalls mistakes leads to huge devastation. A person should be practical that everyone makes mistake. Aditya is human so is zoya so is Arshad. Trusting and blind trusting someone is totally different. Aditya and zoya both have been showings extensive emotions from the very beginning.zoya did blind trust Yash and paying for it still as she has totally closed off in love matters.
In the beginning the way Aditya behaved with zoya and others was extreme too. I guess they are presented that way for drama. But in reality person should give some space to their loved ones for minor error and trials. Even why not urself too... You can be selfish once in a while if it doesn't effect someone else drastically. Leading the life completely based on emotions or practicality turns it into a hardship. A BALANCE is needed for actual growth.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Zoya didn't hear anything about the prank call because she was away from there. She only heard the part where Arshad accused Adi of putting the glass pieces and nails inside the post and injuring him. Her anger was justified because she knows Adi can never do such a thing to anybody but I feel the slap was out of character. I mean she hardly knows Arshad, she's not that close to him, already rejected his proposal the previous night so I feel she had no right to slap him in front of so many people.
I don't understand why did Adi and Arshad and later even Zoya will make a big issue out of that small prank call. Zoya going to Bharat Nagar had nothing to do with the prank call. She would have anyway gone there and Arshad would have anyway got a call from hospital after the injured child was admitted. Was Arshad's own life more important than his duty as a doctor? Shouldn't he be thankful to Adi instead that of he was not there in the hospital then anything could have happened to that child? Forget Adi saving Arshad, Arshad could fulfill his duty as a doc because of being available in hospital at the right time.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Arshad and wasseem was insulting aditya and his family for no reason..yes..a mishap happened..and just becz a prank call was made by aditya doesbt prove tht he only kept those glass shards in the matki..both arshad and wasseem werenot even giving a benefit of doubt..just plainly blaming him..now that is also blind..
Zoya trust aditya more than anyone in the world..he was the one who made her face the truth even when they both hated each other from every fibre of their being..aditya hate cheaters..who better than zoya has beared tht truth of his...
In tht whole house it was zoya and rosana who voiced their support for aditya when all were playing their blame games..and the others dumpstruck..
Zoya took her stand..i wouldnt call it blindly..becz she had enough experience with aditya to support her trust..yash just married her and recieved her trust and love..aditya earned her trust and love thru his actions..how can tht be blind..making tht prank call was a mistake..she might get hurt knowing it..tht mistake caused people to insult their friendship..but blaming him for assaulting arshad was what?..aditya would never do that..i dnt knw when zoya aftr knwing the truth abt prank call will assume tht he put the glasses too..i somehow feel like..she will only turn against aditya when arshad or someone puts forth the fact tht aditya loved zoya..and he did it all for her..adityas confession can be the reaosn she gets heartbroken...

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