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Subha

@Life_Is_Dutiful

Stunner

+ 40

Posted: 7 years ago

#11

I feel that it was Pooja who was not in love with Aditya and not vice versa. Aditya was her best friend. He gave refuge to her and her mom in his house so she was indebted to him and didn't say no when he proposed to her. She probably was only infatuated and not loved him.

Aditya doesn't much express his feelings and emotions to anyone. He expects people who are close to him, to understand him. Pooja never quite understood him. Before she could talk about it with him, probably Yash came into her life and she fell in love with him.

Yash-Pooja story looks so half baked to me. I wish they had shown more flashbacks of them.

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shivinrocks

@shivinrocks

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#12

it happens at times we meet the right person at the wrong time and then everything goes topsy turvy...same happened with both the couples in the show...many ppl fall in love with another person after marriage too(its difficult to control this stupid emotions at times u know!!)...

here adi has always said that poo has cheated him..she broke his trust..she was his bff..took care f him n knows how he hates cheaters...but once did he said ever he loved pooja madly like how zoya said bepaanh pyar for yash...u can see the contrast here...adi thought to keep his bff wd him throughout his life n dats only possible wen u marry her or else if she settles wd sm1 else he will be having tough tym to live as he got used to her since childhood(the same he is doing wd zoya, he is used to be around zo n irritating her)...like poo said wen adi will find his true luv dat tym he will not be able to tolerate even a single drop of tear n her face n will go n get all the happiness f the world to her n dat exactly what adi has started doing for zo unconsciuosly..he has become more caring towards zo in comparison to what he had for pooja(as seen in the fbs)...he is trying to so hard only to get a small reaction from zo which may be pooja expected from him..

now we have to see yash's justification too..probably then we can relate more..but one thing is clear"dosti main pyar nahi...pyar main dosti honi chahiye"...(its my pov)...

p.s.- i posted the same on the other thread too

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LiveLifeInBliss

@LiveLifeInBliss

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Santiago24
Hola guys,
Today's epi was interesting esp. that monologue of Pooja.

Pooja makes a case for her EMA (well subtly) by talking of how she felt with Yash and thats something she never felt with Adi and calls her relationship with Adi just dosti.. she further shows her 'magnanimity' by saying that hope Adi too finds love.. presuming ofcourse that Adi too didnt feel love for Pooja..

Here is my thing - its the safer route to take.. that the couple were never in love to begin with and thats why they fell for another.. Its a simpler construct to deal with..
It avoids all the complexities that come with... yes we were in love.. but somewhere we fell out of it and then fell in love with someone else again..

This easy way, atleast the way I see it, comes from the BS that has been fed into us for eons... that saccha pyar bas zindagi mein ek hi baar ho sakta hai.. etc etc.. this whole premise negates falling in love multiple times with different people.. break ups happen and people move on na.. its not as if they loved any one partner any less.. and people fall in love with different people for different reasons each time..
Please note that am not talking of two timing here..or of falling in love with multiple people at the same time.. Am talking of falling in love at different points in time..

Why should the CVs reduce Aditya and Pooja's marriage to a loveless one and one that is only based on friendship.. I think coz its simpler to convince people and the audience of reasons now when Adi and Zo fall in love.. coz otherwise audience will be like.. this is not done.. how can people fall in love again..

It goes against the premise where in bepanah they began with finding second chances in love.. abh toh they are making it as if they all are fallin in love for the first time..

Thoughts?

Honestly, I don't think that's what the makers are going for. Because if you look at it, Pooja-Aditya and Yash-Zoya have different love stories from the start. What you are talking about in your post about falling in love with someone, then falling out of love and falling in love again with someone else...I think that applies more aptly to Zoya and Yash, well Yash in that equation. As he went against his family's wishes to marry Zoya, so he clearly loved her too at the beginning.

With Aditya and Pooja, the scenario is different. I just watched a link that someone posted on the forum and the director pretty much described Bepannaah in a nutshell. And he said that with pooja and Adi they were so close and Adi was the only male she was ever really close and him her. So yeah they fell in love, but clearly it was more of a friendship wala love. How would they know that there is something missing or that there can be more in a relationship when that's all they know? Maybe at the time, that love was enough but after 5 years in a marriage things change.

So we have two scenarios here for me and I wasn't surprised with what Pooja said today. I am not justifying her actions, only the story. I don't think they are playing it safe...they are just showing two different paths that led Pooja and Yash astray from their marriage.

But I also understand what you are trying to say...why are they making it seem like Pooja didn't love Adi at all. Honestly, from the start I felt like it was Adi who was more into Pooja. To me, it's like Pooja just went along with it because she knows Adi for so long and he's such a good guy and their families are happy and what more do you need in a guy kinda thing. And for me, it's okay to show that because there are lots of cases like this too.

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Is this really abt 2nd chances now ???
Marriage btwn Aditya and Pooja was based on friendship now ???? Does that mean they were never in love and is that the reason why Aditya behaved like a lunatic after losing Pooja...I just don't buy this crap.
Maybe for Pooja it was friendship, but I dont think for Aditya., unless both of them termed friendship as pyaar. And if Pooja felt only dosti for Aditya, why did she want Junoon waala pyaar from him ???? Then she knew she should hv not expected anything from this marriage then friendship
And why didn't she tell Aditya straight away that she felt only friendship for him and wanted a divorce

So Pooja felt only friendship for Aditya and I think Yash married Zoya for the money, becoz Zoya's dad

Ofcourse Aditya loved Puja.. for him commitment, trust, faith are very important.. he was content with his relationship with her.. he would have never ever broken her trust.. same goes for Zoya.. Not sure about Yash but Puja was not content.. When marriages fall apart its hard to pinpoint a single reason.. but these things happen..

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