Cheating has no valid reason in real

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Posted: 7 years ago
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If u see kabhi alvida na kehna film very logically speaking it should had been abhishek & preity having extra martial affairs as that had solid reasons but it was shahrukh & rani were having it. Preity very well understood shahrukh's prob that he is not unsuccessful & depending on his wife, abhishek did all his best 4 his married life & rani who cant conceive but still abhishek never complained about it, yes preity & abhishek were fun luving but serious also ,it was rani & shahrukh who never discussed their problem with their spouses.
I read many post regarding yash pooja falling out of luv or zoya aditya r dependant on them . Sorry i dont agree with this that zoya aditya were fully dependant on their spouses, yes zoya aditya maybe childish , playful but were not insensible, if pooja or yash had shared their probs with aditya & zoya i m sure they would help them or cooperate with them , specially pooja aditya who have friendship from childhood, aditya had probs with lies due 2 his past experiences , he would had definately cooperated with pooja if she choose 2 share her problem which dint choose same goes with yash as zoya dont look like who spend money like water as she had been accused of, if yash had told her of his financial problems with her its not like zoya would had not paid attention or if yash had asked her 2 come 2 her in law's house mumbai , i m sure zoya would not had refused him but same yash never took move towards zoya.

If pooja yash cheated their spouses then better they give some gud reason of cheating.

4 me cheating has no valid reason
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nice post.
I don't think they had cheated on their spouses, because one show is revealing the leads were cheating. They are creating suspens which will reveal later in the show.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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As per press conference pooja yash do have affair
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think you are talking about my post😆
Obviously, what they did was wrong. As I had said, they tried to have the cake and eat it too.

By dependant, I did not mean financially dependant but emotionally dependant. Aren't we all emotionally dependant upon our loved ones? So were they. It was natural. And it was Pooja and Yash's fault for not sharing things with their partners but what I believe is that they had a reason to not share. There's always a reason behind doing something, good or bad, anything. Maybe their reason was wrong or maybe it was right. We will come to know.

I haven't watched KANK so I can't say anything related to that😆


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

As per press conference pooja yash do have affair


Let's wait and story will unfold everything 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with you ... morally cheating has no excuse. If you feel you dont love your partner anymore , then walk out and get divorce. I cant personally accept cheating at all.
That being said, I can very clearly see why Pooja and Yash was not the right people for Adi and Zoya. Not coz we would expect the leads to get together eventually but Pooja/Yash werent really spirited as the other two.

Adi and Zoya seems to celebrate love and life ... they are free spirited people ... while Pooja and Yash seems too calm and serious. They are the type who will hide their insecurities rather than flaunt it like Adi/Zoya...

And it seems that such kind of passionate love is not everyones cup of tea ...

All this said, It is very much possible that they didnt have an affair and all this is just build up for some drama :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sorry i m not speaking of any particular post.
My POV is yash pooja dint trusted their spouses with their prob lems, zoya is emotionally strong she would had provided d much needed support 2 yash. If there communication problem b/w aditya & pooja as aditya is a pilot mostly away from home then aditya 2 would had felt d same but he dint gone out had affair. Pooja aditya had a solid base of their relationship thats friendship still pooja dint like 2 disclose her probs with aditya ..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Of course, there can be no valid reasons or justifications for cheating. But there is a difference in looking for the actual reasons... as to why it could have happened, what led to it, what were the problems or issues, etc. None of these can justify the wrong but helps in understanding... that's all. And I guess that's what the story will intend to do... show the reasons but not justify.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Good post.

But is there any such thing as valid/invalid reason for cheating?
I personally dont think so.
I think if one is inclined towards cheating, then all reasons to not do so or abstain from doing that seem pointless.

Depends on everyone's perspective and situations though.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

If u see kabhi alvida na kehna film very logically speaking it should had been abhishek & preity having extra martial affairs as that had solid reasons but it was shahrukh & rani were having it. Preity very well understood shahrukh's prob that he is not unsuccessful & depending on his wife, abhishek did all his best 4 his married life & rani who cant conceive but still abhishek never complained about it, yes preity & abhishek were fun luving but serious also ,it was rani & shahrukh who never discussed their problem with their spouses.

I read many post regarding yash pooja falling out of luv or zoya aditya r dependant on them . Sorry i dont agree with this that zoya aditya were fully dependant on their spouses, yes zoya aditya maybe childish , playful but were not insensible, if pooja or yash had shared their probs with aditya & zoya i m sure they would help them or cooperate with them , specially pooja aditya who have friendship from childhood, aditya had probs with lies due 2 his past experiences , he would had definately cooperated with pooja if she choose 2 share her problem which dint choose same goes with yash as zoya dont look like who spend money like water as she had been accused of, if yash had told her of his financial problems with her its not like zoya would had not paid attention or if yash had asked her 2 come 2 her in law's house mumbai , i m sure zoya would not had refused him but same yash never took move towards zoya.

If pooja yash cheated their spouses then better they give some gud reason of cheating.

4 me cheating has no valid reason


Society always blames the current partners as unmein koi kami hogi, isliye the spouse had to look for the missing thing outside.

Cheating scumbags have many reasons to fall out of love. The truth is they are immature enough to handle a solid, trusting relationship when they have it. Marriage mein bahut adjustment karna padta hai. If you can't, then instead of hurting someone with your insensitive ways, dont get hitched only then .

It is not like they were being ill-treated in the show. They were supposed to tell their partners if something was wrong and they did not. Communication plays a big role in maintaining a relationship. I would put 90% blame on them and the rest 10% on AdiYa as they were too blind to notice the symptoms.
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