How does she stand to be near him?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi everyone. I'm new to this show and got so addicted that I watched episodes 1-96 in less than 3 days. There was so fast forwarding for the nonsense filler scenes so it made the time go by fast.

The one thing that I love about this show is that the elders in the family are so "respectful". They keep on talking about respect for women even if they don't allow women in their house to work and that the women are the strength and glue of the family.

And I loved the scene where priyom's bhabi requests of her husband to let their daughter study for as long as she wishes too. Beautiful scene even if he is a cheating bas***d.

So with all of that said the complete turn off and yet so hypnotically addicting are the scenes with Lakhan. Yes he is an illiterate gangster. So allowances must be made, but for someone to have come from a family where women are treated with respect his behaviour is more shameful and unforgivable. ( but he's very hot so we tend to allow him more latitude because of that).

When someone comes from a family where all they have seen is disrespect of their womenfolk then and they themselves are uneducated it is a bit more understandable for how they treat others, although still not right. BUT for lakhan to treat poonam as a possession , as someone who should be there at his beck and call it makes it so much more frustrating to watch.

He's been told by everyone that a wife is not a "ghulam" but he doesn't care and that what's leads me to my frusterstion at today's episode

How does he have the audacity to tell her that the relationship needs to be equal when he treats her like a slave, who should follow commands but never voice her own opinion. She can't even go to bed on her own when she is clearly exhausted until he comes to bed.

How does one inspire love when they are treating the one they love worse than the household servants. As if she's a dressed up doll to have no say no desires no wishes.

Doesn't make sense.

That's one thing that Priyom knows how to do. He knows how to read her eye, read her body language and know what she is thinking or what she wants to say before she is even able to say it.

Those scenes that show how much respect and love and esteem he showers onto her are such a pleasure to watch.

Lakhan definitely has the better body and holds me captivated on the screen. I am breathlessly waiting for his scenes. BUT what I want to eventually see are this amazing hunk treating his wife as a human being, as a cherished and respected wife and well then Priyom is just going to have to find someone else.

Although what happens if poonam loses her fear. I'm scared to watch when that happens OR if it ever happens.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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First of all..welcome to forum...
& sch kind of scene equally frustated us too or u can say even more whn u wanna see smthng good with thm & get opppsite... I m way confused hw thy proceed.. V jst cn hope rest on cvs what khichdi they r making in their brillant brains..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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now thats what i expect to see too..and it has always been my question why this guy is like this...if u remember he is the one who brought the college form for poonam without anyone's instigation but he is the one to stop poonam's study coz bade papa "insulted" him.he is the one beat those college guys yet he is the one who brought those guys so that they can b friends with poonam just by seeing a video of poonam.he had no problem with the fact that his fiance's best friend is a guy.he was all willing to inititate a patch up when her fiance fought with her best friend yet he is the who made her stand under water for not behaving properly with her best friend..his extremity of love and torture gas always made me think why the guy is like this!!!is it really becoz of his bailbuddhiness??even yesterday he could have easily throw the food and give a slap(thats what we can expect from laakhan) but he ate it but later he ll made poonam to drink that milk.i liked the scene where poonam was thinking his bad n good deeds equally.like her i m too confused abt his dual nature.it cant b normal or just like that.well i never like a character just becoz that guy has a hunky body to drool over.i like the character "laakhan" coz of his fluctuating behaviour and thats why i m for laakham coz only poonam ll b able to remove his boundaries n ll let us know real laakhan.and even every fans of laakham wants laakhan to treat poonam as princess with respect.so looking for more.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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welcome in forum dear😊...post padha maine aap ka dear pahle toh mai ye bataa doon ki yahaan koi bhi laakhan ko isliye nhi like karta ki he is good looking...mai usse like karti hoon toh kewal isliye ki usme agar kuch buraai rahi hai toh kuch achhai bhi rahi hai...uski sabse badi jo burai hai, wo hai uski regressive soch aur aggressive nature,jiske liye mai usse kum uski upbringing ko jyada responsible maanti hoon...
kal k hi episode me pt ne bola hum ''thakur ghukne k bajaay katna jyada pasand karte hain'' wo marriage break hone se pahle apne baap se jyada importance pt ko deta tha, ya yo kahe pt uska ideal tha ...so agar usse pt ne hi bachpan se ye ghutti pilaayi hai toh ye kaise umeed ki jaa sakti hai wo punnu k matter pr chup chaap uska decision sir ghuka k maan leta
aur rahi baat woman respect ki toh pt ne kya kiya biddo drame k time,ye jaante huwe bhi ki mithi wrong hai kewal "thakur ki zubaan" k naam pr chuppi saath li,aakhir laakhan k samne usne kya example set kiya??ki aap k ghar ki bahu ki respect se jyada bete ki zubaan important hai
and issue of laakhan n punnu marriage...mai kabhi iski supporter nhi rahi hoon,kyoki mere according punnu sayad kabhi apne saath kiye bure behaviour ko bhool naa paaye aur dusra mai laakhan ki ye regressive soch badlte dekhna chahti thi ki "aurte kewal bachhe paida karne aur mardo ka khayal rakhne k liye hoti hain" ye tabhi possible hota jab cv ek strong,intelligent n smart modern ladki ki entry uski life me karwate,mai sach me naachti agar wo laakhan ko uski aggressive harkato k liye karara zawaab deti (wid 2-3 tight slap😆)...pr afsos aisa ho naa saka n punnu...pahle uss se mughe sympathy hoti thi bt ab kewal gussa aata hai😡...kasam se lakkhiya k khopadya pr doh danda maarne se wo agar punnu ko bhool jaay toh mai khud ye nek kaam apne haato se karna pasand karoongi😡

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

Hi everyone. I'm new to this show and got so addicted that I watched episodes 1-96 in less than 3 days. There was so fast forwarding for the nonsense filler scenes so it made the time go by fast.

The one thing that I love about this show is that the elders in the family are so "respectful". They keep on talking about respect for women even if they don't allow women in their house to work and that the women are the strength and glue of the family.

And I loved the scene where priyom's bhabi requests of her husband to let their daughter study for as long as she wishes too. Beautiful scene even if he is a cheating bas***d.

So with all of that said the complete turn off and yet so hypnotically addicting are the scenes with Lakhan. Yes he is an illiterate gangster. So allowances must be made, but for someone to have come from a family where women are treated with respect his behaviour is more shameful and unforgivable. ( but he's very hot so we tend to allow him more latitude because of that).

When someone comes from a family where all they have seen is disrespect of their womenfolk then and they themselves are uneducated it is a bit more understandable for how they treat others, although still not right. BUT for lakhan to treat poonam as a possession , as someone who should be there at his beck and call it makes it so much more frustrating to watch.

He's been told by everyone that a wife is not a "ghulam" but he doesn't care and that what's leads me to my frusterstion at today's episode

How does he have the audacity to tell her that the relationship needs to be equal when he treats her like a slave, who should follow commands but never voice her own opinion. She can't even go to bed on her own when she is clearly exhausted until he comes to bed.

How does one inspire love when they are treating the one they love worse than the household servants. As if she's a dressed up doll to have no say no desires no wishes.

Doesn't make sense.

That's one thing that Priyom knows how to do. He knows how to read her eye, read her body language and know what she is thinking or what she wants to say before she is even able to say it.

Those scenes that show how much respect and love and esteem he showers onto her are such a pleasure to watch.

Lakhan definitely has the better body and holds me captivated on the screen. I am breathlessly waiting for his scenes. BUT what I want to eventually see are this amazing hunk treating his wife as a human being, as a cherished and respected wife and well then Priyom is just going to have to find someone else.
@bold blue...i don't think ki cv usse itna achha kabhi dikhayenge😡
Although what happens if poonam loses her fear. I'm scared to watch when that happens OR if it ever happens.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you to everyone for the welcomes and your thoughts. Some of the posts in Hindi are hard for me to read but I think I got most of it.

Poor Poonam. Does anyone know how many times we are going to have to say that ? 😉

Also, we saw the complete difference in how priyom speaks with poonam versus how lakhan speaks with her. Lakhan spoke to her as if she is a little kid who he needs to speak slowly to. Giving her permission to drink water 😡 she should have woken up right away and had some. I digress because we won't get that.

The only word that comes to mind is "junoon". He is so possessive and in love or what he thinks is love that he can't see that he's hurting the one he loves.

On another point Priyom even now, when he's hurting inside has a way of making you feel all happy. Loved that last scene.

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