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Posted: 10 years ago
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You must be surprised. But you ll get your answer after reading it. Before that i want to clarity that the post is not meant for any comparison and won't create any ship wars.

As you all know that laakhan is aggressive, hot tempered, over possessive (abusive too... His snatching earning scene) he has Lotta bad attitudes and reasons behind this attitude are he is not expressive. He can't share his feeling to anybody. His upbringing or sanskaar also not good. That's why his outburst of feeling his hiding emotion turns into anger.

If you are watching this show from the beginning then you will get to know that he hasn't express his feeling with anybody yet. Is there anybody with whom he can share his feelings, pain, tears?? Even poonmy is lucky she has some friends with whom she can share her pain, tear, worries, anything (I'm talking about priyom and someone her school friend... Dunno her name) on the other side lakhan has selfish people. His mother, who always trying to get money position power which is more important to her than her own son. His so called friend Chuna yadav who claims that he is his well wisher both always trying to brain wash him against their brotherhood. But he never goes against mitlaish. In fact he always respect him by touching his fit Mitlaish slapped him but he didn't utter a single word. He insulted him in their work place front of many workers and his father-in-law. But next day in b'day celebrations he forgot that all gile-shikve. This all quality shows that he is not bad at all. He needs somebody to understand him, specially poonam as not b'coz she is his wud b wife. But only she can do it. To understand some that not means you are going to cost or sacrificing something big. It costs nothing but gives a little happiness or peace both of them. But it is up to her and even she is not wrong that she finds happiness in priyom. But if their pure friends turns in love in upcoming story then it will highly affect on lakhan as punmy is his akhari ummid. Then i can't see him in such situation. So he should have to be or will have to be negative. B'coz we can't see him in vulnerable situation. That's why I'm saying do hate laakhan otherwise your sympathy for laakhan can not handle by you, can it? (it for those who can't see there hero's in heartbroken situation like me 😊 )
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why to hate... i started this serial coz of laakhan...he forced me to watch it... i am here to see his complicated journey... and its only starting...it seema poonam will not understand him...may be their marriage break... but their story nit going to end... i can stop watching if laakhan will turn negative completly ...but cant give up.on #laakham... they can be endgame... abi to story start hui hai...cant hate lakhan...

Lakhan became my reason of watching...and i m ready to watch his painful story whether he will get poonam or not
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: menoila

Why to hate... i started this serial coz of laakhan...he forced me to watch it... i am here to see his complicated journey... and its only starting...it seema poonam will not understand him...may be their marriage break... but their story nit going to end... i can stop watching if laakhan will turn negative completly ...but cant give up.on #laakham... they can be endgame... abi to story start hui hai...cant hate lakhan...

Lakhan became my reason of watching...and i m ready to watch his painful story whether he will get poonam or not

Yeah even i can't able 2 do it as he's only person whose only five seconds scene makes me watch the epi 2 or 3 times in day. But can't see him in vulnerable situation. That's why i said whether they have to be couple or he have to be negative.so that i can hate him 😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ladli_manu


Yeah even i can't able 2 do it as he's only person whose only five seconds scene makes me watch the epi 2 or 3 times in day. But can't see him in vulnerable situation. That's why i said whether they have to be couple or he have to be negative.so that i can hate him😭



I dont think he will turn negative..otherwise show is predictable... and moreover they are saying its a triangle... then why to make our laakham angle weak by hating...forum is full of laakham shippers...let us enjoy... and his feelings are nit out yet... when he will open...equation will change... and i must say his painful story will be worth watching... dont know what happen next...but i want to cry with him..want to happy with his smile...i believe he will get his love... he is not understanding poonam and vice varsa...but its jst starting...they are developing characters...and initiallly they cant fit in each other shoe but we will defo see some growth in their relation... even if it have limited epispdes...may be 150 200 ..tobi..we are on 15 ep basss... abi 100 epis baki hai... so why give up now... may be we get hurt now...may be more painful scenes are pipelined in future but there is also a ray of light that we may get laakham love...and watch their growth and development of love...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: menoila

Why to hate... i started this serial coz of laakhan...he forced me to watch it... i am here to see his complicated journey... and its only starting...it seema poonam will not understand him...may be their marriage break... but their story nit going to end... i can stop watching if laakhan will turn negative completly ...but cant give up.on #laakham... they can be endgame... abi to story start hui hai...cant hate lakhan...

Lakhan became my reason of watching...and i m ready to watch his painful story whether he will get poonam or not



Same here.. M here only for lakhs. 😳 bt m nt sure how long m wid dis show . coz lakham has so many hurdals n dt pree is too kabab me haddi ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Freebird_23



Same here.. M here only for lakhs. 😳 bt m nt sure how long m wid dis show . coz lakham has so many hurdals n dt pree is too kabab me haddi ..


oh but iss cute haddi ke khud punmy kabab padhi hai. when she will realise that her hubby kabab is more Delicious than this pree haddy. 😳 πŸ˜›
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lakhan has Priyom, his daadi, his dad, his chachu..he has so many people who actually love him without any selfish reasons. Its wrong to say he is surrounded by selfish people. Phulan treats him as his own son. Mithilesh gets angry with Priyom too but he doesnt differentiate between his brothers and Lakhan. Priyom has been Lakhan's best friend since childhood.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ladli_manu


oh but iss cute haddi ke khud punmy kabab padhi hai. when she will realise that her hubby kabab is more Delicious than this pree haddy. 😳 πŸ˜›



Hope she realise soon.. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well I disagree. Lakhan has Priyom, who not only understands him but also tries to resolve problems between him and Poonam, so that they don't fall apart. And Dadi, Bhooshan and Phoolan look out for him. Even Mithilesh has never scolded him without a reason. If there are negative factors like his mother and that Chuniya in his life, so does Poonam has a regressive mother and a scary father. Lakhan being a man has all the freedom, Poonam has none. She has to struggle through barriers even to get a basic college education.

That being said raises an important question that why is Lakhan like this? Agressive, possessive, hot tempered, dominant, stubborn... Nothing has been taken away from him. He gets same love and respect like every other son of the family. In fact the youngest one, Rajkumar gets more disrespect from others than him. Priyom gets ire of Mithilesh more than him. Lakhan gets appreciated for right acts and reprimanded for wrong deeds. He seems to have problem with authority. He seems enraged when someone points out or reprimands him for his flaws. He doesn't see reason and logic behind other people's thought and action. Indeed all this makes him an interesting character to watch, but none of it is justified. There has been no hint of any kind of injustice done to him in past or present. And if his mother has influenced him with her negativity, then there are so many good characters around him too, to get influenced from.

And he does express himself through his temper and defiance. He is filled with negative emotions like frustration, anger, even streak of vengeance. Many construe his feelings towards Poonam as love, I only see possessiveness right now. Poonam seems more like an object or a childhood trophy to him than anything else. Maybe he is incapable to show love in a pouplar way, but what about care. I haven't seen him caring for anyone, not even Poonam. Just because he doesn't look at other women, doesn't qualify his feelings for Poonam as love. At least not for me. And why is it Poonam's responsibility to correct him, she doesn't seem to love him. Why does the burden of not behaving appropriately with Poonam lies with him?? Why someone else has to step in every time to knock sense into him. I don't think he beat up those boys because he felt Poonam was hurt, but because his authority was challenged. He repeatedly refers to Poonam not as an individual but always as his would be wife, like he owns her, and that is her only identity.

So I like to watch Lakhan, and eagerly waiting to see his story unfold, but I do not like him. Strictly my personal opinion, and not aimed to degrade any forum member. It's just a difference in our perspective to look at the character of Lakhan.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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sorry but no matter how hard i would try i acnt hate this guy
and neither do i want to hate him
he is one of the best characters in begusarai
and i eagerly wait for his scenes.
i know that "indian tv show" predictable wise poonam will end up with priyom, but you know what anything could happen, this show could be different and lakhan can get the love of his life
so i am gonna stay positive, love laakhan and dream about him getting poonam<3

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