Yesterday episode was embarrassing - Page 2

Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

I understand your views and I did not watch the episode with my family either but then when I actually sat down to watch something else, I realized this major point and I would like to present my own opinion and experience here about this.

I agree that such topics are uncomfortable to watch with your parents thus I, myself, did not watch it on tv but rather on Jio TV.

However, I found it to be hypocritical of my own family to find this uncomfortable but be okay watching a show like Udariyaan where the ML is romancing his wife's sister at every corner or Anupama where the ML is cheating on his wife and having them live in the same house or watching other idiotic shows where the ML is abusing or torturing or doing some form of physical or mental abuse on the FL.

All these shows air on prime time, all these shows have HUGE audiences, all of them promote EMA, abuse, etc. etc.

But, I find no one speaking up or saying this should not be shown to families, this is not something that should be normalized and whitewashed later on. We have such a HUGE cancel culture in our country but everyone is ready to forgive the ML for his abuse as long as he is going to romance the FL in the next episode.

Jab yeh sab hum dekh sakte hai, jab yeh sab ke liye we never speak up or change the channel then what is wrong with watching these characters speak about an actual event that does happen in the life of women?

I have been to wedding's and seen people sit to discuss suhagraat with the bride or groom in the exact same manner. The entire family waits with thali and aarti to send these two people off into a room to boink and waits by the door in the morning to get the results of it 😆

But, at the same time we are so ashamed to even watch or hear this topic infront of others.

Isn't this hypocrisy at it's finest?

P.S: Again, I'm not pointing at anyone but just a thought I had yesterday when I did not watch the episode and I wondered why am I allowing myself to be uncomfortable by this when I see worse every day and not speak up.

If we do not start normalizing discussing such taboo concepts with our own family then when will it ever be okay to discuss these things?

We live in a world where intense scenes which have intimacy are expressed without fear in movies and that is explicitly watched by everyone in movie theatres.

It is only natural for women to discuss this. Moreover, the description she gave about a kiss with that beautiful depiction made it sure that a kiss is an expression of love. I watched the episode with my mother and she laughed along, we enjoyed it.

You only need to widen your sphere and have a broader perspective.

Labeling the talks as cheap or double meaning is not going to do any good.

You are a youngster and you should behave like one.

I respect your opinion and I hope you will respect mine too.

In the Indian traditional context, talking about SR is a taboo for many but at the same time it was approved by many because it was considered as a need based education. . It's quite natural, and the sense of embarrassment is not unnatural either.

The first night of marriage can be very anxious and breathtaking; it can also be overwhelming at times for the bride. But these first night tips for brides will surely make the anxiety levels go down a multiple notches, it is obvious for some brides to have jitters and apprehensions in every era, from those times till date. It is relevant to the context, in those days , there was no scope of any such education to a girl, to ease her tension, some ladies used to educate the bride casually.

Watching with parents is undoubtedly a bit uncomfortable, but, in modern times we have remote in our hands to evade the scenes from viewing with elders if we have any objection.

Marriage is a legal and social construct, it is serious as well as exciting. This sense of matrimony brings with it a license and an expectation for companionship.

All the advice the giggling friends, bridesmaids or the most significant ladies in a bride's life, it's all about how the two, the man and the bride connect with each other as friends, companions and a couple.

Indian TV series are mainly based on a mix of modern as well as traditional stories, which replicate the societal norms, and rituals.

I am very happy seeing all the members expressed their views, the different opinions, with a dignified manner. Perceptions may differ, but the basic idea is to understand the issue, in which you all excelled. 🤗❤️🤗

But remember one thing, don't discuss elaborately about other serials, which is against rules.

And we all must be very careful while discussing such topics, we shouldn't cross the line, it is a public forum. 😊

Originally posted by: Viswasruti

In the Indian traditional context, talking about SR is a taboo for many but at the same time it was approved by many because it was considered as a need based education. . It's quite natural, and the sense of embarrassment is not unnatural either.

The first night of marriage can be very anxious and breathtaking; it can also be overwhelming at times for the bride. But these first night tips for brides will surely make the anxiety levels go down a multiple notches, it is obvious for some brides to have jitters and apprehensions in every era, from those times till date. It is relevant to the context, in those days , there was no scope of any such education to a girl, to ease her tension, some ladies used to educate the bride casually.

Watching with parents is undoubtedly a bit uncomfortable, but, in modern times we have remote in our hands to evade the scenes from viewing with elders if we have any objection.

Marriage is a legal and social construct, it is serious as well as exciting. This sense of matrimony brings with it a license and an expectation for companionship.

All the advice the giggling friends, bridesmaids or the most significant ladies in a bride's life, it's all about how the two, the man and the bride connect with each other as friends, companions and a couple.

Indian TV series are mainly based on a mix of modern as well as traditional stories, which replicate the societal norms, and rituals.

I am very happy seeing all the members expressed their views, the different opinions, with a dignified manner. Perceptions may differ, but the basic idea is to understand the issue, in which you all excelled. 🤗❤️🤗

But remember one thing, don't discuss elaborately about other serials, which is against rules.

And we all must be very careful while discussing such topics, we shouldn't cross the line, it is a public forum. 😊

Sorry next time nahi hoga

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

Sorry next time nahi hoga

Originally posted by: Viswasruti

Hi dear, why are you saying sorry? Read the post and then feel proud, my dear. Just follow the rules.It is neither a reminder , nor a DT note, it is pure appreciation, but with caution!!😃

Thank u 🤗

mujhe laga meine koi Rules toda ....🤣

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

Thank u 🤗

mujhe laga meine koi Rules toda ....🤣