Analysing Aniruddh Roy Chowdhury #2🥀

Today again I'm trying to analyse Aniruddh.. There are many questions in our minds.. Eg: what's Aniruddh's feelings for Bondita? RuDi shaadi pehle honi chahiye ya pyaar pehle..

So I'm just sharing my thoughts on this topic.. I would like if you guys share yours opinion too..

When Bondita came in Aniruddh's life she was a mere kid, jise ye bhi pata nehi tha ki shaadi kya hota hai, pati kya hota hain, sasuraal kya bala hain.. Bas use ek khute se khol ke dusre pe bandh diya.. When Bondita murmured "maa" in her sleep for the 1st time Aniruddh realised ki usne kitna bada zimmedari liya hain.. After that gradually he became her mother figure, father figure, guardian, teacher, protector everything..

Bondita wo hain jiske gile bistar saaf kiya hai Aniruddh ne, Bondita wo hai jise Aniruddh ne khilaya hain, padhaya hain, jiske liye wo bachha banke gudde gudiyo ki shaadi karwaya hain, jiske liye wo tarabai ki chaku se khel gaya, apne baba kaka samajh sabse ladh liya hain.. Jiske sath usne apni khushi, apna dard sab banta hain.. Bondita wo hain jiske liye Aniruddh apni ideology to bhi todd dala.. Aniruddh ne Bondita ka bachpan dekha, use bachhi se ladki bante dekha..

Now let's forget about Aniruddh for sometimes & put yourself in his shoes.. Kya asani se kar paoge usse wo wala pyar jise tumne apne ankhon ke samne bade hote dekha hai?

Growing up with someone & watching someone grow up infront of your eyes is too different things..

Aniruddh has grown up with mini that's why attraction natural tha.. But he watched Bondita's growth from a child to a teenager infront of his eyes.. That's why accepting her in that way is quite difficult for him even if there's no enmity track..

Pyaar bohot tarha ke hote hain..😊

Aniruddh's love for choti Bondita is just like Krishna's love for Draupadi.. It has affection, devotion, belief..❤️

But Aniruddh's love for badi Bondita will be like Krishna's love for Radhaa.. It has passion..🥀

Ab iss affection se passion ka safar tay karne mein kaafi wakht lagega.. Aur ye tab hi possible hoga jab aniruddh har roz Bondita ko apne samne dekhega as a grown up lady.. So now marriage is necessary I think for the further growth in their relationship..👍🏼🤗

Baaki mangu aur rangu jaane.. Kuch v ho sakta hai..😳

Main abhi se handkerchief rakhe jaa ri hai 😆

Baadme ghar paunchke padungi aur reply degi.

+ infinite❤️

Anirudh has seen her as a child and till now he sees her as a child only......seeing her as a woman is something Anirudh is not capable of right now.

The kind of man Ani is he will take a lot of time.It will a long, difficult and organic process.The longest one in their journey

I loved the Krishn-Draupadi mention❤️they had the most selfless relationship ....Krishn always guided Draupadi....and she was always devoted to himthe affection and love they had we rarely find anywhere.I stan their friendship .

I agree at this point he knows that bondita had a special place in his life and if he gives it to someone else bon will be heart broken. He isn't thinking in terms of physical attraction at all. All he knows is ki he can't make anyone else his wife because they had an unspoken loyalty towards each other.

Marriage is important because I don't see any other way where he can start seeing her as a woman everyday. He needs to live with her to understand her as an adult and fall in love with her in that way❤️

+Infinite❤️

It's beautifully written Shrabana

Anirudh has always seen Bondita as a child and even after span of eight years he still sees her as a child ..

And it's difficult for him to ingnite such feelings for a person whom he has seen growing ....He has witnessed each phase of her life from the day he married her

Seeing her from a girl to a teen , helping her in curing her bed wetting issue to handling her during her menses

He has loved the girl immensely ....I loved your reference of Lord Krishna and Draupadi ....

They have a beautiful bond which can only be felt !!!!

To have a Love feeling Full of passion he has to see her firstly as a woman .....

About bon he is the only guy in her life so it's natural for her to fall for him

To love him as A woman loves a man ...for him it's quite difficult to Love her like a woman ..like his woman

And about saying no to VJ he has to deny her cause he has given that place to bon a long ago ...... A sense of an unsaid loyalty between them .

It would be a slow journey how this man realises and then accepts these feelings for her

But before that he has to see her like a grown up !!!!

He has to understand her , have to spend time with her to know the grown up bon .....these feelings can't be ignited overnight ....it would take time ...

A gradual change which would occur between them ... their relation is not about physical attraction it's About emotions .

There is no taking in their relation it's just giving immensely without expecting anything in return ... whether it's love or respect !!!

Originally posted by: Unnatiiii_17

+ infinite❤️

Anirudh has seen her as a child and till now he sees her as a child only......seeing her as a woman is something Anirudh is not capable of right now.

The kind of man Ani is he will take a lot of time.It will a long, difficult and organic process.The longest one in their journey

I loved the Krishn-Draupadi mention❤️they had the most selfless relationship ....Krishn always guided Draupadi....and she was always devoted to himthe affection and love they had we rarely find anywhere.I stan their friendship .

Yes.. Aj bhi wo bachhi hi hain Aniruddh ke liye.. Aur hoga kyun nehi.. 8 saal se bondu dur thi.. uparse abhi tak shakal bhi nehi dekha.. To aniruddh ko pata hi nehi hain ki grown up bondu akhir hain kya!! Use dekhega, mehsoos karega tab to jake pyaar hoga na..

Originally posted by: shirin04

I agree at this point he knows that bondita had a special place in his life and if he gives it to someone else bon will be heart broken. He isn't thinking in terms of physical attraction at all. All he knows is ki he can't make anyone else his wife because they had an unspoken loyalty towards each other.

Marriage is important because I don't see any other way where he can start seeing her as a woman everyday. He needs to live with her to understand her as an adult and fall in love with her in that way❤️

This line..👏😳❤️

Red: yes.. mujhe bhi yahi lagta hain, it's most necessary now.. jab har roz dekhega, tab jaake awkwardness khatam hoga & feelings jagenge dil mein..

shikshak babu🤗

i feel that they will be having anidita marriage before love because barrister babu is very well known for it's parallels!

they may have a forced marriage and anirudh should be in denial for a long time because he has literally seen her growing!

bondita's bubble of her love should burst!

she should feel first that anirudh still considers her as his zimmedari or dost, even though he cannot live without her.

she is his jeene ki wajah but she should get it that he cannot love him the way a husband should love his wife!

once that is done, i want bondita to know that anirudh had loved saudamini before their marriage!

i want her to see those letters and then turn into geet in the second half of jab we met!

anirudh should be aditya in the second half when he will realize his love....

like...he should love bondita the way aditya loved even after knowing that geet is happy in her life with her love...

that song tum se hi din hota hai

i want him to behave like that when bondita decides to leave him because she was not there in his heart...

i want this....then after this they should confess!!!

oh man....i am already ready with the script! lelo makers mera script!!

Originally posted by: Unnatiiii_17

+ infinite❤️

Anirudh has seen her as a child and till now he sees her as a child only......seeing her as a woman is something Anirudh is not capable of right now.

The kind of man Ani is he will take a lot of time.It will a long, difficult and organic process.The longest one in their journey

I loved the Krishn-Draupadi mention❤️they had the most selfless relationship ....Krishn always guided Draupadi....and she was always devoted to himthe affection and love they had we rarely find anywhere.I stan their friendship .

the love ni has for bon is rare to find

i want ki dheere dheere interactions shuru ho ani and bondita ki-

baaki let us see whci direcions makers take

hope they end vj track and bon dreams and bring her to reality

her love has to mature day by day

to be honeat bon should feel ani loves her becase to be honest-if she feels he cant ;ove me kabhi love spotry nahi banti

for bon love is love -she loves ani the most and all kinds of love-she is devoted to him from before,respects him,cosndiers him her eveything now has started loving him in another way

her pyar ka bukhar i want to end and her dreams plus radha ji has first stage ofnlove as moh which she has to pass

an after passing various stages of love ani and bo will come togetehr

I totally, completely agree with each and every word of your beautiful analysis!!

I loved how you used the Krishna-Arjun and Radha-Krishna analogy💞💞

Anirudh will have to know badi Bondita first, talk to her like normal human beings and spend sometime with each other to fall in love with her like a man loves a woman.

He loves her extremely right now too just in a different way while Bondita is in love with Anirudh like a woman loves a man because she has seen him as the guy he is😍😍