WHY ANIRUDH IS DISTANCING HIMSELF FROM BONDITA

ANIRUDH'S POV AFTER TODAY'S EPISODE (IF EVER HE TRIES TO RETHINK WHAT HE DID)

anirudh ke paas mini ka example hai

how her love for him became so toxic that she became a psycho and wanted him to become her ghulam and after that even tried to kill bondita..

so,

i think he is now trying to distance himself from bondita because he now knows how much toxic is his obsession for bondita

he wants her to choose someone else who deserves her and not him later in her life

because he knows that she will choose him if he remains the same to her

so it is again for bondita's welfare according to him that he is distancing himself from her and not hate towards her

anirudh would try to distance himself from bondita by indulging himself in all his work and secretly keeping a check on her through salim , so that he is not being close to her, but always being with her.

i think anirudh is definitely judging himself as a toxic person like mini and wants bondita to choose someone else over him, so he wants her to move on from him..isliye uske saath na hone ka dikhawa kar raha hai.

8 years are a long time. bondita is transforming from a teenage to an adolescent woman. she will get to know what it means to have a husband wife relation...why her thakumaa warned her from holding anirudh's hand..and all other things

she will come to know about love..

so in this period if anirudh is with her, he will unintentionally disrupt her growth...she might end up loving him..so he does not want that because if he is with her, she will have to face all his wrath like she did when they were married...she will have to console him ignoring her mental trauma..he was ready to give up his life..he was ready to die..

he attempted a suicide

he was drunk and while talking to his friend salim in the bathroom, he just drowned himself in the bathtub

he would have died then and there if kaka and bihari did not come

woh bola bondita ka sapna pura nahi kar paaye, usko nahi bacha paaye ab zindagi mein kya bacha hai

so he wants to die

then he decides to leave india and go to london...kyuki usko yaahan lag raha hai ki usne bondita ki zindagi kharab kar di

london jaate waqt bhi he hallucinates girls dressed as dugga telling him ki woh jhoota hai

pura depressed and darra hua tha...so he must have thought about how bondita has affected him and he bacame so toxic because of his obsession

so isliye woh apne guilt ke wajah se, apne aap ko bura maanta hoga

and sochta hoga ki he does not deserve to be in her life

she should never choose him...

is there a guarantee he will not think about it again if something happens to bondita in future?

what will she do after him?

if she starts loving him (which i think she will after leap), she will choose him over any better man of her age.

anirudh definitely is thinking about their age difference too. He is judging himself to be older for her..

i guess these are the questions going on in anirudh's mind after which he decides to distance himself from bondita

Originally posted by: Nish27

ANIRUDH'S POV AFTER TODAY'S EPISODE (IF EVER HE TRIES TO RETHINK WHAT HE DID)

anirudh ke paas mini ka example hai

how her love for him became so toxic that she became a psycho and wanted him to become her ghulam and after that even tried to kill bondita..

so,

i think he is now trying to distance himself from bondita because he now knows how much toxic is his obsession for bondita

he wants her to choose someone else who deserves her and not him later in her life

because he knows that she will choose him if he remains the same to her

so it is again for bondita's welfare according to him that he is distancing himself from her and not hate towards her

anirudh would try to distance himself from bondita by indulging himself in all his work and secretly keeping a check on her through salim , so that he is not being close to her, but always being with her.

i think anirudh is definitely judging himself as a toxic person like mini and wants bondita to choose someone else over him, so he wants her to move on from him..isliye uske saath na hone ka dikhawa kar raha hai.

8 years are a long time. bondita is transforming from a teenage to an adolescent woman. she will get to know what it means to have a husband wife relation...why her thakumaa warned her from holding anirudh's hand..and all other things

she will come to know about love..

so in this period if anirudh is with her, he will unintentionally disrupt her growth...she might end up loving him..so he does not want that because if he is with her, she will have to face all his wrath like she did when they were married...she will have to console him ignoring her mental trauma..he was ready to give up his life..he was ready to die..

he attempted a suicide

he was drunk and while talking to his friend salim in the bathroom, he just drowned himself in the bathtub

he would have died then and there if kaka and bihari did not come

woh bola bondita ka sapna pura nahi kar paaye, usko nahi bacha paaye ab zindagi mein kya bacha hai

so he wants to die

then he decides to leave india and go to london...kyuki usko yaahan lag raha hai ki usne bondita ki zindagi kharab kar di

london jaate waqt bhi he hallucinates girls dressed as dugga telling him ki woh jhoota hai

pura depressed and darra hua tha...so he must have thought about how bondita has affected him and he bacame so toxic because of his obsession

so isliye woh apne guilt ke wajah se, apne aap ko bura maanta hoga

and sochta hoga ki he does not deserve to be in her life

she should never choose him...

is there a guarantee he will not think about it again if something happens to bondita in future?

what will she do after him?

if she starts loving him (which i think she will after leap), she will choose him over any better man of her age.

anirudh definitely is thinking about their age difference too. He is judging himself to be older for her..

i guess these are the questions going on in anirudh's mind after which he decides to distance himself from bondita

this is true no matter how much he tries,he will think bon love us for her gratefulness and she only saw ani in her life and thinks he gave me life,made me life

this is true no matter how much he tries,he will think bon love us for her gratefulness and she only saw ani in her life and thinks he gave me life,made me life

infact u knwo it is btetter they show bon is afraud of love or something and ani again tries to make her feel beauty of love or she does not know love and cluelesson it- it will make ani also realise bon needs him and he needs him and frinedhips can be started

that is hwt i dont want bon to have love feelings as then ani will distance himself from her

she can have adoration and admiration for ani(which is love but she has not realsied it) as bon wil try not to keep any expectations of lovr and m,arriage from him if bon is made progressive or she thinks it is wrong as ani gave me whole life

she is a mature girl now

Originally posted by: Nish27

ANIRUDH'S POV AFTER TODAY'S EPISODE (IF EVER HE TRIES TO RETHINK WHAT HE DID)

anirudh ke paas mini ka example hai

how her love for him became so toxic that she became a psycho and wanted him to become her ghulam and after that even tried to kill bondita..

so,

i think he is now trying to distance himself from bondita because he now knows how much toxic is his obsession for bondita

he wants her to choose someone else who deserves her and not him later in her life

because he knows that she will choose him if he remains the same to her

so it is again for bondita's welfare according to him that he is distancing himself from her and not hate towards her

anirudh would try to distance himself from bondita by indulging himself in all his work and secretly keeping a check on her through salim , so that he is not being close to her, but always being with her.

i think anirudh is definitely judging himself as a toxic person like mini and wants bondita to choose someone else over him, so he wants her to move on from him..isliye uske saath na hone ka dikhawa kar raha hai.

8 years are a long time. bondita is transforming from a teenage to an adolescent woman. she will get to know what it means to have a husband wife relation...why her thakumaa warned her from holding anirudh's hand..and all other things

she will come to know about love..

so in this period if anirudh is with her, he will unintentionally disrupt her growth...she might end up loving him..so he does not want that because if he is with her, she will have to face all his wrath like she did when they were married...she will have to console him ignoring her mental trauma..he was ready to give up his life..he was ready to die..

he attempted a suicide

he was drunk and while talking to his friend salim in the bathroom, he just drowned himself in the bathtub

he would have died then and there if kaka and bihari did not come

woh bola bondita ka sapna pura nahi kar paaye, usko nahi bacha paaye ab zindagi mein kya bacha hai

so he wants to die

then he decides to leave india and go to london...kyuki usko yaahan lag raha hai ki usne bondita ki zindagi kharab kar di

london jaate waqt bhi he hallucinates girls dressed as dugga telling him ki woh jhoota hai

pura depressed and darra hua tha...so he must have thought about how bondita has affected him and he bacame so toxic because of his obsession

so isliye woh apne guilt ke wajah se, apne aap ko bura maanta hoga

and sochta hoga ki he does not deserve to be in her life

she should never choose him...

is there a guarantee he will not think about it again if something happens to bondita in future?

what will she do after him?

if she starts loving him (which i think she will after leap), she will choose him over any better man of her age.

anirudh definitely is thinking about their age difference too. He is judging himself to be older for her..

i guess these are the questions going on in anirudh's mind after which he decides to distance himself from bondita

This does sounds good but I highly doubt Ani would think himself as toxic for Bondita because he knows all other people around her are going to manipulate her according to their whims and fancies and noone really cares for what is actually good for Bondita. He does realize that he is the only neutral person in her life who would do things that are good for her. So he may not distance himself thinking he is toxic because till now he hasn't been shown like that and has planned to go with Bondita to London.

Having said that there will be something related to this in separation I think. I feel Thakumaa may manipulate him like the way she did for Bondita's leg. She may tell something like why are you destroying her life? Tumne khud toh shaadi tod di and now you are taking her to London. Samaj kya kahaega, jab voh badi hogi toh kon shadi karega usse? Tum toh shaadi nahi karoga par uski Zindagi toh barbaad hojaegi.

Because according to society they really don't have any relationship, its Just mann ka rishta. Also Bondita's treatment is still going on. So, I somewhere think Thakumaa will emotionally manipulate him and also may tell that she will agree to send her to London and in exchange he has to stay away from her. Ani may also think of reasons you listed and think ki she deserves better so may just stay away though he would watch out for her through Salim or someone🤔

On the other hand something tells me some big drama is going to happen in the marriage. Bondita's toofan dialogue, Sumati's dialogue about sapne aren't giving me good vibes. Also kaka has been instructed to shoot Anirudh. So it all may take a very dramatic turn. Thakumaa may create big drama with RCs which may force Ani to stay back. I still think he will not hate Bondita, but will just become aloof from everyone over the years.

Sorry for the long bakwas😆

Originally posted by: Katy4566

this is true no matter how much he tries,he will think bon love us for her gratefulness and she only saw ani in her life and thinks he gave me life,made me life

infact u knwo it is btetter they show bon is afraud of love or something and ani again tries to make her feel beauty of love or she does not know love and cluelesson it- it will make ani also realise bon needs him and he needs him and frinedhips can be started

that is hwt i dont want bon to have love feelings as then ani will distance himself from her

she can have adoration and admiration for ani(which is love but she has not realsied it) as bon wil try not to keep any expectations of lovr and m,arriage from him if bon is made progressive or she thinks it is wrong as ani gave me whole life

she is a mature girl now

katy i think whatever may happen

bon will never be afraid of love

once she knows what love is, the first person she will think of would be ani

so the realisation would be from ani's side

Originally posted by: bhshre95

This does sounds good but I highly doubt Ani would think himself as toxic for Bondita because he knows all other people around her are going to manipulate her according to their whims and fancies and noone really cares for what is actually good for Bondita. He does realize that he is the only neutral person in her life who would do things that are good for her. So he may not distance himself thinking he is toxic because till now he hasn't been shown like that and has planned to go with Bondita to London.

Having said that there will be something related to this in separation I think. I feel Thakumaa may manipulate him like the way she did for Bondita's leg. She may tell something like why are you destroying her life? Tumne khud toh shaadi tod di and now you are taking her to London. Samaj kya kahaega, jab voh badi hogi toh kon shadi karega usse? Tum toh shaadi nahi karoga par uski Zindagi toh barbaad hojaegi.

Because according to society they really don't have any relationship, its Just mann ka rishta. Also Bondita's treatment is still going on. So, I somewhere think Thakumaa will emotionally manipulate him and also may tell that she will agree to send her to London and in exchange he has to stay away from her. Ani may also think of reasons you listed and think ki she deserves better so may just stay away though he would watch out for her through Salim or someone🤔

On the other hand something tells me some big drama is going to happen in the marriage. Bondita's toofan dialogue, Sumati's dialogue about sapne aren't giving me good vibes. Also kaka has been instructed to shoot Anirudh. So it all may take a very dramatic turn. Thakumaa may create big drama with RCs which may force Ani to stay back. I still think he will not hate Bondita, but will just become aloof from everyone over the years.

Sorry for the long bakwas😆

haan woh bhi ho sakta hai
but i think thakumaa se confrontation ka time nahi milega

bondita will flee as a dulhan only

haan..yeh hosakta hai ki while escaping, anirudh is caught and bondita runs away

and then thakumaa warns him to stay away from bondita otherwise she will kill her when she returns

but iss drama mein, tapur is going to be injured by one bullet, the other bullet may lead to rimjhim kaki's death because it is confirmed that she is dying before leap

it will take a dramatic turn...now i am sure..

these questions will definitely come in his mind but the first thing would be someone forcefully separating them

Originally posted by: Nish27

katy i think whatever may happen

bon will never be afraid of love

once she knows what love is, the first person she will think of would be ani

so the realisation would be from ani's side

Exactly the guy needs to open his eye balls to see true love and affection from this Barrister Bondita. He may act idc attitude to her but how much ? One day you will fall. 🤣

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Exactly the guy needs to open his eye balls to see true love and affection from this Barrister Bondita. He may act idc attitude to her but how much ? One day you will fall. 🤣

yes one day he will fall, that is decided from the very first episode

Lovely post

As far as love is concerned aniruddh will not be able to acknowledge and accept..

He may also think of it as sin.. Keeping in mind how small she was when he brought her in his house.. For him love won't come easily..

But i feel in case of bondita .. She will be in love with her pati babu

Originally posted by: Laalchi_Reader

Lovely post

As far as love is concerned aniruddh will not be able to acknowledge and accept..

He may also think of it as sin.. Keeping in mind how small she was when he brought her in his house.. For him love won't come easily..

But i feel in case of bondita .. She will be in love with her pati babu

but i guess not in starting as adhoora pyaarkuch tha nahi

so she will have after leap deep adoration and respect and then dheere dheere she realises love as come on all jer life and studies she gave to fulfil her dream

bahut focused and dedicated rahi hogi voh plus ani ki tarah uske paas mini nahi hai

her life was different she knew how she came there so aate hi love nahi par dheere dheere she will relaise if ever she wants love amd marriage(uspe sisues honge like does she wnat them)-it will be ani only