Anirudh Roy Choudhury AT#43~Tumhari Zimmedari Mere Jeevan Ka Laksh Hai - Page 64

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

IKR, I miss Saurabh in the show. Ab bas Ani ko reality check ka thappad pade. My money is on Ninja.

I want him to start realizing and coming to terms with his true feelings himself.

Koi aur aapko raah dikha sakta hai, lekin ander se aapko khud hi accept kerna hota hai.

Ninja isko kuch sikha bhi de if she is a positive character, tab bhi he has to accept his feelings himself.

Abhi tou mujhe itna doubt hogya hai ke feelings koi exist kerty bhi hain?

Care tou tha... because as I said somewhere else ke Bon is like doting cat and he is like the owner of the cat. Tou pet ke sath jaise attachment hota hai, waisa hi care and attachment tou hai.

Mager sirf uski base per woh Bondu ko shadi ke bandhan mien bandhay tou nahi rakh sakta na?

He needs some more intense feelings for that which I USED to believe, existed...but now, I am very dubious!😕

Yeh bhi ho sakta hai ke woh sirf Bondu ko as a guardian hi dekhta ho...asal mien.

Tab ager Ninja usko chaped maaray gy bhi tou bhi kia fark padd jayega.

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Originally posted by: Doc.love

I want him to start realizing and coming to terms with his true feelings himself.

Koi aur aapko raah dikha sakta hai, lekin ander se aapko khud hi accept kerna hota hai.

Ninja isko kuch sikha bhi de if she is a positive character, tab bhi he has to accept his feelings himself.

Abhi tou mujhe itna doubt hogya hai ke feelings koi exist kerty bhi hain?

Care tou tha... because as I said somewhere else ke Bon is like doting cat and he is like the owner of the cat. Tou pet ke sath jaise attachment hota hai, waisa hi care and attachment tou hai.

Mager sirf uski base per woh Bondu ko shadi ke bandhan mien bandhay tou nahi rakh sakta na?

He needs some more intense feelings for that which I USED to believe, existed...but now, I am very dubious!😕

Yeh bhi ho sakta hai ke woh sirf Bondu ko as a guardian hi dekhta ho...asal mien.

Tab ager Ninja usko chaped maaray gy bhi tou bhi kia fark padd jayega.

🥺

Definitely hai feelings toh. Zarurat se zyada care karta hai uski. Not like a doting cat. SR track se pehle woh bhi pati-patni ki baatein karne laga tha. Periods track me baat nai ki isiliye zyada hi utsukh ho rha tha. Clearly kaafi kuch feel karta hai. She is very important to him, in fact, his top priority. Bas dimaag iss baare me chalata nahi hai kyunki buddhu hai.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Definitely hai feelings toh. Zarurat se zyada care karta hai uski. Not like a doting cat. SR track se pehle woh bhi pati-patni ki baatein karne laga tha. Periods track me baat nai ki isiliye zyada hi utsukh ho rha tha. Clearly kaafi kuch feel karta hai. She is very important to him, in fact, his top priority. Bas dimaag iss baare me chalata nahi hai kyunki buddhu hai.

Yehi tou dukh hai mujhe. Jis baat ka samajh nahi aarha tha, uss baat ka itna bada tamasha laga dia... itne grand scale per usi insan ko itna hurt ker dia ke woh bechara kahin munh dikhanay layak na rahay. Kia gaaon walay abh Bondu ke sath "unwanted bride" ka stigma nahi attach kerien ge?

He knows well that Bondita is emotionally very strong and intelligent. Did he even consider for once how badly shattered she will be?

He did actually... he was worrried about her komal dil...aur actually usi baat se mujhe iski inconsistency per aur ghussa aya ke aik minute tumko uski chinta horhy hai aur doosre minute tum us per cheekhien maar rhe ho!

I know this is a show and Bondu will rise agai and all...

Lekin bass... mujhe buht ziada afsos hai iss baat ka. I try to joke around and goof around about it in the EDT, but I am actually quite sad like you all.

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Originally posted by: Doc.love

Yehi tou dukh hai mujhe. Jis baat ka samajh nahi aarha tha, uss baat ka itna bada tamasha laga dia... itne grand scale per usi insan ko itna hurt ker dia ke woh bechara kahin munh dikhanay layak na rahay. Kia gaaon walay abh Bondu ke sath "unwanted bride" ka stigma nahi attach kerien ge?

He knows well that Bondita is emotionally very strong and intelligent. Did he even consider for once how badly shattered she will be?

He did actually... he was worrried about her komal dil...aur actually usi baat se mujhe iski inconsistency per aur ghussa aya ke aik minute tumko uski chinta horhy hai aur doosre minute tum us per cheekhien maar rhe ho!

I know this is a show and Bondu will rise agai and all...

Lekin bass... mujhe buht ziada afsos hai iss baat ka. I try to joke around and goof around about it in the EDT, but I am actually quite sad like you all.

🥺

Nahi thi inconsistency! It was a battle between his fikar and his anger. You can see it during the the entire shouting scene. Especially in the inconsistency in his tone, how he would go from screaming to pleading to explaining. It is a pity that his anger won. Sabse bada regret Ani ka yahi hone wala hai.

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Originally posted by: Doc.love

No problem yar... you have all the right to rant. 👍🏼

I would just like to add a few things.

Kuch demand nahi kia/Aniruddh ne Bon ko sab kuch diya: True. Agreed.

But wasnt that his responsibility? Or was it all his ehsaan? Jo bhi tha, he was wholeheartedly invested in it...but flipped the moment he realized that now that little girl may be developing some feelings for him, which is all but natural. He had all the time to yell at her, but he could not find one minute to take her away and explain in as simple words as possible?

Mujhe tou uski conflict hi samajh nahi aarhy. As I said, I cannot understand this guy anymore. Empathize and then Sympathize tou buht duur ki baat hai.

He literally brought a little girl home with a promise that he will take care of her. He did well...and that was the reason I respected him as a human. I never expected him to be perfect. Just a few days back, I was defending him on a post ke uski impulsive nature uska personality flaw hai naa ki uski bad habit. But there is a limit to things...right?

Aniruddh took the longer and harder route: Right. Agreed. But if this rishta was just a zimmedari, he could have sent Bon with his mother to a dharamshala... shantiniketan types. Guardian bann jata sirf. Kuch personal nahi hona chahiye tha na phir tou? Why did he continue with all that patni jaap, etc. Impersonal rehna chahiye tha na. Ager woh raakshas babu samajhty rehty tou theek tha. Itna closely attach hi nahi kerta uss bacchi ko apne aap se.

Chalien...lets cut some slack again ke bechara Bon ki behteri ke liye hi ker rha tha jo bhi kia.

Mager abh jo kia, uss mien konsi bhalai hai Bon ko?

Emotional damage, bojh, faas, zimmedari, swang,...all these harsh and extremely toxic words Bon ke samnay bolay gaye. Sampoorna ko moqa isi liye mila kyunki Aniruddh ne woh moqa usko plate mien rakh ker dia. Knowing full well how sampoorna is currently hell-bent on destroying Bon.

Aap kisi ki responsibility lete ho, aap sirf usko material things hi dete ho kia?

Uske emotions ka, uski izaat ka khayal rakhna aapki responsibility nahi thy?

Poore gaaon ke samnay aap ne jis bachi per ehsan ker ke usko chhoti maalkin wali izzat dilai thy, aik second mien aap ne "unwanted bride" bana ker rakh dia usko.

Yeh uski izzat kerna tha?

Aap itna zimmedari jaap kerte ho...

Aise nibhatay hain zimmedari? Roshugulle de ker...room de ker... maa ke pas le ker jaa ker?

Now, Ashley says anger issues hain and shes right. But this does not justify the fact that what happened yesterday and how he handled the situation was extremely harsh and it can even have very negative and harmful impact on the kid...jo ke aapki zimmedari thy!

Have you ever adopted a kid/pet?

Itna harshly tou aap unke sath bhi nahi pesh atay... aur yeh tou phir aik aisk bachi thy jis se woh khud bhi aik point per kafi attached tha. All those roothna manana, roshugulle ki haandion per letters likhna... Wasnt it a sign of his affection and care for her?

Yeh sab nahi dikhana tha na phir...

I am not an ardent Aniruddh fan. Never have been, never will be.

And right now, I am very hurt for Bondita only.

Wow, I love this forum. People have such matured opinions here.

Aniruddh not only provides materialistic things for her but provides emotional support and right guidance to her as well. Initially he could not come to terms with the fact that he took the aid of a malpractice (child marriage) to save a little girl from Sati. So, the zimmedaari jaap.

Slowly he moved on and started caring for her genuinely. He associated caring for her, mentoring her and listening to her and keeping her happy as and will be the essence of their relationship. For him, patni = above all.

It was all good till Bon menstruation cycle started and everyone pushing him to exercise his husband ly rights over her. They threw the physical relationship into his platonic definition of hubby-wife which made him uncomfortable.

Remember Sourabh trying to take a book with pictures about consummation from Ani's library because he was awkward to explain. Ani encouraged it. I repeat again if Bon develops a crush on some school boy, Ani would be more open and easy to discuss that.

Agreed, he knew how society functions and his kaka does too. This topic is very awkward for him to discuss. Irrespective of Bon's age, it will always be. In his eyes, he is her mentor and she is a little girl he promised to take care of. When this topic comes, he is unable to see it completely from biological terms like menstruation. He is awkward to acknowledge the change in dynamics and unable to accept it. Keeping her as a kid makes it slightly easy for him.

My boy is terribly wrong here. To dodge the bullet which he is unable to take in, he tried to avoid the confrontation till it piled up. Bon is suffering. He didn't make her unwanted bride. He just tried to tell her they can't have normal pati-patni marriage. Agreed, the discussion should have happened only between them. Not in front of public.

Bon will be devastated and I am sad but it's for her to become strong. Rise like a Phoenix. Ani-Bon bond will loose the innocence now and it will be more on the lines of respect.

I will stop ranting here. Aniruddh is wrong yesterday and I still love him.

Originally posted by: RUDY575

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Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

time pass photo session🤣

Arre see the heart

Background me...

Something fishy

Originally posted by: RUDY575

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Photographer ke paas kitne dil hai?

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Photographer ke paas kitne dil hai?

Ash I feel something fishy...

It's going to be very big dhamaka... I guess