Exactly 👍🏼 Anirudh knows he will never be able to give that place to Mini which Bondita has earned for herself that's why he terms this marriage as wrong to Mini. He talked about the feelings of 1st wife because her feelings matters to him. I have always said Bondita is no charity for him, he has accepted her as his wife, he sees his future with her and a man like Anirudh who doesn't care about customs or society, can accept someone as wife only when he has immense affection and love for her.Well i agree with u Arpita, Kaka, bihari and somewhat batuk has emotional attachment with Bondita but Ani, it is something else, he is literally hallucinate her, he is thinking abt her while sleeping, while awake, even when he was with mini, i noticed when mini touched his hand he felt uncomfortable, why, because subconsciously he feels he is married to Bon, he told yesterday on coconut phone "How could i tell everyone that i don't want to get engaged with mini and it's not good for her too" why he couldn't tell this because he has no excuse, he can't say i will not give my first wife status to mini because that's for Bondita only, he himself somewhere is not accepting this that's y today also he said to somnath i dont understand why i am not happy, but bihari was right his wife is suffering so much that's y he is not happy, for bihari it's okay to see them like this but for Ani it is not.