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Posted: 17 years ago
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I just saw the last part of today's episode after such a long time..Now I wish I hadn't seen it..

How dare Amar raise his voice to Divya like that..His sudden temper and pointing fingers and clueless anger and the tears in Diya's eyes from shock and sorrow from being treated like this was totally disgusting..

When did Amar gain this attitude of being the sole decision maker, this utter male chauvinistic despicable behavior towards his wife? Does money do that? In such a small span of time he has transformed from a love stricken innocent Banarasi sweet heart to this ego centric, dominating MAN of the house?

Why Divya is always the suspect? Why does he have to dance at little signals from Sindura?

I loved this couple and loved their love story…I am not a feminist but this hurts at the core of my sheer existence…My favorite TV serial has become a torture to watch…Please creatives do something….

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Was the last scene really that bad?? :( Hmm I'll have to see it.
I hated how Sagar spoke to Vidya and I absolutely detest the way Amar talks/shouts at Divya. If he was my husband (Thank God he isn't) then I'd strangle him to death.
Nishi, be positive. Maybe we can something interesting with this future Sam angle??
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Dear I have one thing to say to your comment: Absoultely agree.
If these bmtd creatvies are trying to show us the true colors of society then they are wrong. Not every husband listens to what his family says and ignores his wife. Infact in my own family my chaco yells at his own brothers for his wife. And when his wife does something bad she is innocent. So i am sorry creatives the message you are trying to bring about to us is wrong.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hmmm
i didnt see the last part
but now i will see it
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think the creatives believe that if they show the female protagonist facing problems all the time then their TRPs would rise higher cuz more women would identify with it... Well that's what happens in most of the serials basically... But they need to know that the USP of this serial is SD's chemistry and not such crap😡
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Reema I haven't seen the earlier parts...I don't know the context because I didn't watch the serial for a long time...
May be because I am watching after such a long time, this little segment was hard to take...my mind this rudeness magnified a thousand times...
I hated Sagar's weird attitude towards Vidya too...but he wasn't in love with her, he was confused and he never thought (at least initially) she was worthy to be his wife...
But Amar is here because of Divya..because he loves her...
If my husband treated me like this in front of guests, I would file for divorce at that instant...There is always a civil way in confronting miscommunication... Goshh....And Divya is a lawyer???
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Bmtd11 and Rosh hun,
Absolutely...I understand women would shower sympathy towards Divya...but at the same time when they see a modern educated lawyer takes this crap from her husband then its justified for their husbands who are not literate to treat them like crap!! Is this a msg the creatives want to send to the general mass?
I am really sad...
Reema, the only postive I can think of now, Diya to go away from him for a while and let him suffer for her a bit...
Can't one of those babas tell him this new found attitude of his will bring his doom or something? It has a direct and positive correation with money and power he obtained recently..which he initially thought didn't belong to him...Arrogance is fatal for a guy like him and sole purpose of his life is to make SV's love story complete..
Ufff....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I don't even want Amar to apologise...! He can't get away with this every single time. How I wish Divya would give him attitude! This time it wouldn't be out of her character to do that unlike Vidya who couldn't even give Sagar an angry look ever!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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yess..a little attitude would suffice but I really want him to get the full treatment...I want her to flirt with someone who shows care and leave him for a while...He should know no one can be taken for granted...
He totally deserves this...
Thinking of it made me feel happy
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i saw the episode and also the way that he shouted at her and honestly speaking i think Divya deserves all the crap that she is going through. I mean the whole house was fine with the marriage even Kamna then what was the freakin need to take Amar to the room with Kamna and ask if she is fine with the wedding. And even after Kamna said that she was fine with the wedding in front of Amar Divya kept on trying to get it out of Kamna that Kamna wasnt happy. Now if i was in Amar's place it would seem to me that Divya was trying to put words into Kamna's mouth. As for Amar "yelling" I think he is being a brother who's sister just ran away from her own wedding and he is just yelling at the person who thinks is the cause for kamna running away and not his wife. I cant believe i am defending Amar but honestly Divya needs to learn to deal with sindoora. She should learn by now how Amar reacts to certain situations😕

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