Bebasi dard ka alam...An apology

Bebasi dard ka Aalam...tum mujhe de do apne ghum....

I know there was lot of mixed feeling regarding the episodes...and how Vidya could forgive easily...but I actually like the song they chose....

In the movie Baabul...even though John Abraham knew that Rani Mukherjee couldn't love him, he only asked for a chance to share her pain....and help her forget of her sorrows....

Same goes for Saagar, almost...(I say almost because he sn't in the same situation)

Today Vidya spoke in English, and showed Saagar how much she loves him, and ironically, today for the first time he has realized how deep Vidya's love for him runs. Today all his confusion has vanished.

Today Vidya spoke for herself, and showed that even though she has learned English, she still loves her language, and education is only something so that her husband never feels ashamed of her.

Today due to Vidya's initiative, Saagar has realized the true value of Vidya...

Him singing Bebasi dard ka alam...is not a love song...but asking her for a chance....a chance to redeem himself, because he realizes that he has given the sharpest pain imaginable...and he is asking Vidya for a chance to prove himself as a better husband...a better friend in some ways..to be able to share her pain...to take away the pain he has given her....

To be there for her, and work as hard to make this marriage work...as much as she has tried...

He also hasn't fallen for her because she learned English...and now she is educated...she has risen in value and esteem for him...because she did it for him...learning English is the hardest of all languages....and for Vidya to achieve that....she has risen in his mind and heart...because she took the initiative....not because she actuall learned it...

I hope that the next step in their relationship will be Saagar trying to make up for his mistakes...and that he can get Vidya to let her down a little...literally and figuratively....

...and I cna go on and on...So I am going to stop...😆

Take Care

Love

Wafah

lol , well said Wafah, i luvvvveddd todays episode, it came as a complete shokc to me, i rlly liked their choice of song tho, and FINALLLYY he realizes all the pain hes brought her n wut shes truly worth. I know he'll now b the husband he has never been able to b until now, mannn SV scenes here we come!! 😃 😃 i also got to c what iv been wanting for the longest time, for him to beg for forgiveness from vidya and CRY for her, yesss

yea today was the day that they acepted their love for each other !!!!!! 😳 The song was nice , Sagar was accepting all his mistakes that he had done ! I hope tommorrow SV are having romantic scenes ! Thanks Wafah ! 👏

i wanted to reserve my comment till i saw the video...and i've to say i wasn't disappointed at all....what wonderful lyrics to convey sagar's inner turnmoil, his emotions, his love...logical as well, because he loves music so much, remember initially SM telling Vidya that music will be her 'Saut' (mistress)?....through the song, it went through a sort of role reversal between S-V..earlier, Vidya was always taking pains for Sagar, and in the song, it went the opposite way...

a wonderful episode in all....i've expressed my review more completely,under the written update thread...

you go S-V!!! 👏

OMG!! thats exactly waht i was thinking. I listened to the song a thousand times and was like this isnt a love song?? its more like a painful song and repenting song. I thought it was good choice too once i read your post and listened to the song again. AWSOME POST!! Definitely Needed 😉

OMG.. I just made a similar topic describing my thoughts in detail..
I should have waited until I had seen the entire episode. Stupid me... I commented without watching the episode and said I got all disappointed when infact the entire episode made sooo much sense. It was very emotional and painful and intense just like we had hoped for. I have to say.. today just rocked. I can't wait to see some amazing scenes between SV tomorrow.

Today was a very memorable day for both Vidya and Sagar as well as their fans. 😊

Today I am so proud of Vidya and the courageous way she cleared herself of the shame Sindoora wanted to frame or dress her.

As I am glad of the courageous way Sagar accepted his mistakes againat Vidya and promissing her that he will be a good example of a hsband to her.

And at last not the least, I am so glad to see the way Sagar has knelt down on his knees asking Vidya forgiveness. 😊

ya, exactly ppl, finally sum ppl realizing the logic behind the episode, it made perfect sense, and we got everything we wanted from vidya, both of them remained in character, y would she torture him?? maybe u would to ur hubbie i would to haha but like vidya? never! he is her lyf ! and music/singing is the way he conveys himself and his emotions, the song wuznt meant to b ripped off from baabul, they meant to make it sumthing he wuz making up and singing at the spur of the moment.

Remembr when they kicked Surili out of the house and VIdya's innocence wuz proven and sagar felt soooo bad for suspecting his wife (wow, wuznt much of a husband then either wuz he? but hopefully now he will b that hes normal) and he wuz avoiding her cuz he didnt know how to appologize then when he did he had sung a sung for her, it wuz soooo sweet, it wuz in english and he had tears in his eyes throught, and he wuz forgiven , of course! this is like that! hes singing to her to express himself! its not lame! well ya its unrealistic, but hey, its a show, n sum ppl actually do sing to their luved oned in public! the ppl who r not afraid of the world and their opinions they can declare their feelings in front of everyone. unrealistic to us, and maybe didnt suit the situation, but what can u do? its a show!

^^wafah...amazing topic...definetly agree with u...the song was soo perfect...and both their expressions....no words....amazing...fantastic...

also like neha said...i had made sooo many comments about the episode before i could watch it...frm the update i was upset...but whn i actually watched the episode...everything changed....just like it did with saagar...he was upset...but whn he actually listened to her talk...everything changed... 😳

Shaili