What would U Do if U were Vidya???

So im going back in time on the wedding scene of BMTD!

Assume You and Saagar are getting married! You find out hes mentally disabled after u see him jumping around in the rain!

What would u do?😛 Just curious to know 😆

Be honest! 😊 and plz dont say u would marry him bcoz he looks hot etc!

Hopefully God forbid none of us are put into such a tough decision. But that not necessarily is bad, it could even be a blessing. But we would first have to see all of the circumstances, because every one's situations are different. But if I was in the same situation as Vidya I would probably say yes. It's not how the person looks or acts, it's if the two people will keep each other happy.

This may sound mean but I wouldnt really want to carry on with the wedding straight away.First of all I would want to ask my in-laws why they didnt tell us earlier...then I would think about it.

To be honest, I wouldn't go through with it. Its such a huge responsibility to handle a mentally challenged person. So kudos to the partners who do that. 👏 👏 However, if by chance I did get married to Saagar (as Vidya ofcourse) then I know I'd become as close to him as Vidya has. If he was hurt, I'd cry too and if he was taken away from me...that would hurt too. Its just the bond SV have that you can feel their pain. Vidya has connected with Saagar so much that she needs him as much as he needs her. So for me, I doubt I could get in to a relationship like that but if I did, then I'd pretty much react like Vidya has through their story. 😳

Hmmm.. really good question Radha, I know we've had a DOTW like this before as well..!

Hmmm... for me... i don't think I would go through with it. Not solely because he's mentally challenged, but I would be upset that my in-laws did not tell me about this. Such a big thing should not be kept hidden, especially with marriage. So, I wouldn't stop it because he's mentally challenged, but because I didn't know about it.. if I did get married to him and found out after, then I don't think I would leave him... pretty much try and be close to him, find out ways to where he can be better, kind of like how Vidya and Sagar are now.. a close bond of friendship and hopefully later on, when he recovers, a husband-wife relationship... 😊 😳

Originally posted by: Mr.Aryan Balan

This may sound mean but I wouldnt really want to carry on with the wedding straight away.First of all I would want to ask my in-laws why they didnt tell us earlier...then I would think about it.

I know I totally agree w/ u.

Intresting topic Radha 👏

Well to tell you the truth I wouldn't go on with the wedding...but I would look at the circumstances and then decide...but if I was married and god forbid something happend to my husband after the wedding and he was in this state then I would support him througout like Vidya...I think the whole situation is diffrent then...
But if it was really a situation like Vidya's then I would want some more informtaion from the in-laws then I would think about it.....

seriously, i won't go through with the marriage. i mean it's different when you see this situation in a serial & it's entirely different when you encounter it in real life.🤔

but then again, i do know how to read & write so i would have read the letter my in-laws sent me & wouldn't have to wait till the marriage to say 'No'. that is if i'm vidya of cos, if i'm myself, my soon to be in-laws would get an earful from me.😔😔

Enjoyed reading you responses! 😊

Well it would b a bit difficult for me to b Vidya so I'll try and think with Sagaars point of view if thats ok???

Ok, so I would b really sad I guess to see a beautiful girl like Vidya waste her, life with me as I know I can't get better and wouldn't b able to treat her properly. Also I would never feel like she was with me coz she loved me but coz she felt pity for me, making me more determined to make her leave me so she could live her life properly. Therefore I would do exactly as Sagaar done.

Don't know what u think