~*~DOTW: Sagar & Vidya’s Love~*~

Yes...This is a difficuilt question, because Sagar is not normal...And I don't know is it love, (because lol he's like 9 yrs.So can so young boy fall in love? 😕 😆 )

So can this be love, does Sagar think Vidya as his love, or just a good friend??? Emmm.....It's very confusing. But I think that Vidya does love Sagar.... 😳 All can notice it! 😉 😆

This is a very hard question, when Sagar recovers will he love Vidya or will he even remember her???? Omg! 5 days, till Sagar recovers!, but 31st is Saturday? 😕 😕 😕

Love, Kritu

I'm reserving my spot here Yuvi [hasna] i'll be back!

Yuvi hun, stop apologizing for the discussion topics. They are all great!! 👏

Hmm...what Sagar and Vidya feel for each other is most definitely love - not just love, they also have a need for each other. Even when Sagar was angry with Vidya, he needed her. He couldn't see her cry. He needed to see her at night before he went to bed. She never stopped being his pari, his angel 😳 Same goes with Vidya. She needs him just as much as he needs her, if not more. I wouldn't write this off as just mere concern for each other - that's what Tushar has for Vidya or for Sagar. What Vidya and Sagar feel for each other is much more complicated, much more beautiful than we'll ever be able to describe 😳 It's the most innocent sort of love - for now 😉 - with no expectations.

And actually, considering Sagar's mental condition, it is reasonable if he forgets Vidya and his love for her. That doesn't mean he didn't love her. It's just that he doesn't remember it. Happens with people who have retrograde amnesia - they forget their past...along with it, all the people they loved too. It doesn't make their love any less real.

awesome topic hun!!

My favorite SV scene was the one last week - where they talk about Sameer's future. Actually there are too many favorites...this is the most recent one 😳 😆 Least favorite - when Sagar is being unreasonable and petty...I'd rather have SV scenes where they're both happy. 😳

Oh Sravi you said it all so beautifully. 😭 😭 I completely agree with you.

And Yuvika, tu chup kar! I always love your discussion topics and this is the best one so far. 😛 But also the most difficult one...

Saagar's love for Vidya

Mentally he is a 9year old who most probably doesn't even realise what falling in love is. All he knows is that he can't live without her. Unlike most other tellywood couples where they say they can't live without each other etc. This couple ACTUALLY mean it when they say it and if they say it. For Saagar, Vidya is his wife,angel,best friend and recently he added that she is his LIFE. I think that explains it all. Saagar doesn't know what he exactly feels for Vidya, but he does know that without her he doesn't like anything. Now a question to ask is, do kids get this attached to other people? Generally not. Apart from their mothers, children generally are playful with everyone. The sad part is that Vidya has to act as his mother and thats why her desires as a wife have to be crushed. Yet what you see is the most beautiful relationship between two people. A man loves two women the most in the world- His mother and his wife (although Sisters are great too but not in this case 😛 ). Their relationship is something unseen before thats why its harder to comprehend their relationship.

Vidya's love for Saagar

To an onlooker, her love might not seem like the love a wife has for a husband. Not the "in love" type anyway. But if there is anyone who makes her smile, laugh and basically gives her immense amount of happiness, its Saagar. Words like "you are my best friend" etc. are not just mere words for Vidya. No-one has given her as much importance as Saagar does. He puts her above everyone, arguably even his mother. If he relies on her, so does she. Without him, she's unhappy and the best thing is that she doesn't really bother too much with the other members of the family. Her top priority is her husband.

Saagar and Vidya's love

Basically it is unconditional, so pure and innocent that you can't find a fault in their relationship. And where most serials run on a hate-love relationship, this serial has emerged as an extremely popular show because of the beautiful relationship portrayed through SV. Its their show. I think when people began to watch Dulhann, it was Sindoora's mysterious character which was the initial pull but even then it wasn't too much. Later on as the story developed, so did SV's "love" story. Its one of a kind. 😉

Too many favourite scenes....not one least favourite scene. I guess when Saagar acts rude with Vidya but even then, their chemistry is so strong...it tugs your heart.

That was an essay. 😆 Sowwie! 😳

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Oh Sravi you said it all so beautifully. 😭 😭 I completely agree with you.

And Yuvika, tu chup kar! I always love your discussion topics and this is the best one so far. 😛 But also the most difficult one...

Saagar's love for Vidya

Mentally he is a 9year old who most probably doesn't even realise what falling in love is. All he knows is that he can't live without her. Unlike most other tellywood couples where they say they can't live without each other etc. This couple ACTUALLY mean it when they say it and if they say it. For Saagar, Vidya is his wife,angel,best friend and recently he added that she is his LIFE. I think that explains it all. Saagar doesn't know what he exactly feels for Vidya, but he does know that without her he doesn't like anything. Now a question to ask is, do kids get this attached to other people? Generally not. Apart from their mothers, children generally are playful with everyone. The sad part is that Vidya has to act as his mother and thats why her desires as a wife have to be crushed. Yet what you see is the most beautiful relationship between two people. A man loves two women the most in the world- His mother and his wife (although Sisters are great too but not in this case 😛 ). Their relationship is something unseen before thats why its harder to comprehend their relationship.

Vidya's love for Saagar

To an onlooker, her love might not seem like the love a wife has for a husband. Not the "in love" type anyway. But if there is anyone who makes her smile, laugh and basically gives her immense amount of happiness, its Saagar. Words like "you are my best friend" etc. are not just mere words for Vidya. No-one has given her as much importance as Saagar does. He puts her above everyone, arguably even his mother. If he relies on her, so does she. Without him, she's unhappy and the best thing is that she doesn't really bother too much with the other members of the family. Her top priority is her husband.

Saagar and Vidya's love

Basically it is unconditional, so pure and innocent that you can't find a fault in their relationship. And where most serials run on a hate-love relationship, this serial has emerged as an extremely popular show because of the beautiful relationship portrayed through SV. Its their show. I think when people began to watch Dulhann, it was Sindoora's mysterious character which was the initial pull but even then it wasn't too much. Later on as the story developed, so did SV's "love" story. Its one of a kind. 😉

Too many favourite scenes....not one least favourite scene. I guess when Saagar acts rude with Vidya but even then, their chemistry is so strong...it tugs your heart.

That was an essay. 😆 Sowwie! 😳

Nicely done di👏 A+😆

Sravi and Reemz, you both put it so well..! [sharmana] and yes Yuvi, this is a lovely, lovely topic.... each week you make me so much more thrilled to read this! So they are NOT stupid! [jappi]

SV's jodi is one that is so many of our favourites because of their innocence, their relationship that can never be broken.... we know that they cannot live without each other and that they are so pure, so cute, so true, and that is what makes them my favourite jodi! Although the relationship is not one of a husband-wife one, it is a relationship in which both need and care for each other. that's what I love the most..... and that's why it's quite easy to see them later in romantic scenes because of their chemistry, their care for each other!

The love between SV... hmmm.... we know that Sagar's mental capacity to love is basically for family members. He may not have the 'husband kind of love' for Vidya, but he treats her as his best friend and even wife, although he isn't quite sure what that is.... yet. But when Sagar recovers, it won't be like he is forgetting his love because he has not truly experienced that love yet.. that of a pati-patni relationship. So when he recovers, it will be something new for him. TO love someone...... because i highly doubt that he loved the snake... but right now, all Sagar knows is that he needs Vidya. Although he may not know this husband-wife love yet because of his condition, he definitely loves Vidya in the way of his best friend, someone very dear to him.

As for Vidya.... she loves Sagar unconditionally, no doubt. She knows that they have not experienced the pati-patni relationship before, but she loves him as a wife and as a slight mother as well. Sagar is someone who she cannot bear to hurt, or lie to. and that is one thing that I love about this jodi is that they both really and truly cannot live with each other. We see in other serials, with the JB, SN, and AK jodi that they have separated despite being so close to each other. but Vidya's love for Sagar is something that she can never give up. That's why I think that she can never go to someone else, Tusshar for example, instead of Sagar because just as he cannot live without her, she cannot live without him.

Favourite scenes.... there's too many yaar, can't pick! [sharmana] [hasna] Sweater scene, Devdas, hugging/poem scene, Sameer's dreams, every SV scene is a beautiful one for me... [sharmana]

Ones that I don't like, hmmm i can't say that i have ever not liked an SV scene, but surely that long gap of not having any was something I definitely did not like!

Lovely topic again, and uff, here i go with my rambling...

First of all wonderful DOTW Yuvika as always 👏 👏 👏 ....

Reemz,Sraviji, and Ammu have said basically everything that i agree with.. 😆

But to answer your question about love and concern...I think in the begening when Vidya promised sagar's dad taht she would not let Sagar be alone and would never leave his side...i think that was just a commitement Vidya made to Sagar's dad...she probably liked Sagar and imagined life with him and thought of being in love wiht him...but after the circumstances she might of married just to fulfill a promise she made...I think SV's love grew from friendship which in my opinion is the best way to form love....I think after when Sagar had accepted Vidya as his wife (reffering to the mall scene where Vidya gets insulted in the shoe store) they became a little closer...ofcourse Sagar is not in his senses right now...but Vidya can see him as an older person in her prespective...I think Sagar loves Viday but he doesn't know how to interpret what he acutally feels for her..and thats why he calls her his angel, bestfriend excetra...but he doesn't really understand the meaning of wife yet....

After Sagar recovers and if he doesn't remember Vidya then i think it would be something like Wafahji's FF where Sagar gets flash backs of his happy times with Vidya and just realize his love for her...because in my opinion love never dies... 😳

I have a couple of Fave scenes of SV's: It would be the first scene where Sagar kisses Vidya...when they sleep togather for the first time....he gives teddybear to Vidya...Vidya kisses Sagar....Sweater scene..the intense scene where vidya has to get blood from him both acted really well....when Vidya and Sagar made up just now...Sagar talking about Sameer's future scene...Suhag raat scene where Vidya is dreming....and many more that i have missed 😆

The scenes that i didn't like is any scene where Surili exsisted and Sagar took her side...and all the scenes where Sagar wasn't on Vidya side...

Ok this is really long so i will stop now 😆
But great DOTW Yuvika once again 👏

Originally posted by: macksaini

yep hun thts my siggy wt abt it? u didnt leave any comment... 😆😳

awww fnk u all sweeties..i thought u myt find this weeks DOTW crazy and weird..but i 4gt this is the crazy forum full ov girl version sagar's...lol...u'll find normal things crazy and crazy fingz normal..am i right dulhans?? 😆

Jadu Ki Jappi to you all 🤗