Analyzing Amar...

Warning - Long post ahead...read at ur own risk :P

Till 22nd I took Amar as a gadha, on 23rd when he became one with Divya, I liked him and again on 24th when he doubted her, I felt like calling him a gadha again...

So, I was thinking that if my views on him can change in such an instant then he too has the right to keep changing his views on Divya... I started analyzing his character today n I felt like sharing a few things...

When he was in Benares, he confessed his love for Divya only after Chintoo told him to. And when she shouted back he was heart broken but angry too... He got soooooo mad that he threw the money on her face in the hospital when she secretly offered it for Chintoo's operation... For once he didn't think why Divya wanted to help... He just couldn't see beyond what he was shown... But after she left, he couldn't stop thinking abt her cuz something connected them...

After knowing all the truth, he left for Delhi to bring his Dulhann back... When he found out that she's already engaged, he was taken aback again... He wanted to give up... He was again forced by the sardarji to keep trying... But when he was close to her, he couldn't see that she loved him and not Samrat... he couldn't confess his love...

Finally when he got his love, he got a lot of other shocks like knowing that his parents were Rajeev n Mahua... Lots of stuff happened one after the other... And then Divya's weird behaviour... He still married her when she asked him to...

Again a few problems occurred... He did doubt her, he shouted too but when he realized, he always apologized...

So his love for Divya has always been like this I believe... He is the same Amar from Benares... The only change in him are his clothes, n his seriousness at times... He was more carefree in Benares cuz he had the nicest family n just one problem...Money... But now he's rich with money n all kind of weird problems...

Suddenly becoming a heir of an empire, is not something that happens with everyone... He now wants to make everyone happy in this new family, he wants to prove that he is worthy of the empire... He wants to show that he is a responsible person... And its not easy for an illiterate to do all that... He's trying to manage office work about which he doesn't know at all... God knows how he is doing it though...hehe...

So, probably the reason behind his respect for his Badi ma is cuz, since the time he has come here, she is the only one in the family who has been taking all the decisions... Maybe he is impressed with her powers...haha... And she has only shown her good side to him... So maybe that's why he depends on her decisions more... He believes that she has been managing the family soooooo well since sooooo long...

And now he has stopped having any flashbacks so it is strange for him to understand the past life connection most probably... So maybe that's why when Divya points at Sin, he doesn't like it...

He is definitely a looooooot like Sagar... His love has not reached the unconditional level yet... Where as Divya has always loved him unconditionally like Vidya... When she fell in love with him, she didn't know that he was rich too... She loved his simple ways n attitude... She wasn't worried abt spending her life in Benares... Her love was stronger... And after remembering their past life, her love has grown even more... But that has put her in a worse situation and thus we feel for her more...

But I believe Amar is not that bad after all... As soon as he gets the flashbacks, he will love his wife unconditionally, he just needs to know what all his wife has been through for him... Just like how Sagar realized everything in Benares... He was very good towards her after that... And right now to him it might seem that he is being through a lot...haha... Cuz a normal guy could have canceled a marriage with a girl who keeps doing weird stuff like Divya did before marriage... His brain is a li'l small to understand what is happening to her but still he has accepted her with it... So he does love her...

So, I'm not gonna be as mad on him anymore... I'm just gonna give him a li'l more time... Let him doubt Divya... Ultimately things r gonna be fine... But yes I do feel a bit sad for Divya...cuz she has to go through all this even in this janam...

Well these r my views... I maybe wrong...

Anyways...sorry to bore ya guys...haha...

no i totally agree wif u to say the truth and well written...ur Analyzing is kwell...its written in soo much detial 😉

i aree wiv u n it must av atken u ages to get ur veiws down

Thats all fine but how can he ignore the fact that Divya nearly died saving him? That should be the biggest proof of all. In fact she did DIE but came back. Sagar and Amar both took Vidya and Divya for granted when they were together, he only realises her worth when shes gone. It always happens!

Thanks guys for agreeing n reading all of it😆

Reemu u talking abt the gunshot? Did Divya come in between? I think she came once n then while they were just standing side by side Sin shot the bullet... I don't remember her coming in between after the gun was shot... But well you r right in a way too... Still as I said his love is not unconditional yet... I dunno why guys need proofs of true love...LOL!

totally agree with you Roshni!

Roshni, that is a very hopeful and optimistic way of looking at Amar's character. But the fact is, Amar IS a gadha. There's no two ways about it.

Shouldn't he love her unconditionally already? Why should the past have anything to do with the present? In a way, I'm not too upset about him pushing away the past. But at the same time, he's pushing away Divya as well. That's what bothers me.

I know he has a lot on his plate so it's understandable if he doesn't want to remember the past. But in that case, he shouldn't give much heed to Sindoora's talk of the past either. Why only ignore Divya but hang onto every word of Sindoora's?

The bottom line is Amar's character is flawed. We can obviously love him in spite of that because no one is perfect anyway.

Thanks Sonali😊

Sravi😊 Thanks for appreciating my positive attempt...

Well personally I feel that loving unconditionally is not an easy thing to do for most people... Amar is prolly one of them...hehe...
The past has to do with the present cuz the present has become confusing due to the past...
It bothers me too when he pushes Divya but sometimes I feel that he is a bit insecure... Cuz Divya is much better than him in many ways... Maybe he fears to lose her and like most men, he is trying to keep her under his control...haha...
He should not believe Sindoora but he prolly does cuz Sindoora is a witness of his past life... And when asked nobody from the house pointed towards Sindoora... Even his maaji pointed her finger towards Divya...
And yes his character is flawed definitely... He sees what is shown to him... He can't see beyond... I'm just waiting for him to change... Which will happen when he remembers the past... Lets wait n hope for the best😊

Roshni hun, Amar is a Gadha...a nice one..but a Gadha no doubt..

Hehe I just read my other post and I realized it sounded as if you can't have an opinion of your own. I'm sorry about that. There ARE two ways about it!😛

I'm sure what you're saying about unconditional love is very true in real life. But the fact is, on TV, we see such unconditional and selfless characters like Divya, Vidya, Bani, Saloni and others who are SO good that we automatically compare their male counterparts and see them as lesser beings. And that's probably the case with Amar as well. In real life, he would be just a typical man. But in TV land, it's appalling that he doesn't love his wife unconditionally.