Santu did not do anything wrong-

by moving out of DM house- why?

I think Santu was wrong in not trusting DM and not even giving him a chance to explain his side of the story. Marriages are based on trust and she did not trust DM or have faith in him that he would not indulge in a tacky affair and then lie about it. And if he did indeed have an affair then he would own up to it and give his offspring his name and rights. How could she think that DM who always valued morals and character in a person above everything else would stoop so low and be so characterless and immoral. As for the DNA report, that was in Megha's possession, didn't she for once think that it could have been tampered with? She beleived a woman she had know for a few months and a report that was in that woman's possession over her husband of 10+ years who had never beleived anything wrong about her even when the rest of the world did, she beleived that the husband who had cut himself off from the world including his children because of her would then go and have an affair with a woman while she was incarcerated, she did not even give DM a chance to explain, where was her trust and faith in her hubby?

santu is not wrong - also dm is not wrong

the people wrong are the cv's trying trying to ruin the show and the characters

i blame ekta's team completely for the low trp's, slow forum and the crap they are dishing out to us

they have not learnt their lesson with arjun death track- the trp was lowest in dec 09- it was on the verge to be pulled of but got a new life as bandini took a leap

hope it can do something so the trp's are high again

Hi. I agree with you on many things. I see a lot of comments where people are throwing rocks on Santu now and that is really anouing. In this situation, yes, she did not do anything wrong (by the way she newer did anything wrong)! DM should have told her much earlier about Vishal and Megha, but he did not! And she was asking him about his worries! Where is his tryst and loualty to Santu here? When she find out, he let her to make a drastic desizion by her self (to give the wrights to his son and his mother by leaving). And dont tell me he tryied...... becouse all he done was saying" he is not my son" on one side against pozitive DNA test on the other. On other situations he could yell, talk, give her a lectures, but here he just knocked on the door and then turned his back and leave instead of breaking in and make her listen!
The leaving part. I think that it was better that she left. Why? Becouse Vishal in DM's house, so and Megha there and Santu too. With every positive DNA test the things betwen SanRaj would get just worse....they would fight a lot more, angry at each other more(and Megha there to spice it up) and their love would start to fade. Like this their love is saved! Yes, they are mad at each other now, but they love each other too.

Originally posted by: sg08

I think Santu was wrong in not trusting DM and not even giving him a chance to explain his side of the story. Marriages are based on trust and she did not trust DM or have faith in him that he would not indulge in a tacky affair and then lie about it. And if he did indeed have an affair then he would own up to it and give his offspring his name and rights. How could she think that DM who always valued morals and character in a person above everything else would stoop so low and be so characterless and immoral. As for the DNA report, that was in Megha's possession, didn't she for once think that it could have been tampered with? She beleived a woman she had know for a few months and a report that was in that woman's possession over her husband of 10+ years who had never beleived anything wrong about her even when the rest of the world did, she beleived that the husband who had cut himself off from the world including his children because of her would then go and have an affair with a woman while she was incarcerated, she did not even give DM a chance to explain, where was her trust and faith in her hubby?

EXACTLY...I am a confirmed SANRAJ maniac..!! BUT BUT BUT..SANTU was totally wrong in her Behaviour..!! And as I have always said..TOO MUCH IS TOO BAD..I mean ..Too sweet is too yuck..!! Mahanta is not that..yummy you see..and she always according to me gives her duty as a wife a second fiddle to anything & everything in the world..WHICH ACCORDING TO ME IS RIDICULOUS..and she should understand how as a person DM has been all these years & get into the matter deeply & then decide..not like running away from home at teh drop of a HAT..!!


Love-Hema

HI guys.

just analyzing bandini from jan 2009 to present

they always shoed DM the Malik and doing nyay- but come to think of it- did he do nyay?

1) during the cows death- it was believed it was HIten who killed the cow- it was santu who proved it was maulik- dm made no move to find out the truth - just believed what was told to him based on evidence

2) during motibenn raaz - it was santu who took the brunt of his wrath

3) during kemi - hiten- santu was the one to sacrifice her happiness

4) during arjan track- also santu made the de scion-

whenever it comes to family DM always sided them and never santu

5) when she came from jail- she was the one proving to DM about someone trying to kill hiten/toral kids- no move made by DM to find out

6) nandini- kaddu- shshank- it was santu trying to re unite them- no move by DM

7) after know sandeep and malice- woman trafficking- no move by DM to find out the truth- only santu had to work to bring the truth

final outcome- we get big vachans from DM to santu
when dm comes to know about arjan murder- he does not tell anyone she is innocent? why?

now come to rudr- santu- i can gurantee you if it was not for the forum- the cv's would not have made DM a hero trusting santu

dr megha-DM- at no time they have shown DM not guilty- his actions are making him guilty-
he says he did not touch megha- why is she in the house? why transfer property? why is suraj doing business with manish/s sister?
dm has made no move to prove himself innocent- and will not do anything

we all know santu will come and save his honor- his bandini to his rescue
he should have proven himself innocent and that would have been a slap on santu's face for not trusting him

do not get me wrong I love SANRAJ like crazy-

but santu has always taken the wrath of DM's family-
at present birwa- moonghi-sarang- all living in the same house and great DM knows nothing

we have to wait for santu to come and find the truth

hiten - toral arguments- santu has to come to solve it

to get megha out santu has to come to save her husband

so how come DM is malik?

he is the one to protect his family and honor - wake up DM

As for DM not doing anything to find the truth, he did....Dr M herself said that he had independent tests run, but they all show he is Vishal's father, how is he supposed to refute that. But even then he tried to get at the truth.....writing the property in Vishal's name was I beleive just a ploy to get the doc to reveal the truth but it didn't work.

All the things that happened to Santu or Santu did, half of it could have been resolved better or sooner if she had confided in DM, but for some reason she finds that very difficult to do and just keeps everything to herself and DM in the dark and tries to solve all the problems on her own.

The only solution to the Dr. M mess is that the CVs show Vishal is SanRaj kid, nothing else is gonna work.....can't tolerate Dr. M around DM......if they show any sort of relationship between DM and doc, I'm gonna follow loads of others and finally quit.😡

As for DM in his new-old avataar with his silk kurtas and all......I think thats more for us than the doc.....you've got to admit that it's nice to have some eye-candy on the screen.😉😆

Originally posted by: sg08

As for DM not doing anything to find the truth, he did....Dr M herself
said that he had independent tests run, but they all show he is Vishal's
father, how is he supposed to refute that. But even then he tried to
get at the truth.....writing the property in Vishal's name was I beleive
just a ploy to get the doc to reveal the truth but it didn't work.

All
the things that happened to Santu or Santu did, half of it could have
been resolved better or sooner if she had confided in DM, but for some
reason she finds that very difficult to do and just keeps everything to
herself and DM in the dark and tries to solve all the problems on her
own.

The only solution to the Dr. M mess is that the CVs show
Vishal is SanRaj kid, nothing else is gonna work.....can't tolerate Dr. M
around DM......if they show any sort of relationship between DM and
doc, I'm gonna follow loads of others and finally quit.😡

As
for DM in his new-old avataar with his silk kurtas and all......I think thats more
for us than the doc.....you've got to admit that it's nice to
have some eye-candy on the screen.😉😆

you know we all are right - one cannot clap with one hand- need two to clap- it is just annoying the way cv's have twisted the relationship between both
we all love dm and santu- want them together - but we are at the mercy of the cv's brains

please cv's have mercy- and please please do not show santu- bhuvan track- please surprise us for a change
give us our sanraj back and please no more leaps

Originally posted by: sg08

As for DM not doing anything to find the truth, he did....Dr M herself said that he had independent tests run, but they all show he is Vishal's father, how is he supposed to refute that. But even then he tried to get at the truth.....writing the property in Vishal's name was I beleive just a ploy to get the doc to reveal the truth but it didn't work.

All the things that happened to Santu or Santu did, half of it could have been resolved better or sooner if she had confided in DM, but for some reason she finds that very difficult to do and just keeps everything to herself and DM in the dark and tries to solve all the problems on her own.

The only solution to the Dr. M mess is that the CVs show Vishal is SanRaj kid, nothing else is gonna work.....can't tolerate Dr. M around DM......if they show any sort of relationship between DM and doc, I'm gonna follow loads of others and finally quit.😡

As for DM in his new-old avataar with his silk kurtas and all......I think thats more for us than the doc.....you've got to admit that it's nice to have some eye-candy on the screen.😉😆

Shalu .(I hope I can call you that..)..I love you for writing this..AND I AM TOTALLY WITH YOU ON EVERY WORD..!!Superb..!!

Love-hema