March 17 10: Ungrateful Miss Attitude

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chalia

@chalia

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Rakhie_08
Umm Peter Russells line is my siggie!!!

I've had it up there since the leap. But so far nobody's been hurt! 😡

Poor Santu. She thought she was doing the right thing, and look where it got her.

Who knew Birwa would grow up to be such a nasty, ungrateful selfish creature?

But I hope Santu know realises that such mahanta is no good. Too much of anything is a bad thing. Everything in moderation. I hope she realises too, that keeping the truth from DM was the worst move she ever made. Whether she went to jail or not, she should have atleast told him the truth.

Champa as always the star of the show.

Rakhie, we are kindred spirits on this "mahaanta" issue and its repurcussions. I totally agree that Santu's greatest mistake was keeping the truth from the one man who could have set things right by the mere shake of his head. Yet she chose to believe that she knows best and continues to do things which have begun to irritate the life out of most sane people.

People all the while kept chiding me that i should not bash Santu because she is "alone" and has "sacrificed" so much blah blah! I choose to answer their points of view that "moderation" and "choice" are the key words.

Santu "chose" to be "alone" by clamming up even to DM.

Santu "chose" to "sacrifice" and did whatever she wanted to do without as much a consultation with her husband. She has brought the clan to the dregs.

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-SilverFlames-

@-SilverFlames-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

I totally agree with you Chalia..

Santu didn't have to make her tyaag yatra as she had the entire family on her side minus some of the retards but her main family.. From Baa to Hiten to Suraj all doted on her despite her confession of the murder. Baa stood up against Moti to ensure no harm came on her.

Her own stupid choice ruined everything, but she expected to be welcomed with open arms and garlands..
Although the family should have known her better like Shanky and Champa what else can be expected..

If someone kills your family member and rubs it in that they did it for money and hated the family what would be the reaction? I would react in the same way Baa acted..
Everyone was shook up by her confession that they lost faith in her.
And another thing.. Baa was Subhi's mother, she accepted Santu as her own even though she was her daughter's sauten. In all honesty and realistically Baa would have taken Subhi and Arjan's side but no she took Santu's and in return of her faith what did Santu give her?

What Birwa did was wrong and is indescribably 🤬 but what did Santu expect? Does she think everyone is like her?

When it comes to DM, I sympathise with him the most.. He made a mistake of giving a stupid vachaan to Cruella but what did Santu do? She took a stupid promise from Birwa..
DM lost 10 years of his life to a woman whom he had believed loved him..
Yes, Santu gave up 10 years of her life but she took that decision herself no one compelled her to.. She was being a mother but forsaked every relationship for that one duty.
She made a huge decision of DM's life without any reason or explanation so for him to act cold or blunt towards her in my view reasonable.

Santu is eager to ask Hisaab from everyone but i wonder can she give hisaab for the 10 years that DM lost of his life waiting for her? I think not.. If she has any sense she would talk to DM and tell him the truth. It's up to him to believe her but in my view she should tell him...

Okay Santu bashing over..!! Feel much better now..😆

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Samanta

@iSakshi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

well i disagree with u ... DM just let her rot in jail for 10 yrs without lookin baq despite of what the pee brain khemi sed ... if he had truly loved her he shud of find out what happen instead he chose to live a dead life... and santu did what she thought was right.. I am sure if shubi was alive she wud of done the same thing for her daughter as every mother would... santu sacrifised alot for dm's zoo creature family what did she get in return nothing even her own nana ji khemi and monghi turned away from her... now that she educated herself and is taking some control....l some of u have a problem with that and said taht she is hurting dm..no she is not, she is tryin to re-unite these creatures of hers... dm... untill now blames her for every little thing that happens, if he wud know better there would of never bin a LOC in that house...and money wouldnt bin missing, toral wouldnt bin having misscariages.,,, oh god knows how much more.... whatever it is I LOVE DM AND SANTU..😛. AND I know he loves her and she loves him😳.. but regardless but he needs to wake up and smell the cofee ... he always has some stupid saying about his santaan would never hurt the family.. oh ya puhlease... its what they have bin doing for a living all they have done is caused distruction between sanraj... i just wish instead of dm and santu suffering these good for nothing santaans shud be punished... as for birwa less sed is better..

these creatures are not worth talkin abt, but if they hurt santu then they are in for a reall treat by dm... he is going to destroy them... mark my wordzzzzzzz.. 😭

Edited by samantar - 15 years ago

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Soni

@soni-zee

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Thanks Piku for the writen update👍🏼, till now no promo, dont know what DV's are reserving for us !!!

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chalia

@chalia

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#25

I have no problems with education, spine development and taking control of a situation when the need arises. I have a problem with "hare-brained schemes" and their execution therewith. DM is the greatest dimwit in the world for playing dead, listening to Khemi and sulking while he rocks!

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anu_cooldude

@anu_cooldude

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Thanks Piku for the update............Birwa should be caged😡

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-SilverFlames-

@-SilverFlames-

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: samantar
well i disagree with u ... DM just let her rot in jail for 10 yrs without lookin baq despite of what the pee brain khemi sed ... if he had truly loved her he shud of find out what happen instead he chose to live a dead life... and santu did what she thought was right.. I am sure if shubi was alive she wud of done the same thing for her daughter as every mother would... santu sacrifised alot for dm's zoo creature family what did she get in return nothing even her own nana ji khemi and monghi turned away from her... now that she educated herself and is taking some control....l some of u have a problem with that and said taht she is hurting dm..no she is not, she is tryin to re-unite these creatures of hers... dm... untill now blames her for every little thing that happens, if he wud know better there would of never bin a LOC in that house...and money wouldnt bin missing, toral wouldnt bin having misscariages.,,, oh god knows how much more.... whatever it is I LOVE DM AND SANTU..😛. AND I know he loves her and she loves him😳.. but regardless but he needs to wake up and smell the cofee ... he always has some stupid saying about his santaan would never hurt the family.. oh ya puhlease... its what they have bin doing for a living all they have done is caused distruction between sanraj... i just wish instead of dm and santu suffering these good for nothing santaans shud be punished... as for birwa less sed is better..
these creatures are not worth talkin abt, but if they hurt santu then they are in for a reall treat by dm... he is going to destroy them... mark my wordzzzzzzz.. 😭

DM went to the jail and tried his best.. She told him that she had never loved him this was done when he was at his most vulnerable.. Whether he hated his son or not is regardless.. No father wants his young son dead before him.. He may have argued and nearly been killed by him but it was his son and no parent can ever hate their child enough to want them dead..!! Santu did what any mother would have done.. maybe so but she had no right to hide it from DM..

Many of us hated how DM controlled Santu's life so wasn't Santu doing the same here? She didn't give him a reason and she walked away from him.. If she was after his money why did re-marry him and make him love her so much.. I know Santu is innocent but place yourself from DM's POV and view it..

If my partner left me without a reason and gave me some crap that they never loved mee then i would probably react in the same as DM did..

Everyone here .. mostly everyone that is here in the forum is over the moon that Santu has an education.. Its something we have always wanted to see but its not her education we have a problem with.. Its the unnecessary attitude that she throws at DM..

One instant is the sari flying day..!! She could have simply resolved her differences by talking to DM.. going on about adhikaar to him was unnecessary.. He never rejected the adhikaar... Like she has adikaar so does he..!! He had the right to know why and for whom Santu was wasting his life away for..

I'm not saying DM hasn't done wrong but for mee Santu is the party to blame more as she should have confided in her husband..!!

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Don't worry ladies.....Santu will send Birwa to rehab like she did Maulik and she will be cured....meanwhile we will have to endure millions of torturous episodes.....🤢

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#29

Totally agree with you Sanrajdeewani👍🏼

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chalia

@chalia

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: kichwamaji

Don't worry ladies.....Santu will send Birwa to rehab like she did Maulik and she will be cured....meanwhile we will have to endure millions of torturous episodes.....🤢

Kich, can we send Birwa to the zoo or somewhere where she can live with the polar bears or the inuits or something?

I have a problem with Birwa and the actress that plays her!