DID DM HANDLE HITEN / ARJAN MATTER WISELY

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Posted: 15 years ago
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do you all believe dm handled the hiten arjan matter wisely? I feel the words he used to explain things to hiten were very good and commendable. Having said that I feel he should have summoned arjan, khemi as well.

  • on account that he is the village head.
  • on account that khemi is his sister in law
  • on account that arjan is his employee and this being a shadi ka ghar no more outbursts would be tolerated or he could be terminated from services
  • have the two young men talk it out and come to an understanding.
  • advised khemi as well that she is now a married woman and should also consider things that upset her husband etc. etc.

Do any of you agree or disagree or would like to add something

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dont think he was being the village Malik, he was being a father talking/advising his son

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I think he did handle the matter quite well considering the circumstances it was a shaadi mahaul and like said above he was being a father advising his son and being level headed
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lubie

do you all believe dm handled the hiten arjan matter wisely? I feel the words he used to explain things to hiten were very good and commendable. Having said that I feel he should have summoned arjan, khemi as well.

    on account that he is the village head. on account that khemi is his sister in law on account that arjan is his employee and this being a shadi ka ghar no more outbursts would be tolerated or he could be terminated from services have the two young men talk it out and come to an understanding.
  • advised khemi as well that she is now a married woman and should also consider things that upset her husband etc. etc.

Do any of you agree or disagree or would like to add something

I agree with what you said but my point is they are adults and why should they have to be treated like children where everything has to be explained to them. They should know better. I think he handled it well and explained not as the Malik but as a father as he should have, how they handle after that is entirely up to them. Khemi should not even be there but since she is she needs to keep her limits in mind in regards to Hiten and Arjan, she knows how her husband feels so it is up to her to know what boundaries to cross and not to cross.
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I appreciate the above responses. I also agree that DM was advising his son which I totally agree with.
I also agree that they are adults and not be treated like children. However, steps always have to be taken when perimeters are over stepped. When someone breaks the law, its still an action between adults, or the panchayat. so every aspect of life has its boundary. its because they get crossed that relevant steps should be taken in time to avoid a greater conflict. given the very delicate nature of relations involved

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