Should the cupids leave? - Page 4

Originally posted by: soap-critic

Hey me not bhav khaofying. I know this is a DM-Santu story and I am all for that. I just want DM himself to treat Santu as a human being and make sure she is treated nicely in his house with proper living conditions.

His not being concerned at all is what bugs me no end. And so when they showed the Shanky-Santu flashbacks I realized how well Santu would have been treated if she were with him. Shanky is so cute and so honest - he has told his mom and DM about his falling in love.

So, DM has to do a lot to win me over.

Oh yes .. recognition is NECESSARY!

ROFL

Originally posted by: ronitfan

But he has told them the half truth only Hema ..

He is also not completely doodh ka dhula .. and he was no stranger to the discomfort on Kaduu's face during the engagement - I guess the honesty flew outta the window then !

LOL

Both of them are doing the same thing to each other .. ie Shanky and Kaduu .. they are both in love with different people but not telling .. equally at fault and both to blame!

Frinds kal ke episode ke baad santu ko koi ab kid nahi bol sakta he ......santu is woman that is the truth ....... and DM bhi kafi sudhar raha he ......good DM keep it up ...hum tumhare saath he😉

Originally posted by: pksanam

exactly... so would Shanky dear be JUSTIFIED in marrying Kaddu and essentially ruining her life because he is not going to be able to love her the same as probably say, Sandy..??

Who is denying that he didnt tell them the name?? How does it matter,i wonder?
He believes that if at all he tells them its santu,(which he doesnt know is DM's wife,YET) her name would have been maligned.

He becomes dishonest when he SEES Santu,and THEN KEEPS QUIET. Which hasnt happened.


Then comes the issue of what he is doing to Kaddu.He doesnt know sandy exists,when he does,he will be the one who stands by them,I am sure.

I just dont get why shashank is being pointed at for saying the half truth!!

DM overheard todays conversation,and he doesnt know how uncomfortably santu used to live in the store room,like an "animal" as Motiben put it?? He failed as a "nyayadheesh" when he failed to give proper treatment to santu,after he got married to her.He failed as a husband,and what not.Why was he showing this big face at chokri? BECAUSE he also believed in the "neech jathi" nonsense.Whereas,for shanky,love has no caste.

DM,in my eyes,is the most selfish character ever created.

And abt the scene yesterday,more i think abt it,i cringe.He needed that sort of intimacy to go soft on her??Thats shameful.It shows how low his thoughts are.

Sorry folks,NO BROWNIES for DM just yet.

Originally posted by: rpmenon

Who is denying that he didnt tell them the name?? How does it matter,i wonder?
He believes that if at all he tells them its santu,(which he doesnt know is DM's wife,YET) her name would have been maligned.

He becomes dishonest when he SEES Santu,and THEN KEEPS QUIET. Which hasnt happened.


Then comes the issue of what he is doing to Kaddu.He doesnt know sandy exists,when he does,he will be the one who stands by them,I am sure.

I just dont get why shashank is being pointed at for saying the half truth!!

DM overheard todays conversation,and he doesnt know how uncomfortably santu used to live in the store room,like an "animal" as Motiben put it?? He failed as a "nyayadheesh" when he failed to give proper treatment to santu,after he got married to her.He failed as a husband,and what not.Why was he showing this big face at chokri? BECAUSE he also believed in the "neech jathi" nonsense.Whereas,for shanky,love has no caste.

DM,in my eyes,is the most selfish character ever created.

And abt the scene yesterday,more i think abt it,i cringe.He needed that sort of intimacy to go soft on her??Thats shameful.It shows how low his thoughts are.

Sorry folks,NO BROWNIES for DM just yet.

thank god at last there is sombody who thinks like i do

Yes, Dharamraj is the most selfish character of Bandini. I am not disagreeing on that...in fact I have always maintained that. And I don't think he is going to get away so easily for the injustice he has thrown at Santo. He will pay for it...I know for sure.
However, Dharamraj needs time to get over the woman who he has spent most of his life with, the only woman he thinks and believes he could ever love, his Subhadara. Even after her death, he has loved her, and misses her. Shashank loves Santo...and if he gets the time to move on his life, so should Dharamraj.
You must understand, Moti ben has instilled in DM that caste differences exist. Moti ben has been like a mother to DM, and Moti ben is BIG on caste differences. I think it's because of Subhi that he doesn't believe in caste differences as much. All I am saying is that DM is not that big on caste differences. People like Moti ben influence him to think otherwise.
Shashank on the otherhand had Meghna and Rasik as parents who don't believe in cast differences at all. which is why for him love has no caste. DM and Shashank r from different times and different upbringing.
I repeat DM will suffer for making Santo go through all this unintentionally or intentionally...especially when he finds out what moti ben has been doing to her and also when he hurt her while grabbing her arm tightly...he felt guilty. He cares about Santo. He has a heart too.

Sammie,I understand what u r saying except at 1 point.

How does loving subhi and not being able to let go of her justify how he is treating santu.why cant he treat her like a normal human being.for ex,even shambhu and champakali have decent rooms to live in,i am sure..DM knows where santu stays,because he ran up,when he was searching for sooraj.its not that he is oblivious of the fact that santu is kept in an unhygienic room.

We r disagreeing as friends-mind u.. 😉 deal?

It's been a deal since the time u joined this forum Radhika. 🤗
He knows where Santo lives since the time she has been living there hehe...but what we must see is the pressure that he is under...the people he loves are misunderstanding him big time...his BA, his kids, and Moti ben. Ba makes him feel guilty everytime he tries to do something nice for Santo ... i mean even giving Ghee to Santo made Hiten mad. He loves his family, they mean the world to him, so I guess he is under pressure.