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Posted: 16 years ago
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^^ i really hope not.. it's probably he got so busy but he really loved his wife.. the way he talks to her portrait even now..
yah, it's strange in a way the way he asks her where his watch is, etc.. but he's pretty lonely i guess.. and he doesn't open up to people.. soo..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I know right Mru...i hate to see my DM like that.
Pksanam (sorry don't know ur name) i agree but he WAS lonely na now he got Santo...but he still hung up on that portrait which is hanging on practically every wall of the Mahiyavanshi house and factory hehe
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Pksanam, i'm kinda leaning more toward the you dont knwo what you've got until its gone theory.. Coz its DM.. and i'm thinking that its going to be the same thing that is going to make him realise the importance of Santu in his life..
And the loneliness part, he has 5 kids, whom he is again neglecting.. so, the loneliness seems to be self inflicted right????
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Posted: 16 years ago
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you're right about that Mru..
please call me sanam.. 😊
yes, it is more self inflicted but i think that his situation has made him so.. we all know that earlier they were not in the same position and he has had to work hard to achieve the status they have now.. and there must have been a lot of obstacles in the way and he had to overcome those.. so all these things have made him like that.. i still think he's more like a coconut.. uper se sakht, and andar se naram.. 😉
and Sammie, i think the reason is he loves his wife too much.. and it has been hard for him to move on.. so he has found a solace in just talking to her pictures now.. to him, she is alive.. yes, some people might find it disturbing but i think it's endearing.. 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Sanam,
The coconutty-ness of DM was very visible today, the fact that he went and spoke to hiten, the way he helped santu out.. very naram behaviour...
And the loneliness, now that santu is there, everything will disappear... I hope the ghost talking sessions go first though...Asking for too much, but hopefully the dedication of the award is the last one..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sns23

Sanam,
The coconutty-ness of DM was very visible today, the fact that he went and spoke to hiten, the way he helped santu out.. very naram behaviour...
And the loneliness, now that santu is there, everything will disappear... I hope the ghost talking sessions go first though...Asking for too much, but hopefully the dedication of the award is the last one..

Mru, you are too cute.. ghost talking seesions.. 😆😆
well, i know it seems very strange sometimes that he's talking to a portrait and some might think that there is something really wrong with it.. but think of it from his viewpoint.. i don't mind too much, actually.. once Santo is able to fill that void, i'm sure we will se less of it.. i doubt it'll go too soon..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: pksanam

you're right about that Mru..

please call me sanam.. 😊
yes, it is more self inflicted but i think that his situation has made him so.. we all know that earlier they were not in the same position and he has had to work hard to achieve the status they have now.. and there must have been a lot of obstacles in the way and he had to overcome those.. so all these things have made him like that.. i still think he's more like a coconut.. uper se sakht, and andar se naram.. 😉
and Sammie, i think the reason is he loves his wife too much.. and it has been hard for him to move on.. so he has found a solace in just talking to her pictures now.. to him, she is alive.. yes, some people might find it disturbing but i think it's endearing.. 😊



Hey Sanam, I just read this and I agree with ya. I love DM's bandhan with Subhadra and I also find it endearing, in fact I lubb it a lot. I guess, in building his fortune, he couldn't give Shu the time he wanted to and even though he loved her dearly, he couldn't be there for her and his children. The deep love was always there though. Maybe, thats why, he feels guilty after her death and just can't let go of her. He is also the quite, silent and brooding type, someone who bottles everything in and its only to Shubhadra he can be himself and talk, be it she is dead now.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Wicked~


Hey Sanam, I just read this and I agree with ya. I love DM's bandhan with Subhadra and I also find it endearing, in fact I lubb it a lot. I guess, in building his fortune, he couldn't give Shu the time he wanted to and even though he loved her dearly, he couldn't be there for her and his children. The deep love was always there though. Maybe, thats why, he feels guilty after her death and just can't let go of her. He is also the quite, silent and brooding type, someone who bottles everything in and its only to Shubhadra he can be himself and talk, be it she is dead now.

well said, Wicked.. yes, i completely agree about him being the silent type and it is tough for him to open up to anyone.. i think even when Subh was alive, she was the only one with whom he shared his fears and emotions.. and i think she understood him.. but the kids probably aren't aware of all that hence, there are these misunderstandings that the kids think that to DM, his work was always more important.. whereas he was only doing that for his wife..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guys i m not saying that his bond with his dead wife is wrong, all i m saying is...that he needs to move on now na...kab tak aise Subhi se baat karta rahega. 😭
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i know what you are saying, Sammie.. he needs to move on.. but he has to have that void filled naa.. i'm sure now with Santo's entry, we will slowly see that change.. don't worry, he'll be fine.. (how do i say that in Gujju..?)

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