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Posted: 10 years ago

SHE HIT THE IRON WHERE IT WAS HOT...NOW NIMBOLI WILL NEVER STAY HERE IN BH

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Aashima Ahuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

Mangala hit iron when it was hot.

She never wanted to come to BH/jaitser , but still came bcoz she was left with no choice.

She stayed unwillingly ...bcoz then again she had no place to go due to a Alive though jailed Akheraj.

She stayed longer...due to the same reasons along with a mostly happy Nimboli.

Now she knows Nimboli being unhappy at BH will follow her to jhalra...so there is no reason for her to put up with BH people/Anandi. Moreover Akheraj is dead for her , so Jhalra is safe bcoz as per her Kundan kuch nahi karega .

Don't know how this woman forgets the rape attempt by kundan despite all the warnings given to him by her. & then the recent kidnap of shivam disguised as nimboli by him, her own murder attempt by him in jail, & the very recent strangling attempt on nimboli by him where she had to free her by putting knife on him.

Anyways looks like Nimboli will run away on her own after being refused to be dropped back in jhalra by Anandi.

But what makes Mangala think that Anandi will leave her daughter forever with her & give up all claims??

Next what makes her think that Nimboli's life or future would be better with her in jhalra than with Anandi in jaitser/whichever place???

Anandi losing her daughter was an act of revenge & a person who lived most of her life suffering & saving herself from Akheraj's crimes , should know better than holding another victim responsible for a revenge act by him.

Otherwise, Anandi hasn't done anything for her to say that she can give a better life to Nimboli. Since her life in jhalra was worst & What nimboli is suffering in BH is more due to M's desire of exclusive ownership of the child ...leading to telling twisted tales about the truths & situations to everyone else including the allies kamli.

Twisted tales, bringing twisted results.

M wanted sole rights, lied to both N & A, forced & extracted promise from A to keep everything secret ,thus A is delaying the truth forever, even didn't told the truth to Shivam for her own twisted logics/promises to Shiv.

Result everyone is unhappy except M whose plan is working.

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Aashima Ahuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

Since in their earlier days of stay in BH...it wasn't Anandi But Mangala's strange/rude behavior along with her acts(braids/frock/pallu/phone/necklace/karate/fake mother) made the girl unhappy.

Later only it was Shivam's attitude along with the repercussions of the fake mother incident that made her to behave rudely with DSa or others , thus making her think to go back to jhalra.

Shivam's attitude is Anandi's fault entirely.

While Nimboli's behavior comes from the fact that she blindly trust Mangala & only Mangala. Moreover she can do anything to please Mangala.

M said her to lie about frock, she did.

M said her to lie to avoid going to school, she did.

M said her to don't address DS as badi nanisa, she did.

M said her that karate leads to injuries , to injection & pain ...she refused to learn.

M said CC is doing discrimination on her with that laddoos , she believed that too even after knowing Anandi for a while.

M never cleared the fake story about her mother, she believed that story.

M said your mother is bad, you must never go to her , she believed it too .

When asked by Anandi, whether she wants to meet her real mother ever, she first looked at M as to what she wants her to say, She nodded No, she replied Never.

M said her to not say anything to anyone else about fake mother meeting, she obeyed & still obeying.

Now all these incidents along with Shivam's own behavior , resulting from his own mother's faults & the extra importance given to a guest at the expense of his pleasures, has made the girl thinking about leaving this place.

Its not that Anandi never tried to make a relationship with her daughter. She tried it from the day she got to meet her after knowing that Nimboli is Nandini. That day itself Anandi was Ok to bear the hatred of the girl & make her listen to the other side of story . Even After M's long description about how the girl hates her mother , she wanted to hear it from the girl herself when M suggested them so. She asked to confirm, the girl looked at M, & the rest is history.

Had she didn't have looked at M for approval or Had M not brainwashed the child during the escape period, who knows if the girl would have given a positive answer, encouraging Anandi to tell the truth there, that day itself.

Later Anandi tried it with bringing gifts, doing or try-to-do things she hoped, the girl would like or agree upon but either the girl was asked to lie & reject...or Anandi was plain sidelined with lines like "main chhori ko janu hu", "mhari chhori", "Mhare bina na- rahegi/na-reh-sake-hai", "Aap chinta mat karo, main hoon na" etc etc.

At times when she tried to help for things as simple as helping with zipper...the girl asked for M(which was obvious from 12 years of togetherness)

Later when the girl became hopeful towards her real mother & then again M dashed her hopes for forever, making Anandi's efforts back to square one. Anandi don't even know about it yet.

So now Anandi is afraid of doing things or become too hopeful with anything. She is just delaying & going with a snail pace in her approach.

After so many rejections, now she too feels that Mangala is right wrt Nimboli & her psychic , thus looks upto Mangala for taking decisions with respect to her.

Alas she is just trusting a wrong person, & she doesn't even know that.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anandi was blind to Mangala's devious mind and Mangala doesn't know Anandi's persevereance.

Anandi believed Mangala's love for the child will help Mangala make up her mind and give up claims on that child.She was wrong.

Now Mangala believes that Anandi gives up her child just because she is refusing to stay with her then she is wrong.

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

I quite like Mangala's step of moving to Jhalra. This will clear too many issues.

Anandi and Nimboli will get time alone. Let's see how Anandi uses this opportunity in Mangala's absence when there is no ear filling, lying or distance creating techniques.

Will Anandi be able to make her daughter her own in the absence of those "roadblocks"?

Mangala had become too clingy to Nimboli, and at times suffocating the girl, robbing her off her independence and liberty. So will this break from Mangala, make Nimboli realise what she wants in her life, if given a choice?

And finally, distance from Nimboli and going back to her own people, may make make Mangala realise that she can lead an existence without Nimboli in her life. Will that be the case or will she go psychotic?

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Heart in Heart though, I have a feeling that Mangala will give up on claiming Nimboli after realising that it will not be easy for her to retain Nimboli and out-compete Anandi. At this point, she will sacrifice her life (may be while fighting Akheraj) and Anandi will end up becoming a clear winner.

By the time it happens, I am sure, N- A would have formed a good bonding and Mangala's lies would have been brought out to Nimboli. So post Mangala's death (exit), Nimboli will have no issues accepting her real mother.

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Mangala moving out is a good step for now. It's testing times for all.

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

sorry double post -

Instead of pressing Edit button - I ended up quoting my own post 😡

Sorry

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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kase

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha
I quite like Mangala's step of moving to Jhalra. This will clear too many issues.

Anandi and Nimboli will get time alone. Let's see how Anandi uses this opportunity in Mangala's absence when there is no ear filling, lying or distance creating techniques.
Will Anandi be able to make her daughter her own in the absence of those "roadblocks"?

Mangala had become too clingy to Nimboli, and at times suffocating the girl, robbing her off her independence and liberty. So will this break from Mangala, make Nimboli realise what she wants in her life, if given a choice?

And finally, distance from Nimboli and going back to her own people, may make make Mangala realise that she can lead an existence without Nimboli in her life. Will that be the case or will she go psychotic?

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Heart in Heart though, I have a feeling that Mangala will give up on claiming Nimboli after realising that it will not be easy for her to retain Nimboli and out-compete Anandi. At this point, she will sacrifice her life (may be while fighting Akheraj) and Anandi will end up becoming a clear winner.

By the time it happens, I am sure, N- A would have formed a good bonding and Mangala's lies would have been brought out to Nimboli. So post Mangala's death (exit), Nimboli will have no issues accepting her real mother.

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Mangala moving out is a good step for now. It's testing times for all.

Good stiry ,by the time all the above happens some of us would have retired and have all the time and patience for the story to move forward

Serously hope Kundan reforms by then and they show the Balika Vadhu and Kundan leading their lives separately

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Other people in Anandi's life think that Mangala's departure makes it easy for Anandi. But Anandi doesn't think that way.

She thought she could tell the truth and the child would accept it then soon she realised how much the child relies on Mangala and she realised she cannot compete with that instead so she decided she would forge a bond with the child which is independent of Mangala N bond. which in time becomes just as strong as Mangala Nimboli bond in that child's mind.

So Mangala's absence will give Anandi the time and space.

But it will not make things easy for Anandi simply because the child at this point cannot live without that woman Mangala

So it will be very difficult for Anandi to convince the child that she will be well cared for in Mangala's absence specially with Shivam biting at her heels.

So the only way to go forward is make it very clear to Shivam that she loves him no matter what but this girl is very important to her and he has to accept the girl for her sake and bury his differences if she doesn't want to reveal the truth to him.

The boy may have a lot of questions regarding that girl but he trusts his mother and loves his mother and he only needs reassurances that nothing would diminish his importance in his mother's life.

It is clear that N is refusing to have anything to do with CC because of Shivam's reaction and not because of any other reason.

Pacifying Shivam and getting Nandini to trust her as much as the girl trusts Mangala are the two immediate things.Yes it will be better if she is away from all the other people in her life.She can do better in the temporary absence of all these well meaning people who crowd her life and cloud her judgement.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Don't think they are interested in making Mangala a martyr.

Had they wanted to make her a martyr they would have done so before itself.

Mangala's life ended up the way it did not just because what Akheraj did but partly because of her own doing too.

Yes Akheraj killed her husband in order to snatch her property.But what if her husband died of natural causes and she had her husband's property? Would she have had a better life? No.

Why simply because she did not know how to put her life to use for a good cause.

She was leading an aimless existence before that child came into her life

She got the child married to Kundan and the child would have survived even without her interventions because they needed a child bride to ward off the dosh in Kundan's Kundali.In early post leap episodes it's obvious that the child has learnt to survive because she learnt quite a few tricks on her own to make life a little easy for her.But she took interest in the child because it gave her some purpose or aim in life which worked in child's favour.

If Mangala is made martyr for the cause of that child it is a wrong message.A single human being cannot be the purpose of your whole life and the person shouldn't be the sole reason for living.There is life beyond that girl. She is being made to behave this way so that she herself realises that the child is not everything and Akheraj is not the sole reason for her bleak barren life.She had to be made to realise that it is one's own thoughts and behaviour that decide one's destiny.

Mangala is there to show how a purpose less existence can affect a human being and the importance of finding a purpose to live for and how one can make themselves useful to the society.

All this so called negative Mangala is all about how she is clinging on to one cause that gives her some purpose in life.How cane she be made a martyr when she didn't even discover the purpose of her life?

When they made Shiv a martyr it was done for a larger cause.Besides Shiv is a very virtuous human being who worked for the betterment of society and he believed in the cause he was dying for.

When Anandi put her life at risk during various times it was because she was doing it with a purpose - and that is for the benefit of society and for a cause that she believed in.

When Anandi offered herself to go to Akheraj during Ganga's kidnap she did so because she had trust in Jagya that he would ensure hers and her child's safety.It wasn't a blind sacrificial offer.

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SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Nobody knows what creatives want to show - but it's certainly not the case that M, Kamli etc. suffered/their lives were in that state because of their own doing. Neither it's that Nimboli is single point agenda for M. She doesn't want to give up what she thinks that her own right that she earned through her actions. She feels that she is Nimboli's mother.

After turning negative - all negative things she had done is to retain the child - trying to make the child hate/dislike Anandi/her bio mother/anyone connected with Anandi.

Actually Anandi thought of using M to get her daughter accept her (BH people are thinking same) - she is also behaving selfish in the matter and foolish too. She knows M loves the girl, and after knowing that M asked the girl to call herself maa after she got to know about biological mother - doesn't this tell anything?

But I wish M doesn't return to BH. Enough of that drama. It's not that after this, there will be realistic tracks, that they will show great bonding between mother and children😛 The story will move on from one illogical track to another - just a few good episodes in between.

I don't even care what happens to M - a side character will be given limited scope.

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