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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I will be practical than idealistic. Yes, Shiv was great. But he is no more. It is cruel to expect a woman to be idealistic than earthy. We have only one life and we can choose how to go about it.

I will not live for society or to be known as great. I will live for myself without harming anyone.

You and i don't live for society that's why our stories are not really worth talking about 😆
Anandi is an idealist and strives to change the world or make a difference to the society.
Let Anandi be the idealist that she wants to be.
Marriage has never been her dream. her dream was about making a difference in the society.
She should be allowed to live her dream while taking care of her kids,
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I too miss Shiv.
If they took him away to show Anandi as a stronger woman then where is that happening?

I so wish Shiv was around.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

You and i don't live for society that's why our stories are not really worth talking about 😆
Anandi is an idealist and strives to change the world or make a difference to the society.
Let Anandi be the idealist that she wants to be.
Marriage has never been her dream. her dream was about making a difference in the society.
She should be allowed to live her dream while taking care of her kids,



Anant wont be an obstruction for Anandi's social work. He may and will contribute. We have many examples of husband and wife teaming together to work for the society.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

You and i don't live for society that's why our stories are not really worth talking about 😆
Anandi is an idealist and strives to change the world or make a difference to the society.
Let Anandi be the idealist that she wants to be.
Marriage has never been her dream. her dream was about making a difference in the society.
She should be allowed to live her dream while taking care of her kids,

But today, the larger crowd is not idealist but practical and they make good stories too. Lots of single women / mother out there progressing so well on their own. Their stories are definitelyworth talking and following. Amidst all that Why should BV's Lead protagonists' story revolve around self-caused endless pains?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Shiv had been around Anandi's story would have been predictable.Even if Nandini was kidnapped and made a BV if Shiv had been around they would have sailed through rough weather.
They took away Shiv to make Ananid's life difficult.

By the way the people who are helping Anandi now all of them have been beneficiaries of her goodness in the near or far past. She helped everybody in need without expecting anything in return and it is her goodness that is paying off.
If Anandi is getting all the support from people around her it was earned by her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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How did she help DS? And was Anant in need of help? It was J who gave a job to Anant.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

With Shiv came, the baggage of his entire family with Sanchi and DB. A rose with thorns.

While Anant is free with no family except Nidhi.


@bold 😲. Dont be so sure. It takes no time for relatives to start coming out of the woodwork the moment they know that Anandi will be around to clean up all the mess that they have made or will ever make in their lives.

I don't want to go through the life and times of a Shiv like family again. 👎🏼

Am a happy person in a happy space with the current storyline😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

But today, the larger crowd is not idealist but practical and they make good stories too. Lots of single women / mother out there progressing so well on their own. Their stories are definitelyworth talking and following. Amidst all that Why should BV's Lead protagonists' story revolve around self-caused endless pains?

Who cares for a lead who is a superwoman who gets it right all the time?
If it so easy to be so good at everything one does or in real world is it that easy to help others?
How many people are actually helpful and go extra mile without expecting anything?
How many people will be in a postion to help when they themselves are down in the dumps?
When she was married to Shiv she was running Bhaili at that time it was said that doing social work and good to socciety is very easy when one has a highly placed husband and rich family backing her.
How many people would be able to dedicate themselves to work towards the betterment of the society when one's own daughter is lost and her fate is unknown?It takes a really strong person to do that.Keep her worries and troubles to herself trying to trace her daughter while raising the other kid all the while not making him feel neglected in her worry for her lost child. Is this all easy?
Shivam is upset with his mother because she is paying same amount of attention to a random child not because he feels neglected.So we know how much he is used to his mother's attention.

How many women would actually be able to do what she has been doing?

Anandi is no superwoman she comes with her own flaws and that's what makes her believable lead despite being an idealist
She doesn't make doing good and helping others seem like an easy job.

There are many women who have flourishing careers and managing family at the same time.What is so extraordinary about it?

I got the education that I wanted in the institution f my choice and am working in a place which has been my first and only choice so are other who i come across. What is so special about it?Nothing.
Now a days every one dreams of being a highly qualified professional and gets their dream fulfilled too and there is nothing extra ordinary about it.

There is another top rated show where the woman had dreams for herself and she wanted a fulfilling family life too. She got it all and she manages to juggle between her profession and her traditional mother in law. So are a million other women in our country doing it.
There has to be more to life than just managing professional life and family
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Chalo jo bhi ho... the idea that Anant might marry Anandi got the forum rocking.
Keeping all the character analysis aside, it is a fact that a show needs some spice for entertainment. And a possible An An does provide some spice for now.

The other better way of adding spice to the show was by upgrading Anandi into de dhana dhan mode... give her the power, courage and attitude to solve her existing problems.

My favourite episode of Anandi in de dhana dhan avataar was when she slaps Jagya,, throws property papers on face, gives him a realistic dhamki and walks out with an attitude. Wonder when I will see a similar avataar of Anandi?

The other favourite epi was when she chooses Shiv over jagya, straightening both men at once.

We need to see that kind of Anand sometimesi.

After every bit of drama and rona dhona, we need to some confidence and power in the lead protagonist to be able to enjoy the show.

'Woh jukti rahe aur log jhukate rahe' becomes intolerant


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTee


@bold 😲. Dont be so sure. It takes no time for relatives to start coming out of the woodwork the moment they know that Anandi will be around to clean up all the mess that they have made or will ever make in their lives.

I don't want to go through the life and times of a Shiv like family again. 👎🏼

Am a happy person in a happy space with the current storyline😃

Exactly Shiv babu was all on his own when he entered and then the family members started tto pour in.It was never ending.
Why would anyone want to see the same thing all over again?

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