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Posted: 9 years ago
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being a boy shivam potray feeling of balika vadhu very well .he moulded into balika vadhu very nicely inspite of being a boy
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: umam

Want the writers to take forward what they showed yesterday.. LIttle N said those lines with a feeling..Question is - did she really get the import of what she was saying?? and Shivam too? Do not know if Anandi had the time to explain to them what they were enacting..

Long back - when Akhiraj was making his bid as a politician with school for girls - the child had a question about who is BV..Is she aware of the fact that she is a BV??



I think she just said those dialogues. Unlike the way little anandi was aware. Little anandi had more depth and understanding.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Those lines seemed to have come from little Anandi's life.
I think what is needed now is that Nandini understands what she escaped from and Shivam understanding where his sister is coming from.

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I don't think CVs planned a child torn between two mothers. After all Balika Vadhu is not about that but rather the journey of the two Balika Vadhus who are mother and daughter.
Anandi's parents pushed her into child marriage because of ignorance and her daughter was pushed into it because of circumstances.

Don't know why but I feel Nandini rejecting the life given by Mangala and accepting what Anandi is giving is going to be based on the child's own understanding of BV.

She should question Mangala as to how she ended up as a BV.
If BV is wrong how did Devi ma recommend BV




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Do creatives really know how and why bal vivah is wrong? Any body who has seen the serial will know that bal vivah is wrong only because balak var and his family are devils. And in Anandi's case - they are the only support system and gave her everything she has now.
Nimboli is not in a position to ask M why devi ma asked to marry her to K. And when she knows that was the only way to save her life - what will she say?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can balika vadhu or her family never be wrong? Even in case of Pooja - they made it like injustice was done to Pooja - everybody from Mannu to Ganga apologised to her😕. She was not raped, she was not forced to elope and she was not forced to marry. Then how only Mannu and Ganga were wrong and apologised - while Pooja played victim? Is this message creatives want to give by this serial?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved the episode.

felt like watching BV after a long time.

Thank God they saved us from M's negativity.

Anandi's story with her kids can go very well wihout M's negativity
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Posted: 9 years ago
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All the people involved in Anandi's child marriage realised that child marriage is wrong.
They did not think they were doing wrong when they were doing the marriage and that's why they silenced Sandhya teacher

It took them some really bad experience of seeing the one whom they love so much suffering to make them realise how wrong they were.

Bhago realised that instead of sending her off to school she sent her off to sasural.She realised if only she educated the child instead of insisting that she learn how to make rotis gol her child would have been able to weather the storm.
It need not have been husband abandoning her it could have been death of husband and abandonment by the in laws too or it could have been death of the whole family leaving their daughter all alone or impoverished.

What would have been Anandi's situation if the in laws were not supportive when the balak var abandoned her? She would have landed back at maika like Rani Champa etc becoming a burden to the parents and a source of pity or ridicule.

Anandi's child marriage was never right. The relationship which was destroyed by the broken child marriage was saved only because the concerned people had conscience.
Singhs did everything to set right the wrongs they have done through that child marriage and that is how they became source of Anandi's support. It is not because of child marriage but because of the way they undid the wrongs that child marriage has done.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes. Nandini should ask Mangala how did she come to be married to Kundan and how Devi ma endorsed such wrong act.
If Nandini asks Mangala all these questions Mangala will have to tell about her life safing Devi ma act😛

That would make all things clear to Nandini.

She can be angry with her mother for not being able to save her from Akheraj's clutches but what will be Mangala's fate/

Serves Mangala right for going along with garbage bin story to buy child's loyalty for her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Do creatives really know how and why bal vivah is wrong? Any body who has seen the serial will know that bal vivah is wrong only because balak var and his family are devils. And in Anandi's case - they are the only support system and gave her everything she has now.

Nimboli is not in a position to ask M why devi ma asked to marry her to K. And when she knows that was the only way to save her life - what will she say?



yes in case of Anandi they (Balak Var's family )have given everything, but when ? After she lost everything.

Her childhood, her studies, after doing all the works which she was not supposed to do at that age. After getting cheated as she was not the choice of her beendh after reaching his adulthood.

Whatever she has lost is true and that has been lost , cant be given back,

What she got after that was because those persons realized their mistake and tried to give her everything.

How it became right?

Why N cant ask? M could have saved her from this evil system by accepting her as her daughter in her Devi roop and taken care of her the way a mother does
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

All the people involved in Anandi's child marriage realised that child marriage is wrong.

They did not think they were doing wrong when they were doing the marriage and that's why they silenced Sandhya teacher

It took them some really bad experience of seeing the one whom they love so much suffering to make them realise how wrong they were.

Bhago realised that instead of sending her off to school she sent her off to sasural.She realised if only she educated the child instead of insisting that she learn how to make rotis gol her child would have been able to weather the storm.
It need not have been husband abandoning her it could have been death of husband and abandonment by the in laws too or it could have been death of the whole family leaving their daughter all alone or impoverished.

What would have been Anandi's situation if the in laws were not supportive when the balak var abandoned her? She would have landed back at maika like Rani Champa etc becoming a burden to the parents and a source of pity or ridicule.

Anandi's child marriage was never right. The relationship which was destroyed by the broken child marriage was saved only because the concerned people had conscience.
Singhs did everything to set right the wrongs they have done through that child marriage and that is how they became source of Anandi's support. It is not because of child marriage but because of the way they undid the wrongs that child marriage has done.





@bold, we wrote the same thing at the same time😃

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