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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Anandi's daughter would have a life which is very much like Shivam's if the child had not been separated from her.

Shivam is being brought up in the same way Amol was brought up even if his father is not around

Nandini hated her mother till the time she met Chakor

Before that also Anandi meant the world to that child that's why she trusted Anandi enough to come to over to BH on her invitation.

It is not CC but it was Shivam's mother Anandi made her really pine for her mother.

Shivam's father is only present in the thoughts of Shivam and memories of his mother.

The child needs to know what kind of a man Shiv had been through Anandi and listen to Shivam speak about his father.

I think they don't want Anandi Shiv's children to look at anyone else other than Anandi and Shiv as ideal parents.

Since Shiv is not there only pining for mother is shown.

Now in BH she must be seeing J also but still father is a distant figure for her.

I think they want the kids to see Shiv through the eyes of Anandi.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Its not like Shiv and Anandi are the only examples of good parents.

Nimboli admired Mangala too just as she admired Shivam's mother. And Nimboli's desires to meet her own parents came from seeing Urmi's parents.

So it is incorrect to say that only Shivam's mother is the reason behind N wanting to see her mother and she won't miss her father until she meets or hears about Shiv

It Is a clear fault in direction and story that makers only want N to miss her mother and not father. But it is only illogical. Any child would wonder that if indeed my mother was so bad what was my father doing?

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

The child didn't want to meet her mother.

She used think about her mother what she would be like but the garbage bin story turned her against her mother.

What made her change her mind and meet her mother was Chakor and later on Shivam's mother and not CC that made her really want to meet her mother.

She wanted her mother to be someone like CC or rather hoped that her mother would be someone like Shivam's mother

That's when she became determined about wanting to meet her mother.Since the child wanted to meet her mother hopingshe would be like CC fear of father like Akheraj has been planted in her head to put her off.

She has seen Urmi's father Pushkar's father just once or twice and that just made her wonder about her father and that is not really enough to make her want to meet her father.

Further more she spent more time interacting with women than men so she is kind of more sure about mother's role in child's life much more than a father's role

It is the women she has been surrounded by who were responsible for her spending more time thinking about mother rather than father.

Right now it is fear of meeting another Akheraj that stops her from looking for father.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Normally children want both father and mother. It is instinctive.The day the child will know that her father is no more, it will be like adhuri kahani. Even the presence of a live mother wont fill up that loss of father. But Naimboli will be happy just to meet her mother and stoically look at her framed father which can happen only in fiction. We were not shown even Shivam pining for his father. Even if he was convinced that his father was a martyr, that will not make the loss any less. That void will always be there. We were never shown moments of grieving which will not make them unpatriotic.
Inspite of akheraj being such a cruel person, Nimboli tried to help him when police were taking him away. Even a bad father figure was ok for her at that time.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Normally children want both father and mother. It is instinctive.The day the child will know that her father is no more, it will be like adhuri kahani. Even the presence of a live mother wont fill up that loss of father. But Naimboli will be happy just to meet her mother and stoically look at her framed father which can happen only in fiction. We were not shown even Shivam pining for his father. Even if he was convinced that his father was a martyr, that will not make the loss any less. That void will always be there. We were never shown moments of grieving which will not make them unpatriotic.
Inspite of akheraj being such a cruel person, Nimboli tried to help him when police were taking him away. Even a bad father figure was ok for her at that time.

Shivam knows his father is no more and for him father means only that man about whom he heard from his mother. Though he loves Jagya he has not filled the void in his life left by his father with Jagya.He feels there is a void in his life and that he tries to fill it with what he heard from her mother.

Nidhi calls him brother ties rakhi but his rakhi festival is adhuri until the day Nandini ties rakhi on his hand.Even Nimboli will not be given that place meant for Nandini.He may like Nimboli and accept her just like he accepted Nidhi but Nandini is Nandini.

It is just that he manages the feeling of incomplete ness in a stoic manner and feels happy for the things he hasin life.

For Nandini the woman who dumped her is her mother and not the woman under whose care she grew.

She may wonder about her father after seeing Urmi's father but the fear of encountering someone like Akheraj is not making her think about her father.

She will come to know that her father died before she was even born the day when she gets to know that Anandi is her mother.

She will accept the loss like her brother did.

She rescued Akheraj not because he was family but because of her misguided sense of what is wrong and what is right.She saw him being mauled by the crowd and police which she thought is wrong.

For the same reason she jumped to rescue Anandi during that Karate class.

Sense of outrage at the sight of someone being attacked unjustly.

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jayshree1942

@jayshree1942

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Oh no please dont say why nimboli is not thinking of her father. If she will ask mangala why my father did not oppose my mother when she was throwing me in garbage bin , managala will plan for fake father.

So fake father will come . 😆 Again nimboli will be fooled by managala.

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psiloveyou

@psiloveyou

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

#17

One thing is true, a child yearns for both the mother and the father. And the void of Shiv not being around will always be there in S and N's lives. That emptiness will always be there. And no, Anandi cannot fill that void. They cannot just see their father through Anandi's eyes. She rarely even thinks about him herself. Moreover Shiv was nothing like Anandi. BV shows Nandini pinning for only her mother because her father is dead, but they don't realize that it looks very unnatural and illogical. Anyways no matter how much CVs try to portray Anandi as a complete package who is both the mother and the father to their children, they will fail miserably. Fathers are known for protecting their kids, Anandi failed to do that. Fathers provide their kids with security, Anandi doesn't even own her own house. And most importantly she failed to give the life to her children that they deserved.

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seraal

@seraal

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

MOST IMPORTANT FACT IS MANGLA IS SECRETLY SWEEPING NANDANI AWAY FROM ANANDI...IS IT CHAKOR WHO WILL COME AS RESCUE FOR ANANDI..SHE IS BLINDLY TRUSTING MANGLA!!!!!!!

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Mehek134

@Mehek134

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Shivam knows Jagya is kakusaa not Dad Shivam loves him but knows he is not his father so obviously the void of real father will always remain in shivam's life

Regarding Nandini it is completely unreal the girl does not wonder about her father Seeing a loving dad like Jagya don't she wish to know about her own father How my dad would be ?Its normal human psychology i believe ?Such children who have their parents missing or dead pine for their own parents seeing other loving parents in front of them

Nandini pining for her mom only and not wondering about her father is complete stupid and unreal track

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

It is not that Nandini doesn't miss her father.

But all the trauma that she faced so far is mainly because of the man whom she calls Bapusa.

Akheraj did not even love his own daughter. He was ready to kill his daughter and married her off to a mentally challenged man without even bothering for what kind of life his daughter would have.

He used to beat up Kamili and Nandini mercilessly and even Harki could not escape his beatings.

This is what she had experienced and saw.

Urmi's father Pushkar's father did make her wonder why her father also had never visited her.

Mother was different because even in a woman like Harki who is evil she saw mother's love for both her children and so convinced that mothers love their daughters

These two are the examples of parents for her. While Mangala is kind and considerate aunt whom she cares for a lot.

She was very much charamed by Shiv even if it is only a picture.

It is not that she doesn't pine for her father but the fear of him being like Akheraj is what scares her and prevents from looking out for him.