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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Shinya

And I also have another question, is it right for the biological maa to be so ungrateful and selfish towards the woman who raised her daughter when she was so irresponsible towards her child?

Cant the real maa show some gratefulness by saying to the foster maa, you may live with us like a family ?

Why is the real maa so hellbent on kicking the foster maa out of her daughter's life?


And how have she shown ungrateful Ness towards mangala only because she slapped her ones what do u want she should touch her feet n and apologise... common if you think Anandi is nit better than I think Mangala is also no better..
When a mom gets to know abt the child she goes to meet only on an assumption and on a advice of a girl she runs away with kid... she slapped mangala coz she ran away with the child n under impression of following orders of Akhiraj not something intentionally...

And after bringing them to BH I have never seen anandi bad mouthing mangala or even doing anything against her... it's mangala who is doing which we all can see..

But then I feel it's cv's who are destroying the character... they could easily show both mothers having equal rights like ira and choti maa...

Cv's delebrately destroying the character by showing her selfish side for us to sympathise... I can assure mangala is still against akhiraj but what with what she doing with nandani cv's in near future will exit this character
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

What u-turn Mangala can make? The case that she filed is related to murder of her husband, murder of Gopal and perhaps the murder attempt on herself. How can she take a u-turn on that? Anandi's case is something different. The two cases can't be merged in one. Yes BV creatives always show court cases illogically - but still - do the characters already know this?

See any case in reality - there can be dozens of cases against one person - they do not get clubbed because the accused is one person. BV creatives think viewers are dumb. 😒


They can be clubbed together... accused is one... and victims are interealted...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11

Today again I am talking abt maa...

Who is a mother???

One who protects the child or one who misleads it...

One who teaches the difference between wrong or right or one forgets what's wrong or right...

One who thinks about the child 1st or one thinks abt herself...

Is ones maa love is selfless or selfish...

One who wishes a bright future of the child or one who wants wants a child as a toy...

For ones even if I agree that Mangala loves the child but isn't she doing wrong to the child.. for ones even If I don't see what Anandi can give a child but Mangala what is she teaching doesn't she herself needs to get off the clutches of being dependent... doesn't she herself need to think about leading a good life for herself... even she is week but isn't she is upbringing the child also weak...

Cv's are brutally killing a good character... for ones even if I agree in what ever circumstances she up brought the child but today she is killing herself... tomorrow when nandani gets to know abt the lies won't she question to Mangala why she hide the truth from her... even if Akhiraj and family told lies she could ask why did she hide from her... earlier even if she had continue with lies... shouldn't she should have told her latter when she met her mother or even tried to explain about what my mother did or not. .. or even tried to get me near my mom...


Going by the definitions of Maa you stated , it seems Anandi is not at all a Maa to nimboli. How sad!


Mangala may not be a perfect mother, but she's definitely better than the other mother who almost got nimboli killed.


@bold - I totally agree. The directors are brutally killing a good character. Mangala was never like this nor does she have any need to get into this kind of competition. If she had stood firm and expressed herself properly on the day of revelation of truth, she would have won simply. Kamili's wrong advice to mangala due to her half baked knowledge was a big mistake.






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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi should have told DS etc. how she slapped, she should have apologised to Mangala. She should have thought about what this woman meant for her daughter, that her daughter is alive because of this woman.
Mangala will do everything bad now. But along with destroying Mangala's character - creatives are not doing justice to their lead also. They have shown a rude and arrogant Anandi - when she should have been humble and in debt. She is thinking only about her feelings just like Mangala is thinking about her own. It is not a good story. There was no need to pit the two women against each other. Earlier they gave Yashoda and Kans example. But do creatives know that there was no Devki vs Yashoda, that Krishna went to Mathura not to Devki (leaving Yashoda) but to fight with kans. There was no Devki and Krishna story - after leaving Yashoda's home - Krishna's karmkshetra started. This triangle may give drama - but it is not good story - they have so much to show - but they want this positive negative and leave so much grey in positive also and then overdo everything that the impact is lost.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11


They can be clubbed together... accused is one... and victims are interealted...


No, the murder case the victims are different. Accuse may be one. Everybody knows cases of famous personalities (naming anyone in this forum does not seem right) that are battling more than one cases. The cases cannot be clubbed just because the accused is one person (perhaps I can mention Nithari case - all the cases were similar in nature, accused was one - but different cases heard and different decisions given - if it is against the rules - I apologise and will edit my post). Here it is murder of someone and kidnapping of someone else. Even murder case of Mangla's husband and Gopal and Mangala herself should be three different cases - he will get punishment to the extent of the guilt proved. The punishments run concurrently or separately depending on judge's decision.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

And I also have another question, is it right for the biological maa to be so ungrateful and selfish towards the woman who raised her daughter when she was so irresponsible towards her child?

Cant the real maa show some gratefulness by saying to the foster maa, you may live with us like a family ?

Why is the real maa so hellbent on kicking the foster maa out of her daughter's life?



The biological maa can start off with first saying a sorry for that slap. Then she can say a thank you to mangala for keeping nandini alive. These two are the basic expectations anyone can have on a human. A sorry for misbehaving and a thanks for helping. These are the things any mother who truly loves and owns up her child does.

Initially my expectations were that she would give a tough fight to find her lost daughter. That was not met. Then I thought she could atleast do some research on a girl she happened to meet at strange times. That too wasn't met. Now , after she got her daughter on a platter, she doesn't even acknowledge the woman who gave her this gift of seeing her daughter alive. Anandi may be a goddess to all but wrt her daughter , she's an utter failure and a total disappointment. 👎🏼

For Anandi, feeding the girl, buying dresses ,combing hair , hugging and kissing seems to be the definition of maa
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It was never shown who raised Nimbolli and in the same way they never showed Anandi looking for Nandani.
I don't know if some on this forum gave actually been watching from the beginning if just recent verses passing comments.
Mangala has not been shown as being motherly towards her at all. When she was treated like a servant and made to cook clean wash clothes etc. She was not shown at all. Now a real mum would not do that. Even when she was beaten by Akhiraj, Mangala was not to be seen.

Now when it's time for Nandani to be reunited with her family why the drama of Maa.

Not one of them have the courage to admit how they kidnapped and married her as a baby to the evil Kundan.

What does Mangala want to do drag her a long where she gets lusted by men what happens when one of them likes Nimbolli what than.
Or handover to the evil Kundan. No future at all.

Thus is not a mum but a lunatic woman.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dadisa was not trying to pit Anandi against Mangla...but trying to bring them together in their fight against Akhiraj (being a Ravan in both their lives...hence the meaning of ramayan was explained by Jagya). In a way...she's showing a positive light to Mangla...to choose the right battle😊

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Nandini has no idea about Mangla's intentions or her turning evil yet. Only the viewers can see that. Despite that she is choosing Anandi's ideas over Mangla ...and is eager to learn new things. Meaning that Mangla hasn't yet fallen from her pedestal...but still the girl is naturally getting pulled towards her mother. And I think soon she'll be able to judge on her own what is more right for her without knowing Mangla's evil side.

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There is nothing but negativity in Jhalra. Kamli has the choice to not get involve in it but still she is taking pleasure in revenge. All the members of Akhiraj family talk and think about revenge...at least that much they have in common😛

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11


And how have she shown ungrateful Ness towards mangala only because she slapped her ones what do u want she should touch her feet n and apologise... common if you think Anandi is nit better than I think Mangala is also no better..
When a mom gets to know abt the child she goes to meet only on an assumption and on a advice of a girl she runs away with kid... she slapped mangala coz she ran away with the child n under impression of following orders of Akhiraj not something intentionally...

And after bringing them to BH I have never seen anandi bad mouthing mangala or even doing anything against her... it's mangala who is doing which we all can see..

But then I feel it's cv's who are destroying the character... they could easily show both mothers having equal rights like ira and choti maa...

Cv's delebrately destroying the character by showing her selfish side for us to sympathise... I can assure mangala is still against akhiraj but what with what she doing with nandani cv's in near future will exit this character


Red - First of all anandi did not slap her because she ran away with the child... she slapped her because mangala told her she cant meet her daughter... anandi's or anyone else's immediate response should have been 'why cant I my daughter?', slapping was wrong.

Secondly, if you are saying anandi was under the impression that mangala ran away on akhiraj's instructions and therefore she slapped her, then anandi MUST touch her feet and apologise because that presumption of anandi was wrong. And therefore she deserves to apologize.

Blue - she has shown ungratefulness by not saying thanks to her for raising her daughter like a mother... dadisa though for her selfish reasons, at least thanked her... but anandi was indulging in self-pity, leave aside thanking her.

what do u want she should touch her feet n and apologise..-- No, I want her to apologize without touching her feet because it is not necessary to touch feet.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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If u continue to see a nagativity on one side it's coz of ur opinion... if u expect anandi to show gestures to be kind towards mangala where I really don't think Anandi is rude... then also see what mangala is doing... n if u think the way she is dealing with the kid is right then it's upto u...

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