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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala's bark has no bite.

How many times Harki humiliated Mangala and Mangala has to run away in anger, disgust.

Mangala has no business to start arguments if she cannot win an argument with Harki.

Nimboli has a weak support system and very strong antagonist.

When Nimboli goes away with her mother, then Harki and Mangala will have nothing to discuss about.

I am waiting for that day.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala doesn't have teeth to bite nor nails to claw which are essential objects to fight and she doesn't have enough courage to run.
She could have very well used the same knife which she had given to Nimboli as a means to protect herself in the streets. She is an unpaid maid in that house.She could have gotten out of that place and hired herself out as a maid in some place.

If she thought it was her home she should have fought for her rights instead of settling down for a position which is even lower than that of a maid.

If she doesn't want to run away from that situation she should at least try to change the circumstances around her to suit her.

Ganga is called a fool but she atleast had the will to seek a better life for herself and her kid.She would have gotten into troubles if it had not been for doctorsa but she had the courage and will to do something about her life. She would have gotten into troubles she probably would have ended up as a maid somewhere would have been bringing up Mannu as a single mother.
I don't like the way she has been behaving of late with people who are weaker than her and in lower position than her and the way she is messing up her life but she wanted to heave herself out of that ditch and she did it by using hook crook and everything in between.She ddn't have it in her to change the world around her neither she didn't want to become part of it so she fled away from that world.

As they say where there is a will there is a way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Mangala's bark has no bite.

How many times Harki humiliated Mangala and Mangala has to run away in anger, disgust.

Mangala has no business to start arguments if she cannot win an argument with Harki.

Nimboli has a weak support system and very strong antagonist.

When Nimboli goes away with her mother, then Harki and Mangala will have nothing to discuss about.

I am waiting for that day.

Nimboli doesn't need Mangala to fight for her. She only needs the help and support of people to help HER in the fight.
Mangala should stop thinkng of herself as Nandini's protector but convert herself to Nandini's assistant then only she will reach somewhere.

That argument proved how shortsighted Mangala is. What made her think that Nimboli will be free to do what she wants with her life if Kundan's second wife enters?
Why didn't it occur to her as long Nimboli has a position in that house she can fight to break free or make them accept her on her own terms?
Chagini has a family somewhere else she gets paid for what she does
What about Nimboli? She doesn't have a strong position to live in that house neither does she is allowed to grow her wings so that she can put up a strong fight against them or fly from there.

This Mangala should stay away from Nimboli and let her do what she feels is right at least then she will hit the right button that will throw light over her life.

Neither Mangala is capable of doing anything more towards the welfare of Nandini nor Kundan's care what happens to Nandini. So let Nandini decide what she wants to do about her life.This so called protection of Mangala is just a shackle just like Dsa's protective caring for Anandi is nothing more than imprisoning her in a golden cage.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala reminds me of Bhairon. Man with good intentions. But always give in to his mother. Losing arguments. He could not leave dadisa but tried to leave. Emotionally blackmailed by Sumitra, I think.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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one side mangala tells kamli its good that kundan married to urmila , nimboli will be free.
on the other hand she is arguing with Harki that why u told nimboli to decorate kundan room as she is first wife of kundan.

what exactly this mangala want?

somewhere i feel if in future all will start behaving good with nimboli mangala will change her opinion , she will think now nimboli should start her married life with kundan.

someone rightly said its a matter of time, may be today mannu pooja marriage is illegal but when they will reach to legal age and if they have same feeling they can again get marry and can leave happy married life. well now i will say just to show child marriage wrong no need for cvs to separate pooja and mannu. let them stay separately for now and later on they can leave happily.

same thing for nimboli, if kundan changes his attitude and even nimboli likes him in future then they can also continue there marriage. in that circumstances even anandi cant do anything.

just to show child marriage wrong cvs makes any character negative any time.


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Meenu was also somwhat like Mangala. Tolerated Ira. Asked anandi to go with the flow.
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Mangala reminds me of Bhairon. Man with good intentions. But always give in to his mother. Losing arguments. He could not leave dadisa but tried to leave. Emotionally blackmailed by Sumitra, I think.

Bhairon Singh was not afraid to speak out his mind in front of his mother. He left home with his family but came back because of his love for his mother. This is one big flaw in his otherwise perfect personality.
Mangala is keeping quite because she doesn't want to leave that house. She puts up with humiliation meted out to her by Harki ,Akheraj's lust filled advances towards her and Kundan's indifference .
I guess she'd rather put up with these humilaiting conditions for the sake of food and shelter instead of going hungry and homeless.
Any humiliation daily dose of insults are worth all the food and shelter I guess.

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But Bhairon also became weak not for food but for loving the mother.

Everyone of these have their own majbooris.

One who can standup to these pressures becomes the real hero.
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

But Bhairon also became weak not for food but for loving the mother.

Everyone of these have their own majbooris.

One who can standup to these pressures becomes the real hero.

If it had not been for his weakness for his mother he would have been a hero.He was the wisest of all.


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