How Sumitra's reaction to JaGan is compared to Ganga's to Mannu Pooja?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Amazing came to know from here that Ganga not happy with Pooja Mannu over the top bonding where she has sensed at a deeper level these two kids are getting much more closer to each other at this young age while Pooja is completely madly love in with Mannu and Mannu is too growing fonder of her It is clear enough he is getting fonder of her Days are not that far he might fall for her But here Ganga is being accused she is acting selfish , mean , bad , she is jealous 15 year old Pooja is her new enemy , she is not approving Mannu's lies only because she has problems with Pooja God knows when it is shown she has problem with Pooja She has problem with her acts which she has seen throwing herself on Mannu not she has problems with Pooja as a person May be Ganga is suppose to be happy that she got a 15 year old daughter in law for her 15 year old son ? thats why she is being blamed so much here ?

and most amazing this situation is being compared to Sumitra's reaction to JaGan Wow

Jagya was young adult , mature enough to chose his life partner for himself , having legal, moral , ethical right to do so If he was growing fonder to Ganga and Sumitra was narrow minded enough who wants son follow to her commands only and gets jealous and gets insecure of his choices She wanted to dominate Jagya because this is what she was ranting about will he take decisions of his life We are his elders He must agree to us He has to no matter what

First she wished him to follow his bal vivah since he did not she declared him dead then she was getting jealous of Ganga because she wanted son follow her wish , marry the woman of her choice and Ganga was dou kori ki aurat for her ,sadak pai pada hoa bhaasi phool not worthy of her temple like house , Manhoos , cursed woman not worthy of her house then was it Ganga's fault or Jagya's Or Sumitra's own thinking was so disgusting ?

Jagya never brought Ganga to his house on his own It was Dadisaa idea and Sumitra who knew Ratan Singh quite well to which extent he can go He attacked Ganga not once but twice yet assured Ganga consider her like your own house She kept her in house later if she felt Ganga became danger for her family Ganga's stay in BH Its dangerous for her family she could tell that to her family but she was unjustified with her rants abusing Ganga thats what made Jagya , Bhairon even Basant and Gehna not to support her

Perhaps some people here wanted Jagya to throw Ganga out to make his mother happy whose responsibility he himself took and showed her dreams later throw her out because his poor mother was jealous of Ganga ? and her jealousy started from Bhairon and Sumitra used to compare Ganga with Anandi They wanted to give Anandi's place to Ganga and Ganga was dou kori ki aurat for Sumitra How she can match her ladli Anandi Sumitra wanted to give Anandi's place to her dear Sanchi She herself said that to Sanchi so many times and even when Sanchi's true face revealed to her she said same I wanted to give you Anandi's place so Sumitra can give Anandi's place to anyone If Bhairon , Dadisaa , Gehna , Basant tried to gave that to Ganga they were wrong and Sumitra will get jealous and be insecure

Perhaps Sugna should have taken offence of Sumitra giving her most precious possession that necklace to Anandi not to her ? right She preferred Anandi over sugna Sugna should have blamed Anandi she is snatching my family from me then i would see how Sumitra ji would have reacted the way she was over reacting for Ganga and be jealous of her

Sumitra had problems with her son getting closer to someone else She wanted him to marry Sanchi her great choice for him which will not only keep her Anandi happy in her in laws No problem should come for her For Anandi's comfort in her sasra Jagya is suppose to take every BS of them and Sumitra will also be pleased happy to have her choice

and Jagya never really lied to Sumitra for Ganga If he did not tell her about keeping Ganga in staff quarters he did not lie He told her what she told him Ganga is not her concern Now i don't understand why Jagya should be throwing Ganga out because Sumitra hated her and refuse to fulfill the responsibility he took because his mother hates Ganga ?if she refused to take Ganga's responsibility He kept her out their house but Sumitra was shouting on Jagya at that too and praying Jagya should immediately marry Sanchi get tied to her and Godkeep that manhoos Ganga out of his life in every way

She abused Ganga so much when Jagya brought her back from Mangalore She used which words for her i have shame enough i cannot put those words here

She trashed Jagya and Ganga for Jagya marrying Ganga because it was sin for Jagya to marry according to his wish for her and she blamed him he can only hurt her precious Anandi as if he has sold his life to Anandi that should marry according to Anandi ji's happiness and her comfort zone and that such big injustice he has done to Sumitra for not marrying Sanchi Sumitra's choice but marrying bhaasi phool Ganga

Here when is Ganga behaving like Sumitra ? if she is minding these two kids getting closer and is irked at it she is fair enough this is not their age to behave like this Ganga will never mind if Mannu on his own choice marries a woman as adult Ganga will not declare her bhaasi phool like Sumitra and third grade woman but here she has every right to mind these two kids acts which is going beyond friendship

so i dont know how Ganga in this situation is being compared to Sumitra ji when both situations are entirely different


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Posted: 10 years ago
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How Sumitra and Ganga can be compared here ?
Ganga is right to mind underage Mannu and Pooja getting closer She has sensed where this is heading to and she is not wrong in that She is complete right to control it or even take strict control of it and i don't how that makes her jealous insecure , pooja her new enemy , Ganga is selfish , mean here ?

but Sumitra was complete selfish who wanted her son to follow her commands , her wishes only For her son is obedient son only when he blindly follows mother what she thinks is right everything else is wrong otherwise she starts accusing him , starts insulting his choices and decisions ?

First she wanted to be faithful to his child marriage She was convincing him and when he refused she declared him dead Gauri might be bad , whatever but Sumitra was not justified to rub on her face Anandi love Jagya more than you blah blah blah That was wrong

Here with JaGan she was same behaving like a dominating mother who wants to take control of son What she thinks is right whenever whatever she does is right , he should follow her wishes only and dance like a puppet on her tunes

First she along with Dadisaa kept Ganga in house to help her She knew Ratan Singh is a goon and tried to kill Ganga twice she could show her issues then but she did not and kept Ganga in house assuring her consider it like your family , involving Ganga in family matters like cooking food for them and then she started to be jealous of Ganga because family like Bhairon and DS started comparing her to Anandi and felt she is as good as Anandi and like you have mentioned Sumitra can gave her most precious possession to Anandi not to Sugna but thats ok for her She wanted to give Anandi's place to Sanchi thats ok if here DS , Bhairon did same Sumitra became jealous of Ganga because Ganga was dou kori ki aurat for her as per her own words ?

She involved Ganga fully in her family and used to send Ganga with milk for Jagya then she was making faces when Dadisaa was asking Ganga to do Jagya's birthday preparations ? why because then she started hating Ganga as per her whims and fancies


She was right to think Ganga 's stay in BH has become dangerous It had put their life in danger and she don't want to take such risks until Ratan is not to put to trial but she had no right to abuse Ganga so much , calling her manhoos , evil eye and that she has always brought misery for them which was untrue she did a lot good of them too and did her best to keep them happy but sumitra was abusing and accusing Ganga that made no one support her not even Anandi


First she involved Ganga in their personal lives then she had issues with her involvement in their lives She along with Dadisaa stopped Ganga when she was leaving later she wanted her to leave because she was jealous of her

Jagya was right when he told her we were the first ones who interfered in Gangas life , brought her in our house , made her part of our family showed her dreams now how fair is that to kick her out and snatch all that from her what we gave her ?

She refused to take Ganga 's responsibility Jagya took it on him only again she was shouting at him

Sumitra wanted Sanchi as her daughter in law only because Sanchi was her choice and that according to her screwed up thinking it might keep Anandi comfortable at her sasra as well

Sumitra could not take son's independent 's choice , living his life according to his wish thats why she was getting so jealous seeing him getting closer to Ganga and Mannu and she was doing Sanchi jaap only and forcing Jagya in this awkward relationship because according to her he has no right to take decisions of his life They are his elders he must follow their orders and be a puppet in their hands

She abused Jagya and Ganga crossing limits of even humanity when JaGan married I don't know which mother in the world blames son like that and what kind of human being she was abusing Ganga so badly like bhaasi phool , dou kori ki aurat 🤢

Sumitra got mirror check only then why her dear choice's Sanchi 's true face got revealed to her that how low Sanchi thinks of her


Ganga is no way behaving like Sumitra She is not behaving like a dominating mother Her son is not in this age to fall in love etc She never had any problems with Mannu Pooja friendship but his going beyond that thats why she has issues
Edited by mahi12 - 10 years ago

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