Abhi does not mind Mannu enjoying all love care affection In front of him Jagya showed such great trust in Mannu and gave him money ( which was very good of Jagya He believes in giving children some independence to do this things on their own instead of always depending on them Mannu is growing up now Three cheers to Jagya for it and so different he is from Bhairon Bhairon's biggest flaw he even gave permission to Jagya to do something in his teenage after getting lecture from Anandi On his own he never understood and gave some independence to his child to do things on his own and listen to him somewhere )but Abhi does not mind it but he feels bad when shivam enjoys all love , care and affection from his family Why? This difference is because unlike shivam Mannu does not misbehaves with Abhi and neither left scot free for it the way Shivam is left It is leaving him scott free Neither he apologized to Abhi for his rude prank , neither confessed his mistake to Abhi's teacher Abhi got mockery and scolding for shivam's mistake in his school and it will be forever counted as his fault in school , Shivam refused to accept his mistake in front of him , blamed him to be lying putting false blame on him and again he was instigating him teasing him my choice is the best your too bad ? Why some people expect Abhi to ignore all this? Is Abhi shivam's charity case that he can do anything with him and Abhi is suppose to ignore it ?
Don't understand why Anandi did not bother to make shivam apologize to Abhi for his mistake here neither made him confess to Abhi's teacher ? Had shivam done with this some other child won't Anandi have to do it then so why same rules don't apply for Abhi?She can make innocent Amol apologize to Subhadra to win her heart when Amol was 100 percent innocent and subadra was 100 percent at fault but here when Shivam was at complete fault she did not even ask shivam when he was apologizing to her she should have asked him not to me but to Abhi because of you Abhi faced so much but she did not bother so how Abhi wont feel bad ?
Today shivam might have not done any wrong but Abhi felt bad seeing him enjoying love and affection of his father after being rude to him ? How can Jagya be faulted in this ? He does not even know what Shivam did and if he knows then what he is suppose to do ? He can afford to love and care for shivam but cannot afford to scold him He can complain to Anandi but Anandi knows on her own and what she did ? Nothing impactful thats why shivam continued to be rude to Abhi with his teasing which really is crossing the line and will be termed as rudeness
Jagya was being kind and sweet to all three kids but Abhi felt bad seeing shivam enjoying his father's love and affection because he holds grudge against him he did this with me and did not even apologize yet and he is seeing him enjoying love and care of his family How it won't be hurting Abhi? This is not correct
i have seen people blaming Jagya he is being too strict with Abhi? when ? so far he has been strict with Abhi only when he should be Every parent is this much strict to their child because they don't want to get them spoiled because of too much leniency but other children don't misunderstand because unlike here Abhi is dealt for his mistakes and even scolded but shivam? He is dealt by his mother in closed doors i am not asking her to scold him in front of Abhi but at least make sure when he is too rude he should apologize to Abhi
I have seen people saying communication gap is the problem here ? how and what Jagya is suppose to communicate to Abhi? trust me son i love you very much Bear with it i cannot afford to scold shivam because he is not my son but i have not given your place to anyone and this will solve Abhi's problem ?when his problem is Shivam continues to misbehave with him and goes scot free for it and this is why Shivam enjoying all love and care and affection from his family is suffocating him He pretty clearly said to Mannu '' All think i am always at fault and all side with shivam '' and why Abhi thinks like that because shivam truly never apologize to Abhi for any of his rudeness therefore he keeps believing Shivam is left scot free for all his mistakes to him This is what caused all these misunderstandings him
JaGan pay attention on their kids they share beautiful relationship with each other Problem is shivam even if they start paying more attention on Abhi and start to be extra careful to him even then it won't solve Abhi's problem No one likes the person who messes with him and never feels sorry for it enjoying love and affection of his dear ones Same happened in this episode Shivam was rude to Abhi and there was no amount of remorse in him for it and he continued to be more rude and today Abhi saw him enjoying with his father How can Jagya be blamed for it ? he does not know about Shivam's rudeness even if he knows it is not his responsibility to deal with him It is Anandi's responsibility JaGan are in helpless situation when it comes to Shivam and his misbehavior so Anandi should control her son not only for good of Abhi but for his own good too
This problem will only get solved when Shivam too learns his lesson and respect Abhi otherwise expecting Jagya to shower how much more love on Abhi will not resolve this tiff of Abhi and shivam It will continue till forever
Anupamaa
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
