Originally posted by: rohini55
Aparna this is a cop out. I don't like watching BV now but I read the updates because it will take me a little time to withdraw totally. It is my choice whether i comment after reading the updates or not.
I can make the same argument and tell you if you don't like my post don't reply to it. I did not reply to you or to the others. I made an observation that Amol is missing and Mannu is being called the eldest brother of Shivam. I found the situation bizarre and wondered what will happen when kids get to know the truth. You and others refuted me and I replied.
All i was trying to tell you all is that CVs cannot be relied upon. You can come up with 1000 arguments for why something will happen or not. You can roll in laughter at the suggestion of Ganga asking J to marry A. Fine I agree it is illogical. But can anyone of you give a guarantee that CVs will not be illogical snd this will never happen? If for whatever reason -- btw i neither want to separate Jagan not want JaAn-- they want JaAn, they will make Ganga and Ds take a promise from A. They will make Ds and Ganga tell her that she has to think of the kids and not be selfish. Exactly the argument Ds used with Gehna who had been married for 15 years. In short CVs can do the most absurd thing: like Gehna Niranjan marriage. It simply didn't make sense but that didn't stop the CVs.
Similarly who could have thought A will return to live in her former husbands home and in the process deprive her kids of their own home? It is illogical but it happened. It is demeaning to A but it happened. A has history of being forced to do things for others. So can be forced once again. If this doesn't happen it's good. If it does, well that too is possible.
Since you have addressed me directly I am responding
On the topic of CVs cannot be relied upon -The tag line KACCHE UMAR KI PAKKI RISHTE - they have been highly consistent about that.😛
Why did they not make Dsa disappear after Anandi Shiv got married? They made Khazan and Bhago disappear and they made Sumi Bhairon disappear and they made Shekhars disappear doesn't that give an indication as to what the story is about?
The other rishta - where the friendship survived even if the marriage collapsed what does that tell?
They have been telling the story in the tagline right from beginning. Why did they make Shiv embrace Anandi's kacche umar ki pakke rishte? Why did the CVs make sure that Shiv understood Anandi SIngh equation?
Why did so much go into building Shiv Singh bonding which is so tangible in fact much more than Shiv's bonding with Shekhars ?
They made it amply clear that it was Singhs A/AnSh story.
Isn't that obvious that this relationship is what that is important to them?
Why did they make J and S friends?
Why was so much invested in J and S relationship with all the ups and downs in that relationship if the story is just about two separate pairs?
As for her other pakke rishta why is it that they showed us them becoming friends and well wishers of each other? Simple that is the only way thye can prove that the marriage went wrong because it was child marriage and they were not meant for each other and their friendship is stronger than marriage because it was a relationship which they both worked on.
Beyond that they are showing a love story between Anandi and Shiv who thought thye will be together for ever.Now is there a love story where the lovers believe that they get separated?Is there a book or a movie or a TV show where the lover believe that their togetherness will not last?
Irrespective of the ending of the love story the lovers invariably believe that they will be together for ever so what is so different about Anandi and Shiv except that we loved them as a pair a lot and wanted them to see together?
If they let us know that Shiv is going to leave Anandi and go on an eternal journey to heaven right at the time when Shiv entered would we have developed liking for this pair?Would we believe the love they have for each other?
Obviously it is the job of the CVs to make us believe that Anandi Shiv story is forever for the purpose of their story and if we get affected by the way it ended it is because they succeeded in upsetting us over the tragedy that hit Anandi's life.
It is very clear that the story they wanted to tell us was the story of a widow Anandi and her Dadisa and they have been very consistent in showing the relationship between the two women or rather the old lady and the little girl called Anandi..
Is it the CVs who couldn't be relied upon or it is we who didn't want to see where it is leading to?
Gehna marriage was done solely to make Dsa a great heroine other than that there is nothing to it.
Why would she marry off Anandi like the way she married off Gehna?
They will not show JA marriage simply becase they know that if they show that they will be endorsing child marriage indirectly.They wouldn't risk it.