AnSh AT #260 - *Mujh Mein Tu, Tu Hi Tu Basa*

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#681

KB peeps were never shown as efficient as DS and Bhairo so no point in comparing their actions. They can be the most useless ppl. My pt is only that they would have got a serious bashing if Nandini would have harmed by any of their mistake and rightly so.

Btw DS and Bhario lived in the environment where they can be well aware of the type of ppl committing these practics of Bal Vivah and what it takes to counter with them.

KB peeps may not be aware of the severity of the situation.

And the way Anandi was informing them casually that their would be no harm to Nandini and they would come back soon after helping the lady , they could not even imagine the danger associated with her situation.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#682

Such a small baby - and all he could see in that little baby is his prospective bahu?

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#683

If Anandi only went to drop that lady at the venue then why she did not returned after dropping her.

Stalling the proceedings and trying to stop marriage is not much different. No problem with that , after all it is her aim of life that no one suffer what she had to suffer in the name of Bal Vivah . Not being cautious enough for her child's safety first was her mistake. Both of objectives could have fulfilled if compassion was mixed with caution. She has seen enough during stopping Gulli's and Jyoti's marriage that what can happen but she chose to ignore the lessons got from those incidences. Her this mistake is going to cost her daughter her freedom.

And if a child is safe in her mother's arms at such a place , actually a den of criminals who do not bother about their own child then she should still be safe in her arms.

If she can not think about the dangers associated by going on such a place with a small child simply because she is with her, then she needs to widen up her thinking . What happened with Nandini is much less dangerous than what could have happened. She could still fight for Nandini's life but there were possibilities that she did not get a chance for that.

My heart is bleeding for little Nandini as she is paying the price for her mother's extra ordinariness.

Poor angel who has yet to start her life will suffer due to calculated risks her mother has taken.

Anyway I am out of this discussion as all of us will stick to our opinions.

Edited by anshurg5 - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#684

One has to do what one believes in.

Shiv believed that the safety of Udaipur people is more important than his life but he did not expect to lose his life.At that point he was thinking only of that

Anandi believes in a cause for that she has to make a few decisions and she made.She made decisions what she felt were appropriate.SHe did not expect anything to happen to her child.

She did not neglect her child

You can either sit on judgement or accept them as they are.There is no point arguing.

The most important thing is that she has not been foolish nor has she been careless

People seem to have great difficulty to differentiate a careless reckless person who walks into danger and a person who takes risk

Here Anandi took a risk just like her husband did sometime back and they did to help others and that is something people who sit in front of the TV and watch them are not capable of and that's why stories are not written about their lives

Stories are written about people who rise out of ordinariness and who rise above themselves.

Whoever said helping other people in distress and standing up for others is a cake walk?

Only people who are strong enough to face the consequences of their goodness can be good.

She disrupted the beggar mafia and Amol got kidnapped

She took on Heth Singh and he tried to damage her life

Who says only good things happen to people who do good?

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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LauraM

@LauraM

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Posted: 10 years ago

#685

Hi, girls.

I've been wondering...

Child marriage is illegal, right?

So, they can perform all the rituals, the marriage still has no legal value.

Why was the rush to finish rituals?

Poor Nandini, innocent and helpless.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#686

Originally posted by: LauraM
Hi, girls.

I've been wondering...

Child marriage is illegal, right?

So, they can perform all the rituals, the marriage still has no legal value.

Why was the rush to finish rituals?

Poor Nandini, innocent and helpless.

Child marriage is illegal but all those rituals are part of the wedding procedings.

All this rituals will tell that the couple are married so irrespective of the fact whether it is child marriage or adult marriage the ritual are same - Hindu marriage rituals.

It is against the law of the land but according to Hindu traditons any couple who have done these rituals are considered as married.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#687

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Child marriage is illegal but all those rituals are part of the wedding procedings.
All this rituals will tell that the couple are married so irrespective of the fact whether it is child marriage or adult marriage the ritual are same - Hindu marriage rituals.

It is against the law of the land but according to Hindu traditons any couple who have done these rituals are considered as married.

And becoz of ignorance if those were not annulled in time it will become legal.

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731627

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Posted: 10 years ago

#688

I wonder in how can lakhera take revenge , , will not police arrest him ? will not police arrest those people who r involve in child marriage , will lakhera and his family successfully run away from police ?