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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anandi, the social worker, the fearless one saving other, the one who tackled Saurabh, now is shaking with fear. Do they want to show that even an able lady like anandi needs a husbnad's support when she is stalked? What prevents her from tackling the stalker without the help of Shiv?

When the goons kidnapped her and rescued by Jagya, she was still somewhat vulnerable due to variety of circumstances. But now things are different.

What about ladies who dont have husbands or men to support them during such situations?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The Kashmir situation was somewhat unrealistic while this stalking is quite normal. We hear these stories often and read about them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Not only Anandi Its any woman in the world Needs support from a strong pillar in her life to stand strong in her life...It may be her husnabd, it may be her parents or it may be anybody else...in fact not only woman a man also need that support...without the support of family nobody will be able to succeed on her/his professional life..😊
A pschycho is calling a woman continuously andgiving her warning to snatch her away from her family member is not an usual thing...any woman however she is strong or week will be affected by that...its general human tendency.😊

I am very happy to see the bv maker's approach ...at least that time they are not showing anandi like a stone statue...at least now she is behaving like a human being maintaining the general human psychology...😛

Edited by nandita_bVian - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi, the social worker, the fearless one saving other, the one who tackled Saurabh, now is shaking with fear. Do they want to show that even an able lady like anandi needs a husbnad's support when she is stalked? What prevents her from tackling the stalker without the help of Shiv?

When the goons kidnapped her and rescued by Jagya, she was still somewhat vulnerable due to variety of circumstances. But now things are different.

What about ladies who dont have husbands or men to support them during such situations?

Abla nari - it is too early to conclude that she is an abla nari.
She gave him a piece of her mind when he said he wanted to paint her in some funny dress.
Yet she completed her commitment with him
Then he sent this portrait of her which is unacceptable to her - She did tear him apart for that
Then the assault started.
Those phone calls can be quite unnerving.So it would have been unrealistic if she had not been rattling with fear
Even with all that fear she gathered herself and told him off. But then he told her that he would abduct her and take her away from Shiv and that is the worst thing that can happen to her.So she is terrified at that thought rather than the phone calls.
Shiv knows that she can handle this and he just needs to be there for her.
Like the way he told her that she can handle this man because she handled situations worse than this.
He didn't say that she not need be afraid cos he was there but told her she can handle him.
She just needs time to gather herself before she strikes back.
She handled Saurabh and those kidnappers in Kashmir but at that time her loved ones are in danger and she didn't have time to consider her fears she needed to do something so she did.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Stalking is a serious social problem faced mostly by girls, women and in rare cases men too. Rasika stalked Shiv.

Shiv faced it and now Anandi is facing.

Even Sanchi faced it during Saurabh episode.

Ganga also faced it during her Mangalore training.

Stalker being rich and famous, stalker being a lowlife do not change the dynamics of the crime.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Stlking is a dangerous issue in today's world...particularly for the college going and working women this is pathetic...ppl just thinking ke they can do anything with the help of their mobile phone...but according to the regulation of TRAI ...if a person is calling in any personal no and disturbing the no holder he/she can call to national DND and can blocked that particular no forever even he/she can launch police case against him/her...😊
I know a well know marketing organization in kolkata ...where a tele caller called a businessman from their office no frequently and bash him over the phone...that businessman directly called to National DND and blocked the no of the whole branch and launch a case against them...😆

but problem is that in india many person are not at all aware about that type of rules and regulations ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Creatives will show whatever suits them in a particular track - not bothering about how they change nature of a character. So while Anandi was fearless to go to daru adda where loads of persons like Chanda's husband were present, went to help Asha from babaji, went to meat the rapist Saurabh alone, rescued Shiv alone etc. - she will tremble with fear because they have to show her weak to make her victim. Even Sanchi changed to be a fool when she was shown suffering in her sasural. In creative's dictionary - a woman cannot be a victim if she is fearless.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is understandable that she is scared.Only a fool wouldn't be scared in this kind of situation.
Even in Kashmir she was quite scared but still went ahead searched for him and saved him. She was busy rescuing her husband in Kashmir so the fear tok back seat then.
When she went to Saurabh and that Babaji in Asha's case she wasn't thinking about herself she was more pre occupied with the thoughts of how to rescue them.
Here also she was shown to be brave till the time he threatened her that he will take her away from her husband and family she had been brave.
Had it been about just his insane fixation on her she would have been able to handle that.
But the thought of family being harmed and her being separated from them is what making her weak.
When family members were in danger she was busy rescuing them now she kind of knows how far he will go she is scared of him and what he will do to them..
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But now this has become an international issue with Palsh being a foreign national.
So they need to have proper evidence to put him away.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anandi could have called police in Bhaili - she could have pressed stalking charges. Her words were not supported by her action - she warned Palash but at the same time she was scared and weeping. Why show to Palash that she is scared - how can he take her away if she does not want? In Bhaili office - she had support of other women also. As regards her family - they can take care of themselves - Amol is not even present now a days.

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