Why dadisa is so worried? - Page 18

Originally posted by: rohini55

]I'm not suggesting that Gauri should not move on. I want her to move on because Jagya is not worth clinging to, not because he has unilaterally moved on and therefore she must too. .

This is exactly why I thought gauri should move on. I hoped that she would leave wishing good luck to his present wife and future wives and leave the scenario. But was greatly disappointed when she said anandi was lucky when she initially thought that J An settled. I just despise the way CV's are moulding gauri's character.

Originally posted by: saba113

This is most weird post Please watch the episodes then comment Totally molding facts Do you think people here have not seen BV you can write anything and we will believe ?

1 why he came back because he realized even his little care she is getting over board thats where you have seen him romantically thinking about Gauri ? did he even have any FB of her so why assuming he went there with any other intention? He too don't have confidence on him What a joke if he and Ganga would not have confidence on each other would they have agreed for this Never Dear Anandi was serving teas to Jagya when he came to home when Nandu was suffering Did anyone ask her ? No Was her intention wrong No so why molding things here just to blame someone wrongly ?

Dadisaa agreed after Ganga yes but Dadisaa was lecturing Jagya who was not agreeing ? Haan ?second what Dadisaa said to him keep a distance from Gauri and when you are near her she starts day dreaming this is what she said so which dhamki she gave to him and when Rasika was clinging on to Shiv sobbing Anandi too said same to Shiv keep a distance Did this mean Anandi had no confidence on Shiv ?

3rd Gauri tripped he held her in how many seconds Ganga came as soon as she tripped he held her Ganga came Should i post caps here to show you the irritation on his face when Gauri was lost in him ? should i post caps here to tell how awkward he was ? He would have let her go she would have fallen down thats why he didn't let her go until Ganga held her and made her lie on bed

Trying hard to bash Jagya ? Better luck next time to bring some logical reason and that are in facts of serial

Jagya can only settle in a relationship where he is the dominant partner. With Anandi there were moments when he was supportive but later he was spiteful of her attempts to get ahead. He showed his contempt openly when she topped in high school.

He was uncomfortable with Gauri's ambitions and resented her competence and career advances.

With Ganga the relationship is superficially equal but he is the boss both at home and at work. This is the relationship that works for him. In fact he was shocked when A did not wait for him. The way he imagined it, he would confer the world's treasures on her from a dominant position which she would gratefully accept. When that did not happen he planned revenge.

On the other hand, Ganga keeps expressing her gratitude to him.

Gauri has returned but their equation has reversed. There is no sign of the competent surgeon that she was. Instead she is the clingy, worshipping ex-wife. The way she is reacting to her own medical condition, it seems she was never a doctor who rose to her position by dint of hard work.

Cvs have degraded fiery Gauri to wimpy, teary, lacking in confidence Gauri. Complete role reversal here in order to confer mahantaa and sainthood on Dr. J.

I think Gauri has always been clingy possessive insecure lacking in self esteem and self respect even when she was going around with Jagya.

@ Rohini,

So well said. Jagya can only settle in a relationship where is he a dominant partner. And I agree that superficially Jagan look great but as you said he is the boss at home and outside. And ganga is never going to boss him or outshine him.

In a way all 3, Anandi, Gauri and Saanchi outshone him. Anandi through wisdom, Gauri through career and Saanchi through her personal and family background. Saanchi was not as meek as Jagya may have wanted. And this is something Jagya cannot put up with. The moment his women outshine him, he will look out for the next less-dominant option. Ganga fitted the box well.

Honestly speaking JaGan marriage can be viewed as a best deal that both J and Gang got. Ganga couldn't have got a better life than this. She was always so used to harsh dominance from Ratan and his family that compared to that Jagya was of a different league altogether. J's dominance would just be negligible for her. No wonder she respects him and owes it to him for a good life. And one cannot take away the credit from J that he is fairly changed and matured. (Although I cannot vouch if he genuinely loves Ganga)

On the other hand Ganga was good enough for J as she had a combination of all the 3 traits that J was missing in his previous females. She was well-educated unlike Anandi, but homely unlike Gauri and not dominating at all unlike Saanchi. So it was a good DEAL marriage.

Coming to Guari, she has nothing to add to the show.

I can undertsnd that all along she thought J was with Anandi (rather a committed man) and she didn't want to do anything anymore with him.

Now she saw that he has totally changed, is more likeable and single, so she wants to revive her lost life by re-uniting. Accepatable.

What is not acceptable is she has barely tried to know what he did in the past 2 years and whether they are standing on the same equation after 2 years? She is suddenly into a dream land of her own... We are talking about a successful and well-educated doctor here, not some love-crushed teenager. Does it really make sense for her to keep yearning for J? This track is crap and Cvs have butchered Gauri. This is nothing to do with women-empowerment.

Even if J was really single, should Gauri have started jumping like this without trying to know anything about him.

shivani wrong suggestion make everyone worried .ganga jagya teej is nice after jaan teej ganga jagya is teej is nice .never liked romance teej between jagya gauri because gauri jagya pairing based on immorality

Originally posted by: hisusmita

First of all , I didnt know that here people has the right to decide which post is weird and which one is not. You dont have any right to say what I will comment. I am also watching the soap since day one and we are also not blind.

No one is molding facts here. The way people here are watching BV we are also watching.

Who told you to believe me or anyone? You have posted your comment. I will post mine.

I am not here to change your perception and so you too pls dont try to do that. You have started quoting me.

1) No where did I say he had romantic thoughts in his mind when he approached Gouris room. But this pendu nature of his is the root cause of every problem. This will just gice indulgence to Gouri.

From the beginning he is an escapist.. He dont have guts to face problem , only runs away hiding his relationships. Why did he agreed first place to hide the relationship? Before operation he could have told her politely. becoz that time she already assumed that he was married to Anandi.I liked the way he questioned her the teez thing. Same way he would have told her when he told her about Anandi's marriage.

Ganga has forced but he too has a voice and that too a very loud one, we have seen that several times for many wrong reasons. Now just blaming for Ganga and DS he has agreed is wrong. Ganga has seen his sudhrofied roop , the way she has seen only changed reformed DS. That's why she considers him GOd . And that's fine he is not doing any thing wrong now and a big candidate for mahanta cap.

Same thing he did in case of Gouri. in Jagya Gowri relationship , Jagya's fault is much more than Gouri's . Who are Singhs to Gouri? Who was Anandi to Gouri.? Gouri told him and he came dum dabake to ask for property share? Gouri told him and he came to chidkao bhabhut on Anandi's place? Is he a dood peeta bachha that someone will tell him and he will do that? They were his parents. Anandi was his wife. So definitely Jagya's fault is much more. If he can father a child dont he understand the repercussions of his actions?

Anandi was forced to do everything during amnesia drama as DS told her , Yes Bhairon did told him not to do but she agreed becoz she didnt want to say no to DS as she was already in guilt mode that for her family is not forgiving J. She shared this with Shiv too. and she knows what she is doing just for the family not for J which shiv too understands.

We too didnt like her doing that. She too was disgusted when DS called her to feed J and she was sitting with Shiv near lakeside.

He redeemed , its fine but that doesnt white wash all his past deeds. Yes he suffered. He lost his job, he lost his family.the condition was such beggar was offering him burger, he became chapati chor. Those were sufferings of his own misdeeds not redemption.

Whatever they have showed in the name of redemption is he got a world class hospital made by his father. Few days worked in Laxmigunj. Fallen in love with Ganga in jet speed . Whatever he has done to Ganga would have been considered as redemption and touched our chords if he would have done it selflessly. Doing everything for her and her son and putting sindoor on her maang without even asking her just becoz he love her is way too selfish thing.. Marriage could have shown lateron also that family is doing that for him. Here he has fallen for her and about his marriage less said is better. Any person if loves that lady will do all these for her. Okay it may be said he was not understanding that he was in love but he surely felt the urge becoz at the bottom of his heart he had feelings for Ganga. So whatever has been done becoz of that feelings not becoz of redemption.

Yes during Rashika case Anandi did told Shiv and we too bashed Shiv. I told him how can he be so dumb that he cant understand the fake tears of Rashika?

3) No need to post caps . we too have seen all the scenes. Gouri went on and on holding his hand. Being a doc he should have politely removed her hand and behave as a doc . Why he waited till he saw Ganga. Same thing was there in that scene. Why he was shocked and immediately left her seeing Ganga?

Jagya has done so many misdeeds we dont need to try hard to criticize him. His list of wrong doings are long. Anandi has been criticized many times when she has not committed such crimes which Jagya committed . So we have to accept criticism.

Jagya is hero for you that's fine, that's your perception , not mine. . Shanky is an awesome actor but the character Jagya will be criticized whenever people will connect him with past.

He has reformed now in CVs whitewash way but past cant be whitewashed simply like this. You like Jagya its fine . But we cant forget everything .That's my POV . You can always be happy with your POV. Better you post your points without quoting me and be happy

Originally posted by: tiny15

i rembr ganga didn't say the word "acha hua" in that sense in which its perceived by sum1 .bcoz she said it after J said sumthingelse after telling her abt her meeting wid gauri. it was shown that she meant that its gud he went 2 meet.i don't rembr whole convo now but after he told her that she didn't meet him & he left a letter 4 her she said acha hua.and i don't think she was saying sumthing bad 2 gauri as she herself asked him 2 go 2 apologise & moreover @ that time she was not even in luv wid him just respected him.she didn't say acha hua gauri nahi mili.

and also this time ganga said "aapki kya galati" not 4 the jagya-gauri mrg.Jagya was blaming himself 4 the present situtn of gauri after her accident.then ganga said "aapki kya galati" and she asked him wat he cudn't do @ that time he shud do now i.e asking apology again and really wats his fault in it??

i don't know how ppl perceive sumthing else apart from wats shown in the show??this is called biased perception.

and i don't think Jagya is weak but gauri is weak. why ppl always want women 2 b portrayed as nice never @ fault while always tried 2 show men bad in such situtns??i won't mind if CVs r showing gauri @ fault bcoz there r women like gauri in this society & i'd seen women behaving like gauri.

why shud she b shown as gud or rite just bcoz shes a woman.

Before accusing me of my biased perception why don't u watch that episode? Jagya said he couldn't meet Gauri and left. Then DS started praising her laadesar for doing such great thing and accused Gauri for insulting Jagya. Then Ganga said Acha hua that she didn't met Daactarsa. If she had met him and talked properly it would have been difficult for Daactarsa to return back.
I mentioned what was shown in the episode .
Would be nice if u argue based on logic and reasons rather than attacking members personally.

Prophet: This member has a history of attacking members personally. Just check out her previous posts.

Originally posted by: Prophet_

Before accusing me of my biased perception why don't u watch that episode? Jagya said he couldn't meet Gauri and left. Then DS started praising her laadesar for doing such great thing and accused Gauri for insulting Jagya. Then Ganga said Acha hua that she didn't met Daactarsa. If she had met him and talked properly it would have been difficult for Daactarsa to return back.
I mentioned what was shown in the episode .
Would be nice if u argue based on logic and reasons rather than attacking members personally.

i don't attack ppl prsnlly. i didn't say this 2 u.i'd seen oder posts of oders so i said abt biased perception.and if u'd talkd abt wat was shown then u wudn't only said ganga did this but u'd also seen in which sense it was said & after wat convo she said.bcoz tho i didn't rembr thw whole convo i rembr in wat sense she said this.bcoz DS was worried wat if gauri returned?