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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi's frustrated with the entry of every new person in the Shekhar family.

Did she really get so much attention in past that she feels slighted now?

CVs have barely shown Shekhar family interacting with Sanchi. The only time she was center of attraction and recipient of affections was during SaJa wedding drama.

It's hard to believe they showered her with pampering and love earlier, treated her like royalty...that she got used to such treatment and feels it's withdrawn now.

If they really did love and pamper her so much and have sidelined her only now then they are surely at fault for not balancing between existing members of family and new members.

Ira didn't answer Sanchi's call for food tonight. Meenu came, but only got one pastry. No wonder Sanchi was frustrated again. CM did not even tell her that there were more pastries and she could get them. Sanchi had to ask herself.

I have only seen Anandi trying to invite Sanchi for meals or conversations. Everyone else keeps ignoring her.

What kind of family is this?

If Sanchi still behaves like a kid or wants everything as it was in childhood then somewhere it is Shekhars' fault too that they couldn't help her make transition as a grown up. How can they shirk this responsibility?

Sanchi gets frustrated and tries to cause problems to probably get back at family for ignoring her or get attention herself. It all backfires and Shekhars boycott her again. Then who handles the mess? Not the parents but Anandi!

Atleast Jagya was blindly supported by DS for a long time. Among Shekhars there's no one who supports Sanchi blindly except Ira who's a little more sympathetic towards her being a mother.

I find it hard to make sense of how Shekhars dealt with Sanchi earlier and how they behave now.

BTW, what's with BV parents spoiling their kids rotten and making them overgrown babies and then ignoring or lamenting over them instead of trying to rectify their mistakes in upbringing as elders?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I really don't know whose fault it is?
Sometimes i feel CVs are just going in too much extreme and all this looks very unreal...hekhars and Saanchi just don't make a family...everyone treat her like she unfortunately came in this world and they don't know what to do with her...looks like in childhood they just used to flfill her life with materlistic things and now since she has become self centred and idiot they are letting her go haywire
Saanchi is nothing to me but a messed up character brought by CVs who jut for sake of having some negative character and now they bringing her character in extreme negative side without realizing that Saanchi' behvaior may not be so much posible in a fmaily like Shekhars...they don't really try to create Saanchi's character according to Shekhars's behavior towards her...they are just showing her to have some drama in the show...they showed Shiv very much like his family(specially biological parents) and even Singhs are well sketched characters with children sharing some or the other trait with their parents or any other family member
Edited by libsrocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I assume sanchi was always like this before anandi even entered the scene, I'm guess the way shekkars always deal with the problem is shout sanchi down and then forget and forgive till her next mistake, choti maa was even worried about sanchi's reaction to shiv choosing anandi before marriage.
I do find it hard to believe a person would hate their family so much to hurt them even though she has nothing to really complain about, she had everything on a plate and she's treated well so why all this hate to destroy everyone who should be near and dear to her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In fact ,that is what happens when child is spoiled so much. There is no unity when reprimanding or
Punishing Sanchi. When Ira is ready to punish her,Anandi interferes. When Alok was ready to
Slap her , Daddu intervenes. So she knows she has some one always on her side to manipulate
Them. The family really does not know how to raise her. They should undertand all five fingers are
Not the same. Just because Shiv and Mahi turned out right, they were blind to Sanchi's faults.
In Jagia's case, only Ds spoiled him . Bairon and Basanth were very strict with him. He did not
Grow up in a confused culture like Sanchi. The minute he was exposed to confusion he made
Mistakes. Bairon threw him out. Let Alok and Ira throw her out or demand that she does some chores
In the house,instead of just sitting and eating and having a groovy life style with out responsibility.
When she asked for food, they should have told her to help herself and also bring food for others.
In our times , no girl how ever rich they were, were allowed to jst sit around and pamper themselves.
In traditional houses, girls were expected to do house work. In educated modern families, they
Were expected to learn house work plus manage out side affairs and get a job or invlve in a
Creative hobby.
Sanchi is too idle and her only pass time is her stupid friends.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A child who is loved and given proper attention never turns out to be like sanchi.
Its only those who were deprived of love and attention in childhood try to seek attention in some or the other way like sanchi.

From the way shekhars are behaving with her, especially her own father always ready to pounce on her, it is quite obvious that she was given only material things not love and understanding.
Edited by Shinya - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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When I read the title, I thought it was about ganga...😆
Only in her case, it is "how its possible" 😆😆 rest all are normal and possible.

Today she was recording her own speech to her unborn child ..found it extremely silly 🤪

then thought may be she is actually going to die and then jagya will make the child listen to the recording on his/her birthday... like shahrukh's movie in which rani mukherjee dies leaving a bunch of letters for her child to read on her birthday every year...

height of silliness... torture to watch BH scenes...🤢


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Regarding family calling her for food - she is around 23-24 years old (considering she has completed her MBA some months back) it should be she who has to invite elders for food. Instead of calling her mom/CM - she could easily have gone to kitchen/fridge to take the pastry.

I think we should not try to find reasons why Sanchi is like this. It is not anybody's fault - creatives want a negative person and that should be an urban girl - so Sanchi it is. Nothing rational or believable about her or her family's interaction with her. No girl will spoil her own life and her own family's life like Sanchi - she is just not real enough to find any reason behind her behaviour.

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