Sanchi needs THERAPY not PUNISHMENT

Originally posted by: Debbiee

"Misbehaviour and punishment are not opposites that cancel each other; on the contrary, they breed and reinforce each other." - Haim Ginott

I strongly believe people like Sanchi need positive counselling and therapy by a psychologist rather than sending to prison or any big punishment. She should be sent to some good "Anger Management", "Behaviour Management" sessions and should be under close watch for sometime for improvements.

Many people feel that if she is not controlled and punished at this time then she could commit more severe crimes even could commit murder or similars. Punishment creates terror and temporarily subside the aggression in a person's mind.

However I feel that we should access the root cause behind this strange behaviour and find a direct or alternate solution to it.

I think one of the major reasons of her aggression is JEALOUSY. The "J" factor is initiated because of Anandi who now has been centre of attraction for both her ever loving big brothers. She needs attention, recognition. She is intelligent, dedicated towards her goal (well whatever she take it as) and might be a good student as well. When she would get some achievements in her own field her aggression would take a new turn in life and may be she would prove herself a winner like what Anandi did at one point of time.

After all aggression is always good if used positively 😳

"An eye for an eye would make the whole world blind" - Gandhi

Punishment is a temporary solution; as soon as the fear of punishment gone the evil comes back in action.

Well I think it's difficult and rare to find a person like Anandi.

But each household might definitely be having a Sanchi. I encounter many such people in office as well; ill-mannered, selfish, destructive. And yes, it's their basic nature. But why?

There is no problem in this world without solution, nothing is impossible and nobody is a born criminal.

If you imprison Sanchi then how many Sanchis would go to prison? The prison cells would fall short of rooms. In our country we got bigger problems and bigger crimes. So we need to be practical.

We need to find out the root cause behind such temper and ill-manner. Her aggression needs a channel. Who knows may be she would come up as a big something in life if handled properly. One just needs to mould her in right way.

Do you people know what a female has to face in a prison or in a mental asylum? Mostly ladies face molestation, rape, abuse; well I never believed this until I read few real life incidents in newspaper and some art movies. If she stays there she would get even worse.

I am asking you, if she had been your sister, daughter, mother; would you still send her to prison or get her treated?

Originally posted by: -Hima-

How about a jail term for wasting court time, deception and attempting suicide WITH psychiatric counselling!! She needs both in my opinion to change for the better!