Anandi and Shiv should live separately

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After this drama gets over i really want Anandi to make Shekhars realize how it feels to ask your family to leave you...would it be wrong if later on Anandi asks Shiv to choose to either leave her and live with his own family or come with her and live separately...Shiv does not need to cut his contacts with his own family but i feel it's better if AnSh just shifts from KB...after what Shekhars are doing with Anandi and how Ira behaved with Anandi i think Anandi has full right to not live in the house where people make her feel outsider and she is insulted by a girl who is lot younger than her in both relation and age...i wish Anandi says this to Shiv and asks him to move to Govt. house...what is wrong in living separately specially when you have a so-called family like Shekhars...i don't want shekhars to say we have got such a good bahu just because anandi forgets and forgives everyone and stays in KB...by keeping quiet and forgiving everyone and returning back even after so much insult does not make any obedient bahu...i want BV to give a message that if a bahu is asked by her in-laws to leave her own family and completely cut ties even with her mother then even bahu has right to live separately with her husband and not live in house where members don't make her feel like family

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Jan50 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I fully agree. Now the relationship is not so sweet like before. There is some bitterness from
Ira and Sanchi. A has every right to live in peace. It is her prerogative to ask Shiv if they can move out.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi will never move out unless kicked out, maybe ira will ask them to move out or make shiv choose.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I will recommend living separately for any couple, even though Sanchi scheming to move to mumbai
Irritated me. 😆If she was a normal girl I would have accepted her desire.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

I will recommend living separately for any couple, even though Sanchi scheming to move to mumbai

Irritated me. 😆If she was a normal girl I would have accepted her desire.

The day they showed KB house I knew ansh will shift to that house soon. They were better living alone in CH and there too the writer got CM and saanchi in the initial days. The same think will happen to Jagan couple. Just to make anandi bahu number one in shekhars house and rift btw 2 families they transferred shiv to udaipur. Regressive thinking of the writer and no creativity but repeating the same story of bahu getting adjusted to the new family, taking nonsense from saas and hiding things from husband giving excuses that she did not want to hurt them😡
There is no creativity left in the show now.
I agree better couples live separately.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't expect. This is for pendu audience.

They will never show Anandi leaving. Even if Shekhars kick her out. Still she will be lying around some corner outside their gate.

Strong women or those who show others the mirror are treated like vamps here.

Anandi will kiss the ground where Shekhars walk and remember all FBs of being kicked by DS yet still returning to BH after Bhago's mahaan lectures.

Shekhars have begged apologies from her many times. And she has wept and forgiven them. She will do it again and go back to holding food trays for them or dusting about their house like a slave and getting some minor allowances like doing social work on Sundays.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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how i wish that happens!!!
its the right thing to show.

and honestly, if they show anandi forgives shekhars and continues as before waiting for another drama to befold n get insulted again, it will just give the message to the whole country that bahus are supposed to forget every insult meted out to them no matter what and forgive her in-laws and never even think of staying seperately and only then she's a good bahu

i want to see anandi leaving shekhars for some time to make shiv realise his mistakes n have a good discussion with anandi about their future.

they should mutually decide to live separately and maintain good relationship with both families without any bitterness but have their own space.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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They will never show Anandi leaving. Even if Shekhars kick her out. Still she will be lying around some corner outside their gate.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab

how i wish that happens!!!

its the right thing to show.

and honestly, if they show anandi forgives shekhars and continues as before waiting for another drama to befold n get insulted again, it will just give the message to the whole country that bahus are supposed to forget every insult meted out to them no matter what and forgive her in-laws and never even think of staying seperately and only then she's a good bahu

i want to see anandi leaving shekhars for some time to make shiv realise his mistakes n have a good discussion with anandi about their future.

they should mutually decide to live separately and maintain good relationship with both families without any bitterness but have their own space.


am not for a moment defending ira and sanchi, but one thing is clear...in a lot of communities...even well educated families...this is how bahus are expected to behave...just digest insults.assuming that the other person was distressed, had lost his/her patience and is otherwise so nice...blah..blah...and yes walking out is a very rare option (most of the sons might not support the idea). however, what surprises me is the potrayal of Anandi...Even in normal families, the bahus do speak about their rights and have courage to express their displeasure..and that typically takes off a big burden off the bahus...I have seen that if the dil gives it back to her in-laws on the right issues...they also stop taking the bahus for granted and behave more properly.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Don't expect. This is for pendu audience.

They will never show Anandi leaving. Even if Shekhars kick her out. Still she will be lying around some corner outside their gate.

Strong women or those who show others the mirror are treated like vamps here.

Anandi will kiss the ground where Shekhars walk and remember all FBs of being kicked by DS yet still returning to BH after Bhago's mahaan lectures.

Shekhars have begged apologies from her many times. And she has wept and forgiven them. She will do it again and go back to holding food trays for them or dusting about their house like a slave and getting some minor allowances like doing social work on Sundays.



She will not allow them to ask for forgiveness in the first place.

She is a perfect doormat wearing that ghagra. A sex toy for Shiv.

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